Update...
10 years ago
Sooooo, development on my end.
Trying to explain the concept to Aesexuality to them was a bit like trying to explain quantum physics when you know nothing about quantum physics and the person you're talking to doesn't think quantum physics is a thing.
So now they just think I'm flat out gay and lying about it.
And my life as it's currently set up sees me renting a property from them for a fair bit less than I'd pay renting from non family.
There is a real possibility of me having to move in the near future...
Uhhh.....
Yep. Fantastic day so far. Monday is a bitch.
Trying to explain the concept to Aesexuality to them was a bit like trying to explain quantum physics when you know nothing about quantum physics and the person you're talking to doesn't think quantum physics is a thing.
So now they just think I'm flat out gay and lying about it.
And my life as it's currently set up sees me renting a property from them for a fair bit less than I'd pay renting from non family.
There is a real possibility of me having to move in the near future...
Uhhh.....
Yep. Fantastic day so far. Monday is a bitch.
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But seriously, just keepnyour chin up and remain stoic! Everything will work out alright.
(big hugs~ <3)
Still though, if I've learned anything in life is that worrying and over thinking makes things worse. Think things through, but at the same time the best game plan, is no game plan.
Mind them and listen, understandably can go a long way. Again, balance.
I don't know your family, and though it sounds bad with how dense they sound, one of the few certainties in like is that its full of uncertainties.
There have actually been times in life that I've fretted thinking my world was over, but really after having a good talk, a stronger bond resulted.
For an example my father used to be ashamed of my sword training, but after I've talked to him and told him that doubled as a form of meditation, he actually took a liking to it.
Also when with my art, he was tired of all my fantasy characters, he thought it was neat at one time before but it was too repetitive to him. He said it wasn't "true art" I told him "True art is defined by the artist who creates it." Although that works the other way around, its all opinion, he knew where I was getting at. I never thought I'd hear my father utter " Tu'che! "
And from there we talked about how we all have our own fortes, our strengths, and weaknesses, and he even agreed saying he's heard the same from my mother. From then on he got more into my work. He still says that he wishes I would do other stuff more, but he is more open-minded and doesn't press it.
It all depends on his mood really.
All in all though, he's grown to accept and get into my work and creations, and even defends me when my brother gets at me for 'living in a fantasy world' saying he likes just how I am and doesn't want a thing about me to change.
I hope this helps. And again, good luck. ^.v.^
What matters, really, is don't ever feel the need to change yourself to make others happy. You know what is true about yourself no matter what others think. Anyone, family, friends, etc. that disagrees with it is THEIR problem; not yours.
Hope things turn around for you. Stay strong, friend.
I remember reading about David Bowie casually telling a reporter he was bisexual, and the reporter recoiling and staring at him like he was from Saturn, and Bowie says that he realized "the guy had never heard that word and thought I meant I had both sets of equipment down there!"
If you can just communicate "I'm not broken, there's nothing wrong with me, I'm just not into sex," hopefully it will work out.
Big hugs!