That's a person you don't need in your life and they will just keep making you feel miserable. Just remind yourself every day that you are so much better off without them bringing you down and hopefully that will help at least a little. It definitely won't be an easy thing to do, but I think if you just try to keep yourself occupied and block all means of contact, things will get better.

Also, if this doesn't make sense, it's because I'm falling asleep at my keyboard and this is the last thing I'm doing before I pass out, but I hope everything works out.

Thank you so much ; ;

Oh wow, I know this very well. What worked for me was completely deleting their number from my phone, downloading an app to block texts from them, blocked emails, and finally I unfriended, unfollowed, and blocked them from all social media. Personally, I had to go completely cold turkey to end it. They made attempts but eventually got the point and moved on after a few months.

You are absolutely doing the right thing. Someone who hates you and treats you so poorly is not a friend. You should be able to speak freely with friends, not tip-toe around. Friends boost your spirits and give you confidence, not tear you down. Just keep reminding yourself of that. Good luck, you can do it!

I will do my best

ive been thru this myself and let me tell u, its so much better on the other side. its really hard to GET THERE especially cause you feel bad for cutting them out or abandoning them, but they are not worth having in your life if they are being abusive. its not fair that they keep you at their beck and call and on an emotional rollercoaster, thats not how friendships should work.
they clearly dont have your best interests at heart. i know its very hard but YOU are your longest commitment. you owe it to yourself to take good care of your emotional + mental health.

if you need someone to talk to, feel free to message me anytime, ive been there.

I just might... its pretty rough they were my best friend for about.. 8 years. I will do my best and thank you.

This isn't a friendship you're in and you need to do what is best for your health. You need to remind yourself that while you will miss them and wish you could reconnect and perhaps people can change, it is best for both of you to be removed from this relationship. You are enabling the behavior by staying. This person sounds like a very selfish person who will continue to use you because they know you will stay and won't leave. When you constantly have to walk on eggshells, it's not worth it in the end. It is mentally and physically bad for you and this person. Please try and remind yourself of the following: You are better off without this person. This person is better off without you. Now I know that sounds harsh but they need a reality check. If they continue to believe they can treat people like this, they will never form real friendships. You cutting ties might be the wake up call they need. If not, well hey. You'll be in a better place without the stress and you can say you tried to better their life and help them. I really wish you luck. Another thing to remember is that what you're doing is insanity. You have done this before and are still expecting different results. The cycle can only be broken when something breaks it. And right now, the one who needs to break this cycle is you. :)

Its harsh but true, thank you for your words

You are very welcome. I've been in your shoes before and it is really hard. But I believe you can do this. You need to surround yourself with positive people in your life that will give you strength. Not bring you down. This is a healing process. You will go through the same stages you go through with death. It is the end of a friendship but in the long run, you will be happier and hopefully this person will better themselves from the experience. If you ever need a boost of confidence, please feel free to note me. I will help in whatever way I can. Especially if you feel yourself wanting to slip back into the same habit of talking to this friend. Remember, you aren't alone in this. So use the resources everyone here can give you and I can assure you, in a few months you will be happier. Even if right now it seems like it won't play out like this.

It will be hard at first but time heals most of the wounds. the faster you do it the better because this ''friendship'' is absolutely toxic.

Try to talk more to other people while you are healing from the friendship and just keep your mind busy from this certain person.

If for some reason you still wanna try once again with the person do it after enough time has passed for the person to maybe realize their own mistakes as well and hope that they have changed. If this isn't the case, just know that it really isn't worth it.

Please don't be stupid, I've also been in a relationship like this but with actual physical/mental abuse and I was an absolute idiot for thinking that it was okay because I was scared to be left alone and I cared about him for some damn reason even if he did all the bad things to me. I couldn't think of life without him but I let him hurt me for 4 years because I was scared of life and what it would be without him.

Then I found a person who I started to spend time more and I started to lose interest towards this guy who hurt me by simply just spending more time with others. I started to realize there's life after the person. And I'm sure you would realize that soon enough how bad company that person been for you.

Remember the good times as a good memories but also remember why you had to cut the ties. Don't sugarcoat it. And if its hard to remember, write the things up because once you see them on a paper all together, imagine someone else had wrote that paper about their friend and you will realize how horrible things has happened AND it is really YOUR life not someone elses.

; = ; Thank you Valy ; ;

This situation happened to me in college and at the time I was a very meek person who was super afraid of upsetting people. I had this girl who before we moved in together were the best of friends, we had the same interests and passion...But when I got into our dream program before her (I really didn't expect it at all), she got rather unstable and blamed me constantly for the long hours in class that interfered with our apartment life.

In the end she convinced me to bring in more room mates, along with herself who ruined the apartment that was under my name (painted all the walls with bad paint/tried installing stuff that was illegal to the buliding, giant holes in walls, etc)...Was aggressive to my cat while ignoring her own and finally one late night back from school...She came out of her room screaming at me, slapped me and blamed it all on me (though I was barely there due to classes).

It was my very amazing friend from class, who took me in during the incident (I had run off in shock) and had me call the cops...Even when I was half convinced my aggressor wasn't all that to blame. My aunt was the second name on the apt and after our buliding manager told her about the incident, everyone was evicted due to they were just occupants.

It was messy, emotionally awful and horrid due to I lost a lot mutual friends who sided with the girl who hit me...But I really learned a lesson from it all, to stop feeling sorry for people who took out their frusterations on me and took advantage of my trust. This particuliar person found me a year or two later and apologized, of course blaming it on another roomate we had at that time...But honestly I will never forgive the hell she put me through to remind myself to recognize/avoid people like her in the future.

If you have other better people in your life, ask them to be your support to stay away from the one hurting you (who aren't mutual friends with the other party). They can be your anchor like my real bf did and help you steer clear when you're feeling like letting toxic people into your life. I totally understand how damaging this process is...To suddenly not have someone you cared SO much for....Then have to start all over.

I hope you find the strength to kick the person hurting you to the curb. No one deserves to be treated like you described in your post.

Thank you.. I am currently in the kicked to the curb state so by tradition they would be coming back for me... but after all of this and all of these words I think I finally have a more firm standing to say no.

*Hugs~!* And definitely go treat yourself/distract from the situation since you're taking steps to move away from it all! The less time you spend thinking about them by doing something you enjoy (that doesn't remind you of them), it helps with getting you back into a better groove (I play Monster Hunter/go for walks with other buds in these kinds of situations lol).

I've gone through this, it really hard. Sometime u still have urges to "go back" every time they try and contact me.
Some things I had to do were to completely block them from every site i go to, furaffinity, deviantart, twitter, skype, tumble, ect. So they will not get the chance to contact you at all. If you have friends that are also friends with the person making you feel this way, you must make it clear to them that you want nothing to do with that person. Chances are they, will try and contact you again through your friends and just make you feel crappy again.

This is what I had to do anyways, I still get upset that my friends mentions they person that caused great harm to me and that they still hang with them. I hope you can get through this and don't become as bitter as me!

They used up most of my love and kindness so I am a somewhat bitter person but I am getting better. Thank you ; n ;

Doing my best to go cold turkey. It just sucks they delete anyone who posts anything about me and removed all friends who have any correlation with me... So in a weird fucked up way its my fault none of them get to talk to her anymore.