Frustrated Rant...
9 years ago
Until such a time as the world ends, we will act as though it intends to spin on.
I'm about to offend some folks, I know it, but I need to vent so damn bad. So if you're easily offended, or if you take things, that are meant to be general, personally, don't fucking read any further.
If your goal is to be a Douche, keep your nasty ass comments to yourself, or be reported for harassment, your choice.
To my watchers that actually do give a fuck, don't feed the trolls, if you see a nasty comment or a bitching comment, rest assured that I am a big girl and can take care of myself, I will report and block of needed, no need to be a white Knight.
That being said:
THIS JOURNAL IS NOT DIRECTED AT ANY ONE PERSON OR GROUP OF PERSONS, WE ALL FALL ON TOUGH TIMES OCCASIONALLY AND NEED THE HELP OF OUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY.
Something that has really been bothering me lately are all the 'OMFG IT'S AN EMERGENCY! I DON'T HAVE THE MONEY FOR XYZ! I NEED EVERYONE TO SEND ME ALL YOUR MONEY NOW OR I'LL LOSE MY HOME/DOG/ANTHROCON TICKETS AND OR HOTEL RESERVATION! HEEEEEEEEEEELP!'
Now, I don't mind the occasional 'Our car died and we had to spend rent money to get it fixed or lose our jobs to get money to pay rent, I'm opening commissions to raise the funds.' I totally understand that, it's the 'last few days of the month and I don't have the money for rent next month because I spent it on porn!' that really pisses me off. ESPECIALLY WHEN PEOPLE GIVE THEM THE FUCKING MONEY ENERGY GOD DAMMED MONTH!
You need to learn how to BUDGET your money! You need to plan your commissions so you have all the funds you need to LIVE before you get that next piece of porn!
PISS POOR PLANNING ON YOUR PART DOES NOT CONSTITUTE AN EMERGENCY ON THE PART OF THE ENTIRE FUCKING FANDOM!
I will admit that I have asked for help a handful of times, but do you know how often I've received that help?
ONE FUCKING TIME!
I HAVE BEEN HOMELESS, I HAVE HAD MY CHILDREN HAVE TO LIVE WITH FAMILY TWICE BECAUSE OF CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND MY CONTROL; AND YOU KNOW WHO HELPED ME GET THROUGH THAT?
ME! THAT'S WHO! And my husband and the occasional shoulder to cry on.
My point is this: You can't rely on strangers from the aether to bail you out of a situation you have none to blame for print you there but YOU!
Get off your fat furry ass and DO SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR SITUATION IF YOU DON'T FUCKING LIKE WHERE YOU ARE!
AND IF SOMEONE OFFERS YOU NAMES AND ADDRESSES OF FOOD PANTRIES OR SHELTERS IN YOUR AREA, DON'T FUCKING HIDE THE COMMENT AND DEMAND MONEY! THAT'S JUST... YOU MIGHT AS WELL PUNCH THAT PERSON IN THE FACE AND TELL THEM TO GO FUCK THEMSELVES, YOU DON'T WANT THEIR HELP, OR THE TIME AND EFFORT THEY PUT IN TO LOOKING THAT INFORMATION TO HELP YOU BECAUSE THEY GENUINELY CARE FOR YOUR WELL BEING!
IT'S NOT AN EMERGENCY IF IT HAPPENS EVERY FUCKING GOD DAMNED MONTH! IT'S POOR MONEY MANAGEMENT! END OF FUCKING STORY!
I understand if this opinion upsets some of you, you know where the -watch button is. Go use it.
I'm done ranting now.
Thanks for reading it.
I love you all, I just needed to get that of my chest.
If your goal is to be a Douche, keep your nasty ass comments to yourself, or be reported for harassment, your choice.
To my watchers that actually do give a fuck, don't feed the trolls, if you see a nasty comment or a bitching comment, rest assured that I am a big girl and can take care of myself, I will report and block of needed, no need to be a white Knight.
That being said:
THIS JOURNAL IS NOT DIRECTED AT ANY ONE PERSON OR GROUP OF PERSONS, WE ALL FALL ON TOUGH TIMES OCCASIONALLY AND NEED THE HELP OF OUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY.
Something that has really been bothering me lately are all the 'OMFG IT'S AN EMERGENCY! I DON'T HAVE THE MONEY FOR XYZ! I NEED EVERYONE TO SEND ME ALL YOUR MONEY NOW OR I'LL LOSE MY HOME/DOG/ANTHROCON TICKETS AND OR HOTEL RESERVATION! HEEEEEEEEEEELP!'
Now, I don't mind the occasional 'Our car died and we had to spend rent money to get it fixed or lose our jobs to get money to pay rent, I'm opening commissions to raise the funds.' I totally understand that, it's the 'last few days of the month and I don't have the money for rent next month because I spent it on porn!' that really pisses me off. ESPECIALLY WHEN PEOPLE GIVE THEM THE FUCKING MONEY ENERGY GOD DAMMED MONTH!
You need to learn how to BUDGET your money! You need to plan your commissions so you have all the funds you need to LIVE before you get that next piece of porn!
PISS POOR PLANNING ON YOUR PART DOES NOT CONSTITUTE AN EMERGENCY ON THE PART OF THE ENTIRE FUCKING FANDOM!
I will admit that I have asked for help a handful of times, but do you know how often I've received that help?
ONE FUCKING TIME!
I HAVE BEEN HOMELESS, I HAVE HAD MY CHILDREN HAVE TO LIVE WITH FAMILY TWICE BECAUSE OF CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND MY CONTROL; AND YOU KNOW WHO HELPED ME GET THROUGH THAT?
ME! THAT'S WHO! And my husband and the occasional shoulder to cry on.
My point is this: You can't rely on strangers from the aether to bail you out of a situation you have none to blame for print you there but YOU!
Get off your fat furry ass and DO SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR SITUATION IF YOU DON'T FUCKING LIKE WHERE YOU ARE!
AND IF SOMEONE OFFERS YOU NAMES AND ADDRESSES OF FOOD PANTRIES OR SHELTERS IN YOUR AREA, DON'T FUCKING HIDE THE COMMENT AND DEMAND MONEY! THAT'S JUST... YOU MIGHT AS WELL PUNCH THAT PERSON IN THE FACE AND TELL THEM TO GO FUCK THEMSELVES, YOU DON'T WANT THEIR HELP, OR THE TIME AND EFFORT THEY PUT IN TO LOOKING THAT INFORMATION TO HELP YOU BECAUSE THEY GENUINELY CARE FOR YOUR WELL BEING!
IT'S NOT AN EMERGENCY IF IT HAPPENS EVERY FUCKING GOD DAMNED MONTH! IT'S POOR MONEY MANAGEMENT! END OF FUCKING STORY!
I understand if this opinion upsets some of you, you know where the -watch button is. Go use it.
I'm done ranting now.
Thanks for reading it.
I love you all, I just needed to get that of my chest.
Take care of yourself, or you can't take care of anyone else.
Don't dig yourself into a home on my behalf.
Not sure it it will cheer you up, but this song sums up the whole world lol
My little journal http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/7343502/
A song I love, plus it's so true
I'm in a tight spot right now, I lost my job but hopefully I get one soon, I'm close to landing a dream job, just need to be patient.