Anyone have any diet tips? +vent
9 years ago
I really want to lose some weight, because I am really unhappy with how I look and I want my "friend" to stop making me feel like a fat cow.
I've been suffering through depression for the last 5 years, and I tend to try and make myself feel better I'd eat a lot of sugary rubbish. I know I shouldn't have, but I couldn't help it.
About 3 months ago, my friend started calling herself "fat" around me, she'd say how she really really wanted to lose her pot belly (she hasn't got one, for starters she's a fitness instructor and she used to compete in swimming tournaments. She's basically thinner than a sheet of paper) Any how, she would always tell me about how she wanted to lose heaps of weight. But a few weeks ago, my boyfriend caught her bragging about how much skinnier she is than me and how much she loves the way she looks to her boyfriend.
He didn't tell me till tonight. And at the moment, I'm feeling a bit torn down.
I don't want to confront her about it either, because she basically has the ability to make men do what she wants, and a lot of my friends are guys. I don't want to lose them.
She's already told people that I am a bitch, because I had a break down and she told my friends that I was just being a cow and that a nice person wouldn't throw tantrums. I can't kick her out of my house either, because she is dating one of my male friends and she won't leave his side at all (she gets upset if he goes out without her)
So I was wondering if anyone has any healthy recipes, fitness tips or depression beaters I might try?
I don't want to be bullied anymore. I just want to get to a healthy enough to stop feeling disgusting whenever she tries to make me feel that way.
I've been suffering through depression for the last 5 years, and I tend to try and make myself feel better I'd eat a lot of sugary rubbish. I know I shouldn't have, but I couldn't help it.
About 3 months ago, my friend started calling herself "fat" around me, she'd say how she really really wanted to lose her pot belly (she hasn't got one, for starters she's a fitness instructor and she used to compete in swimming tournaments. She's basically thinner than a sheet of paper) Any how, she would always tell me about how she wanted to lose heaps of weight. But a few weeks ago, my boyfriend caught her bragging about how much skinnier she is than me and how much she loves the way she looks to her boyfriend.
He didn't tell me till tonight. And at the moment, I'm feeling a bit torn down.
I don't want to confront her about it either, because she basically has the ability to make men do what she wants, and a lot of my friends are guys. I don't want to lose them.
She's already told people that I am a bitch, because I had a break down and she told my friends that I was just being a cow and that a nice person wouldn't throw tantrums. I can't kick her out of my house either, because she is dating one of my male friends and she won't leave his side at all (she gets upset if he goes out without her)
So I was wondering if anyone has any healthy recipes, fitness tips or depression beaters I might try?
I don't want to be bullied anymore. I just want to get to a healthy enough to stop feeling disgusting whenever she tries to make me feel that way.
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Diets don't work, hating yourself doesn't work , Want to lose weight? love yourself for what you are , an awesome person with a rocking body , you will love yourself , you will stop eating so much to make yourself feel better and then you will lose weight and It wouldnt matter because you would still love yourself anyway.
Please For the love of god do not listen to that fucking cunt , that type of person pisses me off , talking shit behind someones back . Fucking grr If I lived near you Id punch her in her fucking face.
your perfect babe , love yourself and your body will fall into place.
P.S <3 Maz loves you and your awesome
but avoid potatoes and bread
and i use herbalife, little pricey but works
Dairy is very sugary and extremely high in sodium and fat, if you cut it out completely or massively you, you will find that you physically feel better after a couple weeks and you have more energy. And the whole you need dairy for calcium saying isn't true, you can get calcium from plant-based milk or vegetables/ supplements.
Start taking vitamin supplements such as calcium, a multivitamin, vitamin B12, iron and vitamin B complex, vitamin B12 helps with depression. Taking vitamins will help you have more energy because your body is getting what he needs, and you cannot absorb all of the vitamins you need it through food and not gain weight.
I you'd like to note me, I'd be happy to share some tips that have helped me loose 70 pounds.
Excercize is important too. I'm trying to be more active, fursuiting more often and going out and being social. It sucks a little, but its fun and it helps my mental state.
One thing that did help me was a sort of diet that my trainer put me on. She worked with what i already ate and have mea few rules to follow. Eggs in the morning, turkey sandwich with all the veggies from subway for lunch, but after 5 no carbs (i made baked chicken and veggies and chatted a little with a small bit of ranch.)
Next is exercise. Go do something every day even if it's just a 30 min walk. It'll take some time (i was sore as hell for 2 weeks) but you'll see results in your mood and body.