about friends & chattin & skype
9 years ago
such journal
Been meaning to do a lil journal like this for a while, figured I'd give this a shot finally :P Basically, just a journal of me ramblin about how I'm not good at being social
Saw this around my friend's tumblr (no, I don't use tumblr, I just browse my friend's tumblr every now and then), figured I'd just copypaste it here:
"if you ever try to befriend me and you expect to be in frequent contact with me i am so sorry. i do that with maybe two people and even then i often go days or weeks withouts saying anything before talking daily for a while.
the point is if we dont talk that doesnt mean i dont like u and think about u a lot im just terrible at maintaining close relationships"
Aaand yep, that's very much how it is for me too. I'm pretty introvert-like, I like chattin with people and all, buuut yeah, I'm not too good at starting up conversations (especially online) if I don't have any real reason to do so or a good common interest or such, please don't take it personally. Being social is sorta tiring to me anyway X3
Soo uh yeah, anyone I've added on skype or anyone who's added me there but we don't talk much; it's not cos I dislike/hate you or anythin, I'm just not that good at being overly social :P I always feel sorta bad whenever this happens too
Saw this around my friend's tumblr (no, I don't use tumblr, I just browse my friend's tumblr every now and then), figured I'd just copypaste it here:
"if you ever try to befriend me and you expect to be in frequent contact with me i am so sorry. i do that with maybe two people and even then i often go days or weeks withouts saying anything before talking daily for a while.
the point is if we dont talk that doesnt mean i dont like u and think about u a lot im just terrible at maintaining close relationships"
Aaand yep, that's very much how it is for me too. I'm pretty introvert-like, I like chattin with people and all, buuut yeah, I'm not too good at starting up conversations (especially online) if I don't have any real reason to do so or a good common interest or such, please don't take it personally. Being social is sorta tiring to me anyway X3
Soo uh yeah, anyone I've added on skype or anyone who's added me there but we don't talk much; it's not cos I dislike/hate you or anythin, I'm just not that good at being overly social :P I always feel sorta bad whenever this happens too
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Mutta ei sun kannata ottaa paineita sosiaalisuudesta, itteään ei voi pakottaa toimimaan yleisen normin mukaan. Oon ennen yrittänyt, ei kannata.
Mut joo, kyllä muutkin varmaan tajuaa mitä yrität sanoa.
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