It's funny how you never really know how much of a pet peeve something is until it happens to you. For me it just seems that equivalent exchange is just a natural thing to come by, although we all perceive values differently you still have a general idea of what you have done for someone and the way you've treated them. I'm not saying everything has a cost or you reap what you sow nothing more and nothing less, but if someone has taken a chance the least you can do is somewhat treat them with respect or at the very least pretend to do so. If I've treated you with respect I would expect SOME degree of respect in return. If I've given you something no I don't EXPECT anything back like a bill but I'd rather you pay it going forward. I understand some people have a one perspective mind, I get it some people can't help it but you owe it to yourself not to be close minded and at least contemplate over a decision before making it especially if it affects someone else and other just yourself. I don't know maybe it's just me but it really gets under my skin when people think that they can just get away with treating people all the same but cry when it's done to them I mean come on don't be a hypocrite or at the very least attempt to conceal it better...that's all I really have to say. If I keep going I'm just gonna rant and be pissed more than i already am...