Whats that?

I won't read theirs unless they let me, but I let them read mine. No one I've dated has taken me up on the offer, really.

Ugh... no way. I would never want to see their chats - that's very private, just as I would never want them reading mine. Same goes for E-mail, passwords, etc. Privacy is something that should be respected, especially amount mates.

I tend to be quite jealous and often misinterpret things or assume things for no reason but even then I wouldn't wanna read my partner's private e-mails or chat logs.

...you know, the fact that I'm interested in other people's conversations really has nothing to do with whether I'm in a relationship with them, or even interested romantically.

so, my answer is yes, but not just because they're my significant other, if that makes sense. and of course, they're welcomed to read my chats too, even if they don't allow me to read theirs. :P

Nope. There are things that should kept private, as being too nosy mostly destroys realtionships. And, if I'm honest, I'm happier knowing nothing about stuff my partner wouldn't show me because there is a reason he/she doesnt want me to see it. Nice discussion after all, definitly worth following :D

No. Nope. No thanks. HELL NO. If you can't trust your partner then your relationship is already in serious trouble.
Openly communicating with them about your concerns and fears is a freakin' must. If your partner isn't comfortable
discussing something with you then you need to respect that we all have friends for a reason. Trust is of supreme
importance in almost every kind of relationship.

I think both are important... :P but it has limits.

There's a difference between peeking a bit and stepping on private territory, we can peek a bit sometimes, we're all curious anyway.. :P but we shouldn't get parano about it. If your partner discovers you're spying on him very often he will feel offended because that'll mean that you don't trust him enough.

That kind of parano/hyper jealous behavior totally ruin relationships.

On the other side, trusting your partner too much can sometimes allow him to manipulate you. If you give a peek and discover your partner holds a relationship with someone else behind your back, then you can fix the situation and it becomes important to talk with your partner to decide what to do. We all do mistakes and it comes from both sides: one feeling love to someone else for a relationship that has no future, and the other breaking too fast. Both might regret it later.

Well....
Tbh if be curious but I wouldnt Invade there personal space

Not unless he gave me reason to.

Can't answer yes or no to this... :/

I mean, I wouldn't want to invade their privacy, but also unless they have a surprise, they shouldn't have anything to hide. And of course I would be curious to know how they interact with people who aren't me.

Not at all. That's an invasion of privacy that'll lead strictly to distrust.

I let kyden read whatever he wants, whenever he wants. He gets a cuck boner from me flirting with people :3c

"cuck boner"

you deserve a prize

Nah, a true femboy would never snoop or look through chats. Unless they were deliberately told to leave the kitchen and do so.

I know it'd only crush my heart so no

Curious yes, but would I do it? No.

I find my partner fucking hilarious, the chats he has with his friends are true gems.
I want to see his chats, for that! To see how he is chatting with other people.. if he's as funny or if I'M at the butt of some of his jokes! :3
Personal space is great and all, but I'd give it up to bring him and I closer through laughter.

I am in a (romantic) relationship with someone, I wouldnt mind AT ALL if he wanted to see my chats, and I know he wouldnt mind either if I wanted to see his (though I never asked him to, and he never asked me). I would feel offended if I saw him peeking in my conversations, he knows he can simply ask me.
We have been together for 3 years and never had any kind of problem related to this ^^ even though im pretty jealous, I just trust him.

Can I choose the third option? I peek over his shoulder, read _some_ chats, but it's his personal space and if he says no then I don't. I'm just a nosey bugger about everything - at work I even try to get knowledge of every project I'm not a part of. Because I wanna know!

Past tense, No. If you're broken up with them, why do you need to see this?
It's like a dog that pukes and goes back to eat his own vomit. Just not good.

Present, No. That's a trust issue. It's the same to me as being a drama queen.
As the saying goes... "Keep on looking for it... Eventually, you'll find it!" yup!!!

This is a great little journal - Much love to ya, Waggy Mutt!!!

Outside of sating my curiosity, I've no reason to look at my partner's chats. It's bad to go looking for trouble

Not really. I think there's a certain level of privacy that should be given (depending on the length of said relationship). With that being said, there needs to be a lot of trust established in a sturdy relationship; so that you shouldn't even be tempted to snoop. Of course, if I have nothing to hide, they would probably know about all the detail anyways.

I used to be really bad for snooping, but I've since calmed down since then.

My mate hardly ever chats with anyone online anyway, so nothing really to see.

I'm just interested in reading other people's conversations in general. If they didn't want me to I would respect that, just like I would anyone else. But if they didn't care, I'd just do it out of sheer curiosity. I would like to let them have their privacy.

Would I be curious? Probably. Would I think it's a good idea to act on that curiosity? Probably not.

Well no, I have enough trust towards him to know that he has nothing to hide from me