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A note on semantics and the definitions of words.
10 years ago
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The musings of a neurotic egotist. IT'S A WORDY JOURNAL OF WORDS.
This isn't about pronouns and the derogatory transgender definition things, because I really, really can't be persuaded to care. It's ignorance, not ill-feeling.
GLOSSING OVER THAT.
Subbing does not equal bottoming.
Domming does not equal topping.
That is why there are subby tops and power bottoms.
Get it?
Got it?
Good.
Now I can wear SubTop like a badge. YAY
This isn't about pronouns and the derogatory transgender definition things, because I really, really can't be persuaded to care. It's ignorance, not ill-feeling.
GLOSSING OVER THAT.
Subbing does not equal bottoming.
Domming does not equal topping.
That is why there are subby tops and power bottoms.
Get it?
Got it?
Good.
Now I can wear SubTop like a badge. YAY
CORRECT ANSWER
Seriously, i do believe i understand your thoughts. Cant really be bound by the definition of a word.
Like, a top can ONLY be a top and nothing else
and a power bottom can ONLY be a bottom and nothing else.
well.... i rather not be bound...ya know? Am i making sense? xD
Yeah, kinda. A top isn't the same as a dom, and a bottom isn't the same as a sub. <3
wait....did someone say SUBway? >u> MAKE ME A CHICKEN BACON RANCH CATMAN~! ON THE DOUBLE! theres a big ol tip for ya hur hur hur hur hur~!
Most overused joke ever.
Srsly doe.
Get in my bed.
Tops do the dicking, bottoms TAKE the dicks.
And yet, the bottom can dominate. That's what handcuffs are for!
It might be my headspace interfering, but I have trouble imagining how a submissive top would work. May I have a little more insight please?
Thank you for sharing!
I hate having to explain that.
We start somewhere around "just because I'm dominant doesn't mean I want to be the one to do EVERYTHING" and we wind up somewhere around "OHHH so you TOP from the BOTTOM UGH" and then I hit them. A lot.
Honestly. All I want is to fuck on my own terms, even if the desired fuck involves me with my ass in the air and my face ground into the pillows. It isn't THAT difficult. T_T
And I guess it's a bit like riding a wild horse. You can never be FULLY prepared.
What the fuck does dominance have to do with verticality? Why does being "ontop" automatically imply control? By that logic shouldn't all tall people be dommes and all short tiny folk be subs, because the ones "closer to the ground" are CLEARLY the submissives, eh? xD
All valid points. >:O
this works