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9 years ago
its nearly been a month nearly pushing two months starting May, since Ian left to country to Portland.
that was heartbreaking enough but we talk every day so its not mega bad even its lonely at times
much as I have Sherbert and Symphony.
It was been struck down with both chest infection that lasted for nearly 2 weeks and Tonsillitis that was double the beat down.
Assumes it it was caused both by catching the virus and stress triggered and I have not had Tonsillitis since I was 6.
My typos were embarrassing and flunky more then usual while was ill and was a struggle to look after Symphony as he is 11 month old and still got patches of naughty teen stage. My brother came round to help me but he ended up poorly.
It would have been better if Symphony stayed in kennels for least a week as I was that bad just wanted to rest up and struggling to get up and in pain so Symphony would be taken care off.
Sherbert was not a trouble but I had to disinfect my hands constantly with antibacterial hand gel and careful not to breathe on her while feeding her, changing water and cleaning her out.
That was physically, mentally and emotionally exhausted I felt in a long time.
No one should go through been ill alone and deal with every thing on the same plate.
On a good highlight is I have a job interview next week at Love Rouge cafe only thing is half dreading it despite I have done waitressing in the past and had a volunteer job in charity from May to November last year.
Is worried may not have enough experience despite my ambition and heartfelt effort to do my best to get the job.
Has also entered
Peter Smith's impossible selfie contest
I may post the picture here if any one is interested will put in scraps.
that was heartbreaking enough but we talk every day so its not mega bad even its lonely at times
much as I have Sherbert and Symphony.
It was been struck down with both chest infection that lasted for nearly 2 weeks and Tonsillitis that was double the beat down.
Assumes it it was caused both by catching the virus and stress triggered and I have not had Tonsillitis since I was 6.
My typos were embarrassing and flunky more then usual while was ill and was a struggle to look after Symphony as he is 11 month old and still got patches of naughty teen stage. My brother came round to help me but he ended up poorly.
It would have been better if Symphony stayed in kennels for least a week as I was that bad just wanted to rest up and struggling to get up and in pain so Symphony would be taken care off.
Sherbert was not a trouble but I had to disinfect my hands constantly with antibacterial hand gel and careful not to breathe on her while feeding her, changing water and cleaning her out.
That was physically, mentally and emotionally exhausted I felt in a long time.
No one should go through been ill alone and deal with every thing on the same plate.
On a good highlight is I have a job interview next week at Love Rouge cafe only thing is half dreading it despite I have done waitressing in the past and had a volunteer job in charity from May to November last year.
Is worried may not have enough experience despite my ambition and heartfelt effort to do my best to get the job.
Has also entered
Peter Smith's impossible selfie contest
I may post the picture here if any one is interested will put in scraps.
but now where were we yes its good to know you are in good communication with Ian and im very happy to hear that the bugs have gone and are feeling better
its beyond my control and thats what bothers me.
If you want pets you will have look a long while as its 7 times harder to find a place that allows
pets I am facing the same trouble.
Plus If I had a cat I would have it as indoor cat and walk it on a lead as these days its not safe and so many dangerous
it would make me natter like crazy.
I worry even for Symphony as I heard scary rumours that vile people put poison in parks and even gardens
hence have to be careful even though I am glad I have not had the misfortunate and I never let symphony out of my sight while I am out in the garden or at the park or town I got owl eyes always careful in order to avoid tragedy.
Some days I cope okay and other days I just cry when I really miss Ian despite we talk all the time
its because I can't be comforted by his touch thats what hurts the most.
the place i live i can have a pet its just finding something that can have the fullness of live and i wouldn't have a house cat as its not in there nature to be like that (just my opinion) i would like a small dog but as much as i like them both i have grown up around cats so i know what to expect but dogs would be something new and would not want to take one on without being able to support it and give it the best live i can. on the other hand my mum dose not want me to have a pet as they cost money for a start and it is a tie. but i am unable to work because of medical reasons (a lot of them) and im all alone and do not feel at home at all. (i wonder if i had a furry house party would that be classed as having wild animals in the house lol)
i do feel sorry for your situation with Ian across the pond i don't have any experience with this matter to be honest wiah there was something i could do to help more. but the only thing i can relate to as i have not been with anyone for over 7 years is being able to go and see the cats each week and i miss my dad often as he has passed away.
it wont be too long now and you will be back with each other as you should be and all this will just be a memory
p.s if you have any advice on dogs that would be great and please know you have my support and i will do my best to help in any way i can
did 4 years of college before that.
Ian looked for 5 months before he got a job in the Uk.
Just cats can be a hinder on people if they are outside as I find it unfair of them going in folks gardens and using them as loos
my grandma in her early 70's put up with it for 5 years
the lady next door to her had 5 cats and then the rest of neighbours cats. I have a friend that keeps her cat indoors mainly because he has 3 legs and they live in a top floor flat which is big and he was like a dog more then a cat very gentle and sweet. He was a grey colour with white feet and brown eyes.
Having a pet will really help keep company when friends are not always available.
Its best to get a gentle breed of dog and do research on the breed having a small dog is a good start
pugs or french bull dogs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K5KIqlISk9Y
I grew up with dogs all my life mostly labradors and staffies.
Symphony is my first bull terrier and much as they are sweet and gentle as long as they come from a good breeder and good temperament from the parents. Bullies are stubborn buggers and need firm training from the word get go.
Not a dog for a first time dog owner but when you are more confidant and a good understanding.
If you have a rough idea what sort of dog you fancy I can help you with the research as I am interested in all kinds of dogs. ^w^