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Dude Like what a Total Prick
10 years ago
So I used to have this friend many many years ago that I talked to all the time, we were both in a relationship so it was useful to compare notes and get help every once in awhile. Long story short, she dumped him he had a hard time. He wandered off, Discovered I loved him yada yada. Thing about that was, is apparently he became gay after that and I say became rather then found out for a reason. That's not because he struck me as an uber manly man either. Anyways, so after re-connecting and actually seeing what he looked like via skype. I learned he wasn't at all what I thought he looked like, and he wasn't really my usual type. But he ended up reminding me, that the odd feeling I used to feel was love by acting his usual dorky way. It went on for awhile, and I did eventually tell him how I felt after a extremely intense all night skype session. Don't remember when but I distinctly remember it taking him awhile to come out and tell me even though he had been hinting at it and I had the suspicion. It kinda stung alittle but honestly I felt SO much better after I had remembered how I felt. I mean I was seriously relieved, it had been bothering me after I remembered and sat down thinking god... whats this familiar feeling? ...Shit... Oh shit. Don't tell me... Are you fucking kidding me? and then proceeded to scramble to locate him.
Problem is he wouldn't leave well enough alone, he acted like nothing had changed. Which wouldn't had been a bad thing if it weren't for the painfully obvious flirting. I mean I was still pretty fucked up from the relationship I had before. So yeah, between that and the random showing of his dick and shit made that all confusing. I still cant believe I put up with that kind of treatment just because I felt bad for him and he was once a close friend. But dude he was all kinds of fucked up, like... I'm fucked up in the gore kinda insane way. He was fuck his half sibling fucked up. Yeah, I know right the things I seem to attract. So besides flirting obviously he used love. A lot. in romantic ways. Especially after he became single. After a blow up with a friend that he instigated that fucklation went straight down hill. I didn't trust him anymore, because she and I had proof he was indeed flirting with me romantically along with other things. So she had no reason to come tearing after me anymore being we were the victims. NOT HIM. His excuse was he thought that if he didn't say that he loved me and all that lovey dovey stuff that I wouldn't be his friend anymore. Utter bullshittery am I right? I am one of the few people in my area known to support gay people, I had a lesbian friend that absolutely adored me and although I didn't feel the same way love interest wise I stayed friends with her.
For me, losing people is extremely hard. Because of abandonment issues, I get really clingy and when it comes to friends I'm only close to people I see as trustworthy. Once you betray me, it's over. When I say betray I mean stab me in the back, lie a shiton. So I try not to make being my friend incredibly difficult and make it a statement that I am a kind, caring and dependable friend. He knew that as much as I did because I wasn't the only one having relationship issues. He needed help too. So basically no matter what way it actually was, he lied and lied and lied either way. I ended it myself after talking to my friend, and getting all the proof and details. I also warned him never to hurt my friends again or he would dearly pay for it. Considering ALL the messages had time date stamps on them it wouldn't be very hard to send them to his new boyfriend. Thus he never bothered me again, HOWEVER.
I do check once in awhile to see if the asshole regrets what he did to me and our friendship and only once did he ever feel sorry and immediately went back to how I was lying. Yes, please tell me how my 300+ messages from you of varying content was a lie? especially via skype. Can't really hide that one away now can you? Anyways, so I decide to check things out since something seems to have changed.
There's this thing he said "I don't LIKE female parts" I like you, your personality not your body basically.
SO, what I found out is apparently he's come out as a Transgender now! XD Most likely because he's mentioned here and there that his boyfriend didn't want people to know he was gay, or that he was dating a boy. There was absolutely nothing to say he wanted to be a female when we were on talking terms daily, not even like Feminine clothes. girly hair style. And the fact he point blank said he didn't like female parts?! WHAT THE HELL does he think being trans means? You don't just say you're trans and stay completely the same for your entire life. You make changes to adapt to the gender you feel your should be, and frankly he used to have break downs when anyone thought he was a girl. (Besides the fact that girls often, compliment one another and get all up in the personal space to grope one another or be weird.)So yeah my Skepticism is pretty high, and I'd say he most definitely trying to be an attention whore again since no one from the old group really pay much attention to him anymore.
I just feel bad for the people who actually are Transgender or transitioning. He's a abomination, to the real people who live their whole lives knowing they're the opposite gender sometimes even fearing for their life and having great and amazing courage to admit that that's what they are and that's what makes them happy. That's true courage.
Problem is he wouldn't leave well enough alone, he acted like nothing had changed. Which wouldn't had been a bad thing if it weren't for the painfully obvious flirting. I mean I was still pretty fucked up from the relationship I had before. So yeah, between that and the random showing of his dick and shit made that all confusing. I still cant believe I put up with that kind of treatment just because I felt bad for him and he was once a close friend. But dude he was all kinds of fucked up, like... I'm fucked up in the gore kinda insane way. He was fuck his half sibling fucked up. Yeah, I know right the things I seem to attract. So besides flirting obviously he used love. A lot. in romantic ways. Especially after he became single. After a blow up with a friend that he instigated that fucklation went straight down hill. I didn't trust him anymore, because she and I had proof he was indeed flirting with me romantically along with other things. So she had no reason to come tearing after me anymore being we were the victims. NOT HIM. His excuse was he thought that if he didn't say that he loved me and all that lovey dovey stuff that I wouldn't be his friend anymore. Utter bullshittery am I right? I am one of the few people in my area known to support gay people, I had a lesbian friend that absolutely adored me and although I didn't feel the same way love interest wise I stayed friends with her.
For me, losing people is extremely hard. Because of abandonment issues, I get really clingy and when it comes to friends I'm only close to people I see as trustworthy. Once you betray me, it's over. When I say betray I mean stab me in the back, lie a shiton. So I try not to make being my friend incredibly difficult and make it a statement that I am a kind, caring and dependable friend. He knew that as much as I did because I wasn't the only one having relationship issues. He needed help too. So basically no matter what way it actually was, he lied and lied and lied either way. I ended it myself after talking to my friend, and getting all the proof and details. I also warned him never to hurt my friends again or he would dearly pay for it. Considering ALL the messages had time date stamps on them it wouldn't be very hard to send them to his new boyfriend. Thus he never bothered me again, HOWEVER.
I do check once in awhile to see if the asshole regrets what he did to me and our friendship and only once did he ever feel sorry and immediately went back to how I was lying. Yes, please tell me how my 300+ messages from you of varying content was a lie? especially via skype. Can't really hide that one away now can you? Anyways, so I decide to check things out since something seems to have changed.
There's this thing he said "I don't LIKE female parts" I like you, your personality not your body basically.
SO, what I found out is apparently he's come out as a Transgender now! XD Most likely because he's mentioned here and there that his boyfriend didn't want people to know he was gay, or that he was dating a boy. There was absolutely nothing to say he wanted to be a female when we were on talking terms daily, not even like Feminine clothes. girly hair style. And the fact he point blank said he didn't like female parts?! WHAT THE HELL does he think being trans means? You don't just say you're trans and stay completely the same for your entire life. You make changes to adapt to the gender you feel your should be, and frankly he used to have break downs when anyone thought he was a girl. (Besides the fact that girls often, compliment one another and get all up in the personal space to grope one another or be weird.)So yeah my Skepticism is pretty high, and I'd say he most definitely trying to be an attention whore again since no one from the old group really pay much attention to him anymore.
I just feel bad for the people who actually are Transgender or transitioning. He's a abomination, to the real people who live their whole lives knowing they're the opposite gender sometimes even fearing for their life and having great and amazing courage to admit that that's what they are and that's what makes them happy. That's true courage.
