A question to you guys
9 years ago
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Thanks for looking at this journal!♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ ♦ What do you guys think of visual novels?
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a good little heavy text story-line, graphics, little movements, choices, etc
oh, if you have readed this one '' Sound of Drop - fall into poison - '' it got me. it had ALOT of nice stuff c:
selfish self promotion..... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=baOdsaIZV_k
I have no problems with that at all, it's fiction after all and you'd find thematically similar (or worse, rawr) stuff on my profile, but, you know, people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones :)
I"m not gonna flat-out tell people not to play or read visual novels, either, of course. I answered the question honestly. that's how I feel about it. and just like I can be critical of games where women are portrayed as some kind of love vending machine, I can also be critical of my own interests, and of my own stories.
so don't be telling me that I shouldn't "throw stones". this kind a stuff needs to be critically evaluated.
If you look it up, that particular kink (or the general area it is in) is one of the most widely spread ones, it was not pure chance "50 shades" got as famous as it did. VNs most often (yeah, I know, there are exceptions, there always are) depict women better than you did in your story, again, not saying the story is bad or anything.
One should just accept that it's fantasy, as well.
You know who's the main demographic that plays those games? Not chauvinistic dudebros, but guys who just can't get any (through whatever reason, including being workaholics) and still would like to get a remote sense of what being desired means. They don't think women work like that, because if they did, they would find love in the real world. They know fully well it's fantasy, they just like to pretend not to be lonely. Exactly the same as players know they can't just pop a few painkillers and bullet holes heal or they can't just shout at someone and have him be blasted away.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mmNUGGGd_E8
People are able to differentiate between reality and fiction. This kind of stuff WAS critically evaluated time and time again. I can cite some studies to that amount if you want, but I have to go to work now
and so are the rape-fantasy stories I write.
again, you can enjoy something and still be critical of it.
In it (at least for me) the sex does come across as more a part of the story and character development then a reward, the reward is the story and its conclusion.
and not even just "shitlord", no, "rape-apologist", holy shit, you don't hold back with your ad hominems!
I gave you the benefit of the doubt, thinking "hey, maybe you were misled or it just never occured to you that your believes may be wrong", but you confirmed what I suspected from the start: you drank the cool-aid
oh well. everything is sexist, everything is racist, everything is homophobic and you have to point it all out, right?
you're not angry that I'm telling people what they can or can't, or should or shouldn't, enjoy -- because I have blatantly said over and over that it's totally ok to enjoy those things. no, you are offended that I would DARE point out in what ways it should be thought about critically. you even said yourself that you oppose critically evaluating the violent media we enjoy. the fictional representations of violence. and even now, you are trying to discredit me for calling it out.
if I'm wrong about your motives, and you just disagree with my premise that enjoying something and being critical of it are not mutually exclusive responses to something then come right out and say so. go on! fucking say it!
I'm offended that you tell everyone to criticise it (note: not question, criticise, because in your mind it's dead set that it is in fact harmfull, something you never proved) without ever questioning your own beliefs.
and of course you can be critical of something you like. That concept is often called "guilty pleasure".
my problem is that you postulate it to be harmfull and people who are, ahem, critical of that are suddenly rape apologists.
I say the media/games are not harmfull, at least not in those ways. That way of thought is not just a belief, like yours, it stems from extensive skeptical evaluation of the studies out there, from years back when Jack Thompson wanted to ban games for supposedly being "murder simulators" to now when Anita Sarkeesian wants the same for them supposedly being "sexist".
Prove to me that they in fact are, through proper studies (proper as in, no conflict of interest, peer reviewed, acceptable sample size etc etc, there are so many flawed studies being used time and time again) and I'll re-evaluate that point. I like to keep myself grounded in reality instead of delving down the rabbit hole of quasi-religious dogma where everyone not having the same opinion as you is a rape apologist.
(and don't say something like "prove that they don't" now, the burden of proof is on the shoulders of the side that makes the claim)
let me break this down for you.
1.) I have not said that I feel guilty about having rape fantasies. I enjoy them, and yes, I recognize them as being entirely separate from any actual desire to be raped (nobody wants to be raped. I certainly don't, and surprise surprise: I'm a rape survivor myself). being critical of the fact that a desire to play out fantasies of sexual assault (whether with ourselves as the aggressor or as the victim) maybe influence and/or be influenced by our attitudes towards real sexual assault (though by no means has to) is not the same thing as feeling guilty about it. which, I repeat for the fourth fucking time, is because you can enjoy something and still be critical of it.
2.) I absolutely believe you that women have rape fantasies more often than men. anyone can have rape fantasies. that's irrelevant on so many levels right now. stick to the fucking point.
3.) you seem to be using semantics to derail and misrepresent my point, now. we both know that I was clearly using the word "criticize" in the philosophical sense, i.e. to evaluate something. not the colloquial sense. I never once told anyone to insult or condemn these things, and you know that because I have repeatedly disclaimed that charge.
4.) it is a simple fact that if you do not question or critically evaluate rape-culture, then you are a rape-apologist. that is because that's the definition of "rape-apologist". people who make excuses for, defend, or deny rape or rape-culture. and "rape-culture" is defined as features or attitudes of a culture which normalize or encourage positive reactions to rape. however harmless a tempered rape-fantasy or fictional rape-scene is, it is still rape-culture to grant rape-fantasies or fictional depictions of rape immunity from critical evaluation. and I did not refer to you as a rape-apologist until you specifically asserted that fictional depictions of rape should not be criticized. that they are already being scrutinized too much.
5.) Anita Sarkeesian has never advocated that sexist games should be banned. you need to stop listening to the likes of TheAmazingAtheist or anyone on gamergate.
6.) you're going to have to now define for me what you mean by "conflict of interest", "peer reviewed", and "acceptable sample size", because at this point I highly doubt you are being entirely honest, and I suspect you of having personal arbitrary parameters in mind specifically designed to exclude studies you don't find agreeable and don't want to have to answer to.
1) being critical of something you do yourself means feeling guilty for it. And (for the whatever many time) there's no reason to be critical of it because it's not something bad. just as you have no reason to feel critical about yourself wishing your boss would just shut up and die some times, or anything like that.
2) I am sticking to the point. In fact, that alone explains your number 1. There's nothing to be ashamed or critical of.
3) Yes, I differentiate between scepticism and criticism. Not because of anny ill will, but because that's the foremost definition of it. "the expression of disapproval of someone or something on the basis of perceived faults or mistakes". And all you did was expressing disapproval. If you in fact meant "the analysis .. of the merits and faults" then sure, as said before, everyone should be skeptical (or critical after that definition) of everything.
But you made it quite clear that you meant the former definition from the start. "sexist", "cause of problems", "cause of violence".
Who the fuck do you think you're kidding when you suddenly say that you meant the second definition of the word when all of your criticism was without fail negative?
4) It's a simple fact that a culture where there are laws against rape and where the mere accusation of it, without being in any way evaluated, leads to the destruction of a person, you know, like ours (like the UVA case recently) is no rape culture. Maybe you should open your eyes and look at the real world instead of "listening and believing". And yes, I know, I know, I'm a rape apologist for saying it doesn't exist, right? well, I feel I'm perfectly in my rights to call you a braindead idiot for believing it does, thank you very much.
Btw, I'm not saying none exist, a country where a woman that was raped is stoned or something, that is a rape culture. Ours isn't.
5) Sarkeesian is quite a clever girl when it comes to manipulation, so she knows what she can do by just implying it. And it works, see australia and the GTA V ban for "sexual violence" (you know, in a game where 99% of enemies and all villains are male). Also, I never once watched that amazing atheist guy, sorry to disappoint you.
6) pretty much normal stuff that makes a study valid. In every fucking area, from agriculture to electronics, medizine to genetics. stuff that should be self-explanatory. Not done by or paid for by people that have an interest, monetaril or ideological, in a particular result, a sample size that is large, randomly selected and diverse enough that it can be a stand in for the general population or specific demographic it talks about (like a study only working with gay people will not be representative of the general population), reviewed by qualified professionals in the field and so on (there are some other factors as well, like methodology errors, the importance of double blind tests if applicable, a good and large enough control group if applicable and so on, can't think of all right now, but they're not specific ones, they are true for any and all studies that should be talen seriously. No matter what they are about.)
https://sciencebasedlife.wordpress......tific-studies/
http://www.stjohnswortinfo.com/scie.....goodstudy.html (about medical, this one, but same rules apply. And the logo was perfect for you. Dunno if the rest of the site is worth anything)
http://greatergood.berkeley.edu/art.....ntific_studies
you see several themes time and time again. peer review. sample size. etc. Why? Because they're important for every single study in every fucking field.
Oh no wait, it's by total accident that all those sites that are from vastly different fields talk about the same thing as I did before, right? After all, those are just "arbitrary parameters" I have in my mind, right? I mentioned it only because I know you people just love to use long-disproven faulty studies as "proof", like the CDC one.
I love reading comics but they are still "locked" and can't really be changed like some visual novels >-< Getting to choose things to get different outcomes makes it so much better (Especially if some of them are kinda unexpected X3)
I hope i gave a good answer and not just rambling around? :V
They're basically chose-your-own-adventure-books as mangas.
And since I never was a fan of mangas.. I'm just not the right target audience I guess.