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Block issue fixed
10 years ago
After talking with the person, the problem has been mended.
Just talking calmly without cursing goes a hell of a long way.
Just talking calmly without cursing goes a hell of a long way.
Thought one person seemed decent enough. Then he said something so horrifyingly insensitive that I don't even remember what he said -- I just remember that I read that and stared at with my jaw hanging open for so long I got dry mouth I was so stunned by it.
More recently, somebody that I was watching commented that "the only good kitsune is a dead kitsune" on artwork of a kitsune O.C. in my own gallery, then got all butt-hurt at me because I took him/her off of watch once again on the artwork of a kitsune O.C. in my own gallery.
It is, unfortunately, not that uncommon an experience. Of the fifteen (+/-) names on my block list, I think only two of three of them weren't people I'd previously considered friends (or at least decent enough), and I have to concede that, of all the people I've blocked, those (and two more that are a long story I won't sidetrack you with) only stick out among the list because I actually remember what happened (sort of). Everybody else on the list, I don't remember what happened at all -- I only remember that I wouldn't have done it if it wasn't something equally as severe.
It wasn't hard for me to figure out who the d-bag was. I also managed to track down what I must assume was the "offending" remark that set them off, and you are [i]definitely in the right on this one (kinda' makes me wish I hadn't deleted the aforementioned wish-your-OC-was-dead remarks).
Just think of this as a learning experience. You thought somebody was decent, but you've since learned otherwise and now know not to expend any future effort into anything involving them.