You might be having a bad time, now but you've just got to keep looking forward and keep the belief that the next day will be better constantly circling through your mind.

Families often always find a way to complain about the smallest thing and blow it out of proportion, just got to try and push them to the back of your mind and focus on yourself and not caring what they think.

*gives you a big fluffy bear hug*

Try to keep your chin up, no one likes to see a sad Husky ;w;

*snuggles back tightly*
Thanks mate, I do genuinely appreciate this. They're just... they're difficult.
But I thank you for this anyway

*hug* i know things seem shit now, we all go through it, but we have to be strong, if not for us then for someone else in the future that may be relying on you to be strong for them, if you give up now you destroy any chance they have.

no matter what happens, we will always get through it, i know what you are going through, exact same situation except my eldest sister is a fashion model/actress that has a successfull career and has even acted in F&F6, she is INSANE HITLER about dieting and since i'm....well lets just say cuddely.... i get crap all the time. i do want to lose weight but i am only 18, things will get better, it's my life and i can lose weight when i want to little by little.

ignore negatives and focus on the positives, things will always get better, it just takes time ^_^ i'm here for you if you want to talk :3

*hug*

oh and just to add to this, ik what it's like to have a difficult family, my dad has meantal issues, my mum is the only one who supports me, i have 2 older sisters, one is bipolar and the other think's she's god, they all talk over whatsapp without me in a family chat and even plot against me. for example:

for my 18th birthday (march) i received no word from anyone in my family let along anything physical, i just shrugged it off as "oh well they forgot" and continued with my life.

2 days ago i found out that this was not the case. my eldest sister on the "family" group chat had persuaded my family to have no contact or send me anything for my 18th birthday to "teach me a lesson". only my mother fought back and said happy birthday. my dad and other sister were completely on-board with this. so for my 'milestone' 18th birthday i received nothing. despite me, for years, helping everyone in the family and forgiving all and generally being a nice person, i helped wherever i could and even almost lost my job because my eldest sister wanted me to see her.

and she did that.

this hurt me, but i know it will get better, if i can get through this stinking 2 bit piece of yankee shit family then you can get through this man, i believe in you :3

*hug*

Oh good god! It sounds like you're the one needing verbal hugs and comfort here, not me!
*embraces in big, squishy hug, stroking the fur between your ears*
I'd say it's going to get better, but I'm not a firm believer in the phrase. People always say it to me, and all I hear is, "Your life is awful, and I can't help."
Seriously though, thank you for this. For the both of us, I hope things get better eventually - life shouldn't be like this.

lol thanks ^_^ we'll get through this man, sometimes things happen and we have no control over it, sometimes you just gotta go dor it, get throught it, roll the hard six. sometimes we just have to deal with it and move on, but you never have to do it alone, i'm a friend to anyone who needs it and i'm here if you need me ok?

yes there is not much i can do, but i can help YOU do something ^_^

Help me do something? I think you're going to have to elaborate - I may write like a smart person, but I'm pretty stupid...

if there's something bothering you i can help you see the positives, YOU can change your life around man! sometimes you just need someone to help :D

Well, thanks! I must be honest, I didn't expect anything like this many people to respond (yes, to me, 5 people (one in notes) is a lot), it's wonderful knowing there are at least some people out there who understand

*hug* us blue huskies are tough as nails! we can get through hell ;) but yeah, if you ever feel down, feel free to drop me a note, i'm always up to a chat :D

Blue huskies are by far the best :)
I shall bear that in mind, if they continue to be so negative. Thank you for your support!

no problem bud :D

Firstly, thanks for the watch. I'm sorry to hear that your family is giving you grief. I don't know you really, but I can empathize. In the end, you have to do what is right for you. I will say though, in my experience, family chills out after you get past the first like 20 pounds. I still occasionally get stuff, but not quite as bad as before. (and I don't mean to say I know what you are going through, either) Anyhow, its a journey, and I encourage you to keep going if it is what you want. I'm always around to talk.

Well, you're incredibly welcome for the watch!
My problem is just that though - getting past any sort of real gain. If they're noticing a gain as small as this, I dread to think what another 18lbs will make them do. My mum is completely psychotic when it comes to matter of weight, getting anything past her is a nightmare.
I do thank you for this though. I know I don't know you (I only know a handful of people here IRL, really), but it's comforting knowing at least a few people in the world are ok with me just being me. So again, my thanks.

I hope you are able to get to a better place. It sucks having negative things surround you - people who don't support you, or who think they're supporting you by criticizing you for not being their ideal. Be your awesome self - do the things you need to get yourself happy and in a good place. Write, create - imagine some wonderful fun - and enjoy yourself until life recovers and you're happy again. I wish you all the best

Thank you for this. I know they're only trying to help, but they don't understand that what they're doing is only making things worse :s
Thank you anyway though

I understand that the struggle is very real, and I hope things improve for ya. I understand how terrible families can be. Things will get better trust me :)

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