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Bugs and Trust
9 years ago
If at first you don't succeed, try and try again~
Commissions and Trades are STILL open!!! So, today at work we went on a Bug hunt with the kids at a river near the youth centre and of course I couldn't help but get really excited and happy about it ^///^ i love bugs!
We found a ton of buggies and we even saw ducks and fishies too! It was really fun and stuff and i was very happy
But afterwards on the way home my mum and our coworker were talking (we were giving him a ride home) and they talked about relationships. They started saying that a healthy, loving relationship is built on trust...
Of course this got to me. I've told my girlfriend about my Little side before but I'm sure she doesn't accept it...
When we were in London for my birthday we were watching TV and an advert came on for some weird game show or something and it had a woman dressed like a giant baby. I laughed along with my girlfriend at the sight and afterwards she said 'did you know there are some people who live like that and 'get off' to it?'
Yes, I do know. I'm friends with people like that and am partially like that myself (not the 'getting off' part, ew no)
Back to my point. So I feel like I don't trust my girlfriend because I don't want to tell her about my Little side again... And I don't ever want her to know about my girly stuff (she knows my favourite colour is pink and i love plushies and cute stuff and general girly stuff but not dresses or stuff made for little girls)
Do we not have a good relationship because I don't trust her with my secrets...?
I'm sorry about this rant, I'm just a bit downhearted after thats... Imma go surrounded myself with plushies and hide .-.
We found a ton of buggies and we even saw ducks and fishies too! It was really fun and stuff and i was very happy
But afterwards on the way home my mum and our coworker were talking (we were giving him a ride home) and they talked about relationships. They started saying that a healthy, loving relationship is built on trust...
Of course this got to me. I've told my girlfriend about my Little side before but I'm sure she doesn't accept it...
When we were in London for my birthday we were watching TV and an advert came on for some weird game show or something and it had a woman dressed like a giant baby. I laughed along with my girlfriend at the sight and afterwards she said 'did you know there are some people who live like that and 'get off' to it?'
Yes, I do know. I'm friends with people like that and am partially like that myself (not the 'getting off' part, ew no)
Back to my point. So I feel like I don't trust my girlfriend because I don't want to tell her about my Little side again... And I don't ever want her to know about my girly stuff (she knows my favourite colour is pink and i love plushies and cute stuff and general girly stuff but not dresses or stuff made for little girls)
Do we not have a good relationship because I don't trust her with my secrets...?
I'm sorry about this rant, I'm just a bit downhearted after thats... Imma go surrounded myself with plushies and hide .-.
Or you could give her a couple of *hint* and let her discover that part of you
I can't go further than this, since I don't know your gf and would rather not say wrongs things ^^;