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Sub or Dom? (nightly journal)
9 years ago
Everyone has their preferences.
Some like that good ole' power position.
Others love taking it.
And the rest fall somewhere in that rainbow spectrum in between.
I for one am a submissive lady.
Like full on "Give it to meh"...
XD
I don't like controlling things in my life. I've lived with a control freak for almost 24 years. (my mom for those that don't know).
But this isn't about that.
But when it comes to the late night sleeper shuffle, fucking tie me up! XD
Everyone's kinks are crazy. Ever since learning I was a furry and being on here and seeing so much, I've discovered so many things that are just "WOW!!!"
It's a nice thing.
Probably would've never discovered most of this stuff. (some may say i'd have been safer lol)
But anywho...
Being a sub is my thing. Love it.
I'm 99% sub.
That other 1% is the extremely rare "let me have control..."
Which again is very rare...
I like a lot of things in the sub/dom relationship world.
But one thing I do not like is the "daddy" thing.
Just. No.
But which side do you like? Sub? Dom? or some strange mixture of both?
Some like that good ole' power position.
Others love taking it.
And the rest fall somewhere in that rainbow spectrum in between.
I for one am a submissive lady.
Like full on "Give it to meh"...
XD
I don't like controlling things in my life. I've lived with a control freak for almost 24 years. (my mom for those that don't know).
But this isn't about that.
But when it comes to the late night sleeper shuffle, fucking tie me up! XD
Everyone's kinks are crazy. Ever since learning I was a furry and being on here and seeing so much, I've discovered so many things that are just "WOW!!!"
It's a nice thing.
Probably would've never discovered most of this stuff. (some may say i'd have been safer lol)
But anywho...
Being a sub is my thing. Love it.
I'm 99% sub.
That other 1% is the extremely rare "let me have control..."
Which again is very rare...
I like a lot of things in the sub/dom relationship world.
But one thing I do not like is the "daddy" thing.
Just. No.
But which side do you like? Sub? Dom? or some strange mixture of both?
Never know exactly what's gonna happen.
Have your boundaries and limits, and be respectful of other's.
In the end, it all ends happily, yes? X3
very nice stealth pun! 11/10
You deserve a prize!
seems we're at an impass XD
You'll think of something at some point X3
note me or whatevs, yes?
Though I'm pretty passive in life too...
Never know things until ya try
I believe in you.
Who knows who it'll be
I have a hard time around people, specially those I don't know...
I just want to hide lots of times... XP
sometimes can be hard to meet new people being shy
yet I'm more myself behind Frost... :/
it's a special trust between the two people
Things are doing better for once.
Like I said, I've been doing better these past few days so, i'm normally around and responsive
I just don't show it much due to being shy and passive in life for personal reasons.
And yes, there is a special trust when it comes to a dom being a temporary sub.
There really is, though I honestly feel there is a special trust even for someone who is sub to fully give themselves up to a dom for the special actions instead of simply the "bend over and take it" attitude.
That other 1% is the extremely rare "let me have control..."
Which again is very rare..."
Were on the same page with that. Once in a while you just got to take the reins. rest the time can hardly get enough. Its even worse when you cant seem to find that one person to scratch the right itch.
It's always nice to surprise your partner if you're a sub.
That one day you just feel like taking control.
Can be a nice feeling
And so true
I have a preference for a 24/7 M/s type relationship. It's just hard to find someone that understands despite being a Dom. My life is not perfect and no your Dom is not perfect as no one is. Even if they are perfect in YOUR eyes (which I think a proper sub should think).
I feel pretty one sided in all this, though. Being a Dom / Master / Owner / Sadist yet being a kind soul.
Every now and then I look for a pet that finds all this okay and every now and then I find one that lasts a little while but none has lasted LTR which is what I want.