Would you include your sona in an adult drawing?
10 years ago
Hey guys! I need some advice.
I've been asked several times if I am willing to include my sona, Leona, in an adult commission, I have to be honest and say that I am flattered, that means people like my characters C:
A year ago I had a boyfriend who was very possessive and back then it was out of question. Now he's no longer part of my life or my art (e.g this & that )
I don't see Leona as myself or myself as Leona, she's a character I made a few years ago which represents my nature and maybe some visual treats- but she's NOT me.
However- people see it otherwise and might take it the wrong way seeing her being humped by a random fellow on the submissions-page ...
What would you do if you were in my shoes? Would you agree to draw your fursona in an adult artwork or would you hold a big neon sign saying "AH-HELL-NO"?
Thanks for the helpers! <3
I've been asked several times if I am willing to include my sona, Leona, in an adult commission, I have to be honest and say that I am flattered, that means people like my characters C:
A year ago I had a boyfriend who was very possessive and back then it was out of question. Now he's no longer part of my life or my art (e.g this & that )
I don't see Leona as myself or myself as Leona, she's a character I made a few years ago which represents my nature and maybe some visual treats- but she's NOT me.
However- people see it otherwise and might take it the wrong way seeing her being humped by a random fellow on the submissions-page ...
What would you do if you were in my shoes? Would you agree to draw your fursona in an adult artwork or would you hold a big neon sign saying "AH-HELL-NO"?
Thanks for the helpers! <3
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For example, I wouldn't agree drawing the feral form in a sexual matter- it was created when I was 15 and it would be so disturbed....
Thanks for the help!
The me character? Never with anyone who I wasn't really close to. So far noone.
The anthro form on the other hand was made when I joined this community, and she's not that significant for me in the "conservative" way. So I am really uncertain about it
I guess some clarifications would be necessary if I agreed to those commissions...
Just avoid anything that you think you could not like
that is at least my point of view. *bows respectfully*
While she's obviously not me (I don't have tits or ovaries, lmao!), she's a representation of my personality, aspirations, and ideals; none of which house a desire to share myself with people I'm not super close to. To do so wouldn't feel true to my character, or myself. (I'm way more adverse with the feral form, but a lot that carries over to anthro as well). Making art of my 'sona banging someone I'm dating IRL feels different, because it reflects a reality. It wouldn't feel like I'm creating a chasm between us or driving my 'sona away from me. I've considered designing other OCs almost exclusively for adult pieces, though.
... but that's what I'd do, in my shoes, with my 'sona! XD
If I were in your shoes, I'd do whatever feels right, most natural, or otherwise resonates with your core values. It depends on what the character means to you, how you interpret such art, if the money is more desirable, etc. Furries are a frisky bunch, and they'll pay top dollar for content of this nature! - and if the entire fandom was as selfish and uptight with their character(s) as I am... then I'd have damn near nothing to fap to LOL! XD I think it's totally fine. Nothing wrong with it, and it's kind of the norm around here anyway. The added bonus is that you get to draw a lot of your own character.
I suppose, if you wanted, I could always commission you to bang my 'sona... Since I'm equally as iffy about the idea, and was considering commissioning a mature piece from someone anyway.
Might be a good way to test the waters, but that's up to you.
1. If I'm good enough friends with the person who I'm getting the commission with. The last time I got a commission with someone I hardly knew, it wasn't even a sexual commission...and it still felt empty and meaningless. I figure I should just avoid it altogether, unless I was close friends with the person behind the other character. Of course, this also includes my fiance, who I've had a couple pics with.
2. If I felt it was in-character. Out-of-character moments are pretty jarring, and it just leads me to not caring about the situation they're in. I'd say my main character, Lance, is my fursona: he represents me, and since I'm not all that sexually active, it's rare to see him in these situations, with the only exception being rule #1 above. Out of my other 4 characters, only one of them I'd really consider sexually active, so I might be more willing to break rule #1, because at least it'd make sense to him.
In the end, it's up to how you feel about it. Those are just my personal feelings, based on my own experiences.
Another way of putting it is --- "When in doubt, do without."
If you're feeling awkward or unsure of it, then don't do it. Money is nice, but imagine if you did do a piece and then felt really bad afterwards. You can't ever make that go away because you'll know that the piece you created is forever out there, beyond your control. You have other characters that patrons can have their characters get together with, no?
I have a sona that I use in a strictly family friendly way (the monkey) and have no interest in seeing them in sexual pictures.
So I think it's all down to what you envision for your character.
Leo is that nonsense happy face I always knew x3
Seriously, in my crackpot opinion the only important thing here is that you should do what you are comfortable with. It's not a huge moral decision with implications that are going to ruin someone else's life. Therefore your only moral concern is to avoid damaging yourself.
If you're even asking the question that suggests you're not comfortable putting Leona in commissions. If so perhaps you should listen to yourself and not do it. Or do you find the idea fun?
The "twin sister" schtick might actually work, by the way. As a talented artist it might be easy for you to come up with an alternate character quite similar to Leona for untalented fools like me but quite distinct from her as far as you're concerned. The difference could be as large as a different species, one or another of the spottycats perhaps. Or it could be as small as a bit of black on the nose and tail, a different hair style, or (being a bondage freak I must suggest) a collar she always wears.
Finally, a fun trick I use myself sometimes. If you really can't decide, flip a coin; heads you will do the commission, tails you won't. If you flip the coin and, when you see the result, you're satisfied, then obey the coin. But if you feel a shock of disappointment when you see the result, that tells you that you really wanted to go with the other choice all along- so disobey the coin and do what you wanted to do, but didn't know. :)
Thank you so much for the help!
personally, i mostly get erotica drawn up when i'm having no real inspiration and am bored as crap--naturally i insert one of my sluttier characters, who is also my fursona, since he's kinda like "the me i can only wish i was at all. same personality, totally different lives" kinda thing :3
I am rather picky about the content of said art though.
I can certainly understand why someone with a mate would be uncomfortable with it though.
I see it as all in fun really and don't put any more meaning into it than that.
But hey the character is yours, do what thou will, yanno?
Been cataloging my own cast of characters (seventeen) over the past few days and I realize that each character has some small bit of me inside each of them, even the “bad guys”. So consider the emotional consequences before you “pimp out” your character.
There's an alt for that.
LOL
I myself have a hard time keeping a fursona. But when I do find one that at least represents a good portion of my personality, I keep them around for entertainment purposes. For instance, I have an orca-wolf fursona who, although I would classify him as rated R for violence, I would never include him in a sexual scene, because I just don't see him in that light. My bunny, my lion, and my canine, however, would totally be all for it, as apparently I have enough sexuality to put into three separate fursonas. LOL
That said, I have adult art, some of it the 'random guy' type of one fersona (Shekat), while with the other (Wolfkat) adult art isn't strictly forbidden, I'm very spesific what situations she's in and they aren't many.