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10 years ago
Banning Followup Journal
So tes been about a month since I got the ban notice from the WFCP Secret Santa. I have had time to think things over, discuss things with friends and family, and also go to a few other furry related events like Furloween and Elliots Fall Festival, which gave me opportunities to sniff around for answers. Un fortunately my search ended up being pretty much fruitless. None of the staffers I asked seem to have any idea about what happened or why, there are two ive yet to confront but im convinced that my search will turn up the same results with them as well. Now whether they are telling me the truth or covering for the accuser or this so called “Secret Santa”, ill never know, mainly because im not aggressive enough to try and pry it out of them, and also because im just not really giving that much of a shit about it anymore. On the other hand I did speak to the person I mentioned in the past journal who punched thru the wall after being non-consentually handcuffed while drunk. He apparently never got a ban notice after that, and also had a friend who was accused of pleasuring himself in one of the hallways, the allegations being false.
In any case I decided that its best to leave it here and not pursue it anymore as it has been simmering and broiling inside me since it happened and has made me really depressed and depressing to be around. At Furloween and Elliots Fall, I found it hard to relax and enjoy the party mood because my head was so focused on finding answers, as well as trying to keep myself in check, treating the events as if they were a Trump Plaza gala social party as opposed to a fur con, which resulted in much less hugging, no pawtography and no paw play, which im sure probably pleased at least somebody there, dunno who. I even missed out on goin to my friend Wild Wolf’s Trick or Treat Haunted House deal for fear of getting in the way and getting too excited to be around my fellow fursuitin friends like Double D, Tilt Longtail, and WildWolf. Even when I went over for the pre Haloween party at his place I spent most of the evening in his room watching You Tube, in an effort to keep myself out of trouble. Its so bad I ended up making plans for other events not associated with furry just to have maybe a smidgen more fun. Thanks to my weekend off work schedule ive been able to go to quite a few car shows, classic, tuner, exotic, etc,. I do seem to worry less and have fun more at these events, mainly because im just into lookin at and photographing cars; plus no one cares if I take pics of their car’s footpaws (wheels). Plus as a bonus I got to meet Vanilla Ice at one of the car shows so….awesome!
So, anyways, ive been trying to move on from this debacle so I can have at least one less stressful thing to think about. I got stuff going on at work, which is being renovated and remodeled during the night so I gotta be in at 5 AM just to clean the floors before opening time. Also im tryin to get full time so I can get better pay and stuffs. While I do try to move on I want to thank my friends who came to my side and supported me thru this drama; you know who you are. Pretty much everyone ive brought this up to agreed that it was total BS and that its just a bunch of unnecessary crap that’s not worth my time. However if by next year the ban is lifted, I MAY….MAY….go back again. But if they pull this again when I make the attempt then im pretty much gonna cut all ties with this event and find something else to do. Honestly though its not an easy decision to make for me considering all the good memorines I have from actually being there. The party itself is fun, and the idea of a dedicated set of floors all rented out for us is a novelty in itself. As I write this though I found another example of why this event is becoming a bit shady. Apparently I got another email from the Secret Santa saying the hotel has records of me caling a couple of times to cancel my reservation. I have done no such thing yet. So now theres people pretending to be me doing things on my behalf . This is really strange and slightly unnerving and all the more reason why I feel I cannot make my presence known at this event anymore.
A lot of people say I should go to MFF this year as the alternative. However its way too close to make any preps for it as the two hotels are booked solid, and its way too expensive for me right now. Ill probably use the time off I had for it to just relax as the alternative plans I was making with a friend ALSO fell thru, which makes this past Elliots Fall Festival my last furry event tentatively for the year, tho theres a possibly alternative Xmas party closer to me that I will most likely attend if I can. In the meantime im just going to focus on more positive things. I have the Miami International Auto Show coming up this weekend, which ill be going to with my friends
sibirlupus, 
rieshal and 
springstar hopefully, along with possibly more car related events next month. Anything else? Well we’ll see how she goes.
~Convoy
So tes been about a month since I got the ban notice from the WFCP Secret Santa. I have had time to think things over, discuss things with friends and family, and also go to a few other furry related events like Furloween and Elliots Fall Festival, which gave me opportunities to sniff around for answers. Un fortunately my search ended up being pretty much fruitless. None of the staffers I asked seem to have any idea about what happened or why, there are two ive yet to confront but im convinced that my search will turn up the same results with them as well. Now whether they are telling me the truth or covering for the accuser or this so called “Secret Santa”, ill never know, mainly because im not aggressive enough to try and pry it out of them, and also because im just not really giving that much of a shit about it anymore. On the other hand I did speak to the person I mentioned in the past journal who punched thru the wall after being non-consentually handcuffed while drunk. He apparently never got a ban notice after that, and also had a friend who was accused of pleasuring himself in one of the hallways, the allegations being false.
In any case I decided that its best to leave it here and not pursue it anymore as it has been simmering and broiling inside me since it happened and has made me really depressed and depressing to be around. At Furloween and Elliots Fall, I found it hard to relax and enjoy the party mood because my head was so focused on finding answers, as well as trying to keep myself in check, treating the events as if they were a Trump Plaza gala social party as opposed to a fur con, which resulted in much less hugging, no pawtography and no paw play, which im sure probably pleased at least somebody there, dunno who. I even missed out on goin to my friend Wild Wolf’s Trick or Treat Haunted House deal for fear of getting in the way and getting too excited to be around my fellow fursuitin friends like Double D, Tilt Longtail, and WildWolf. Even when I went over for the pre Haloween party at his place I spent most of the evening in his room watching You Tube, in an effort to keep myself out of trouble. Its so bad I ended up making plans for other events not associated with furry just to have maybe a smidgen more fun. Thanks to my weekend off work schedule ive been able to go to quite a few car shows, classic, tuner, exotic, etc,. I do seem to worry less and have fun more at these events, mainly because im just into lookin at and photographing cars; plus no one cares if I take pics of their car’s footpaws (wheels). Plus as a bonus I got to meet Vanilla Ice at one of the car shows so….awesome!
So, anyways, ive been trying to move on from this debacle so I can have at least one less stressful thing to think about. I got stuff going on at work, which is being renovated and remodeled during the night so I gotta be in at 5 AM just to clean the floors before opening time. Also im tryin to get full time so I can get better pay and stuffs. While I do try to move on I want to thank my friends who came to my side and supported me thru this drama; you know who you are. Pretty much everyone ive brought this up to agreed that it was total BS and that its just a bunch of unnecessary crap that’s not worth my time. However if by next year the ban is lifted, I MAY….MAY….go back again. But if they pull this again when I make the attempt then im pretty much gonna cut all ties with this event and find something else to do. Honestly though its not an easy decision to make for me considering all the good memorines I have from actually being there. The party itself is fun, and the idea of a dedicated set of floors all rented out for us is a novelty in itself. As I write this though I found another example of why this event is becoming a bit shady. Apparently I got another email from the Secret Santa saying the hotel has records of me caling a couple of times to cancel my reservation. I have done no such thing yet. So now theres people pretending to be me doing things on my behalf . This is really strange and slightly unnerving and all the more reason why I feel I cannot make my presence known at this event anymore.
A lot of people say I should go to MFF this year as the alternative. However its way too close to make any preps for it as the two hotels are booked solid, and its way too expensive for me right now. Ill probably use the time off I had for it to just relax as the alternative plans I was making with a friend ALSO fell thru, which makes this past Elliots Fall Festival my last furry event tentatively for the year, tho theres a possibly alternative Xmas party closer to me that I will most likely attend if I can. In the meantime im just going to focus on more positive things. I have the Miami International Auto Show coming up this weekend, which ill be going to with my friends
sibirlupus, 
rieshal and 
springstar hopefully, along with possibly more car related events next month. Anything else? Well we’ll see how she goes.~Convoy
I still believe in innocent until proven guilty and the right to face one's accuser.