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ABOUT DIGBIY.
9 years ago
So... where to begin...
I'm not good at these kind of things, nor do I enjoy posting this kind of stuff... but I think I should inform you all of what's been going on with my bull 
... He's been having a hard time with his living conditions for about a year and a half now, struggling to find a job, and being pressured with work around his house, cooking and doing a large number of chores...
It's hard for me to find the words to express how I feel right now with my fluctuating emotions but please bare with me..
Digbiy means the world to me, He's brought me out of a lot of misery and struggle, and has inspired me to even continue my pursuit in art. For the past year I've been trying to provide for him, paycheck by paycheck to cover his rent and expenses for living with his"roommates" (there are about 4 other people living with him including a multitude of dogs) where as the roommates are all closely related Digbiy is the odd ball out. For the time he lived out in Salton City, I could provide for him as much as he needed, I could cover his rent costs and could even buy him food.
Now that he's moved back to L.A about a month ago the cost of living has shot up, and his roommates are require that he pays $400 every month which is completley out of my range. To me there is nothing more chilling and heart breaking than knowing that you cannot protect the person you love. Most of you who know Digbiy might understand that he is a bit shy, and does not really speak out or ask for help when he needs it, its just the kind of bull he is, stubborn, and to a point I like that characteristic in him.
However, creating a new Skype account and distancing himself away from a large portion of friends who care about him, and lacking the desire to ask for help is one thing I wish I could talk out of him. When I asked why he did that he told me that he felt like he'd be "using" people, which I told him he wasn't, given his situation. I originally planned to work for a year or two, work 2-3 jobs a build up whatever money I could save so I could move to Texas with him, just to see him.
We've even had a huge argument about him joining the military in order to find food, and a place to stay in which I told him I'd rather him work around where its safe, find some sort of computer work, or simple job and not what he originally planned to sign up for the marines. Which, luckily I was able to talk him out of going into the marines, along with his asthma and scoliosis. All I want is for Digbiy to have a safe place to stay... or someone to take care of him where as I cannot at this point.
He has no family to return to, his relatives kicked him out of his home due to his "sexual status". I've grown to dislike them a lot, I cant stand people that turn their backs on their loved ones. at this point I can only provide links to resources in order to help him, the rest is completely out of my control.
I dont plan on giving up for my lover, so if you have any information on any resources that can help him please send some his way in a note or PM. Originally he was scheduled to be kicked out of his home by the end of the month, but his roommates moved the date closer, and now he only has until tomorrow, the 26th of February.
[UPDATE] we've managed to postpone the date until he leaves for another month, but please don't let up on the support guys, we both appreciate it! 
MagusLeo
~magnumugus
aww the rents high D: i know that the city near LA sandiego has some small apartments that are about 200$ estimate near entering the city but i just cant remember the exact spot just needs to check that out online somewhere think it was near a place called Rubicon something sandwitches. thats as much as i know
Pumperbear
~pumperbear
OP
Thank you for your input ^^! I'll keep a look out :)
MagusLeo
~magnumugus
np^^
Pumperbear
~pumperbear
OP
I appreciate the offer man, keep me posted, I hope everything works out well for you to!
Tempest DeWolfe
~tempistdewolfe
I dont mean to necro this (even if it is only a month old) but would this explain why he decided to re add me on steam, and within a day and a half, abandon me again, claiming I wasnt trying to be his friend, when I offered to send him an entire computer when his was stolen years back? Im not sure if I want closure or a reason as to why he decided I wasnt worth his time, but I would like some sort of reasoning. I tried my damndest to keep him happy when times were rough, even if I never succeeded and I dont understand what I did wrong to him, if anything.
Pumperbear
~pumperbear
OP
I.. had no idea he removed you in the first place... I'm sorry for that :( and it could be possible... He really doesn't want to be a burden to anyone... but it does not explain why he removes people... he's really stubborn... you'll have to forgive him for that.
