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9 years ago
And none of them match the feelings. A long while ago i was in a skype group, friend invites another friend. 3 months later and the group disbands because the invited friend was too much to deal with for everyone and they make a new one and leave this friend. They try inviting me and i leave, it takes three adding/leavings to ask why, I tell them why and they shrug it off. I cut my ties to all of them and try to put them out of my mind as best i can, none of them even messaged me privately (during the skype groups time before the invited friend or ever) in an attempt to keep friendship ties, not even the maker of the group itself.
This is part of the reason why i am venting, 6 years or so of this being buried over and over again and yet it still resurfaces time and again. Im not going to name usernames or anything (not like it matters since they dont look at my journals or anything else i post) and i dont do this sort of vent thing unless i have to get it out. But people can be real pricks, online or IRL and theres no changing it. Anyway back to the vent issues.
After trying to move on again and again i meet a new friend, we rp and chat and he decides to put me in a fur family. All is well till he decides to say he made the maker of the skype group part of his family. Anyone whose had something like this happen before can probably guess what i did.... I flipped out and let loose anger targeted at that person to the member of the fur family, after time and again telling that fur family member what that person did in the past only to be met with "you dont have to be related to him in the fur family if you dont want to". *facepalms in frustration* not the point of why i was pissed, why i was pissed was him mentioning anything about that person to me in the first place, knowing my history with him and the pain caused. He throws a fit and burns the last tethers of the bridge of a friendship we had. A year or so later he decides to pop back in and act like nothing happened. Took me a minute to realize who he was and stated i wanted to keep my distance, he took it as being shy and tried to play it off. After he ended the chat, i deleted his contact, he tried to get me to accept his friend request via skype the next day and i deleted it again. You dont burn a bridge and then try to pop in on them and act like nothing happened!! You just dont
thats the end of my rant, god i wish that i had something to drown those damned memories away
This is part of the reason why i am venting, 6 years or so of this being buried over and over again and yet it still resurfaces time and again. Im not going to name usernames or anything (not like it matters since they dont look at my journals or anything else i post) and i dont do this sort of vent thing unless i have to get it out. But people can be real pricks, online or IRL and theres no changing it. Anyway back to the vent issues.
After trying to move on again and again i meet a new friend, we rp and chat and he decides to put me in a fur family. All is well till he decides to say he made the maker of the skype group part of his family. Anyone whose had something like this happen before can probably guess what i did.... I flipped out and let loose anger targeted at that person to the member of the fur family, after time and again telling that fur family member what that person did in the past only to be met with "you dont have to be related to him in the fur family if you dont want to". *facepalms in frustration* not the point of why i was pissed, why i was pissed was him mentioning anything about that person to me in the first place, knowing my history with him and the pain caused. He throws a fit and burns the last tethers of the bridge of a friendship we had. A year or so later he decides to pop back in and act like nothing happened. Took me a minute to realize who he was and stated i wanted to keep my distance, he took it as being shy and tried to play it off. After he ended the chat, i deleted his contact, he tried to get me to accept his friend request via skype the next day and i deleted it again. You dont burn a bridge and then try to pop in on them and act like nothing happened!! You just dont
thats the end of my rant, god i wish that i had something to drown those damned memories away
sad to say, but people can be very stupid. and for the most part people we have to deal with often try to make people like us the problem for not conforming.
I mean, whats the point of warming people about someone if they dont want to listen, and whats the point of trying to stay away from someone that acts like nothing happened even when they are stalking you (at this point, I think that may be the case seeing as he keeps resurfacing). I mean from what I recall, he abused and broke the rules to the point where the group creator disbanned the whole thing and left, used everyone to get where he is, and kept throwing a fit about it all.
I dont blame you for leaving because someone's BS created a toxic social envirement. nor do I blame you for not wanting to be around someone you can mesh well with no matter how hard you've tried.
anyway, I will see you some time soon.