The number one reply I hear when asking people if they want to do things together is "I would if I knew you better." And the thing that I really don't understand is; Isn't that the point of doing stuff together? When I want to know someone better I would want to hang out with them or play a game with them or meet them. The longer you spend with someone and the more experiences you share the more you can know them. I would think that not knowing something would be a reason to do more with them, it is for me. So whenever they say "If I knew you better" what I hear is "I don't want to know you"

Am I wrong? I don't know what I'm supposed to do. What do they expect from me? I just.... I don't know.