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Something I need to talk about.
10 years ago
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even the darkest of nights can be beautiful if you know where to look
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even the darkest of nights can be beautiful if you know where to look
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ok, So this rant has been boiling in me for a few months now, and I need to get it out or I'm gonna go insane. this IS a warning that this IS a rant, so if you'd rather not read it, then don't.
BDSM relationships, name the master/pet or master/slave relationships. I feel i need to go over the basics of how such relationships work. and the code of conduct for a relationship.
Masters/Mistress': while there are many good masters out there, I have noticed that some are...not that great. I am speaking from personal experiences. so here is a few things that need to be observed for masters.
1. NO STILL MEANS NO, when a slave/pet gets uncomfortable with something they might be willing to play along to a degree but even so if they use the safeword or start yelling no or stop (If it isn't part of a RP scenario) you are obligated to STOP. BDSM relationships are build off trust and consent and breaking the basic safeword law will shatter your relationship.
2. SLAVES AND PETS ARE STILL HUMAN! no matter if they play the part of pony puppy or kitty they are still human and feel emotions like everone else. so be a good master and make sure they have their basic needs and check up on them from time to time. I'm not saying ever few minutes but going for months at a time without a single hello how are you doing is wrong. busy or not.
3. BE AWARE OF YOUR SLAVE/PETS LIMITS: everyone has limits. so be sure to ask about them before you start doing any kind of BDSM play. while your one pet may have enjoyed breathplay. others aren't so receptive to the idea as it puts them in a situation where one wrong move could outright kill them.
4. BE RESPECTFUL TO THEM, yes they are your pet/slave, and sometime they need to be punished. BUT that does not give you the right to beat them down with words or hurt them badly enough that they can't move. punishment is another form of play and going beyond reason is wrong.
Pets/slaves: masters/mistress' aren't always the ones to blame for break basic rules and conduct for this type of relationship.
1. FOLLOW RULES, you are in a relationship. if your told not to interact withother slaves/masters then you don't interact with them. only your master/mistress has the right to punish or interact with you.
2. BE LOYAL, this is one that really makes me angry at times. you have a good master. you love them yet...your friend has a master that your attracted to so you go behind your masters back and interact with them in a sexual manner. that is NOT OK. your in a relationship with your master. your his pet/slave. you have to have HIS/HER permission to do stuff with others.
3. COMPROMISE: again another one of my pet peeves. your in a relationship where you have kinks that your master/mistress doesn't like but they indulge you anyways. you have to be willing to indulge in some of there kinks too. this is again a relationship there has to be a give and take going on. not just all take.
and there you have it. some things i figured that people needed to remember about a BDSM style relationship. so go ahead and try to justify yourselves in the comments. I won't be reading them or replying to them. good day~<3
Finally someone who stands up for the pets Q.=.Q
And so justifiable, well said and agreeable
Almost forgot, Happy new year!
*hides in his box*