I'd say take your chance. just go talk to them and see what they have to say. thats what i do, if a friend is having a bad day, i go ask whats up, and by the end of it, i get a nice thank you from them for talking about it. It shows them that you have a genuine interest in them. which i do, with all of my friends. im just rarely on Yahoo for those that only have yahoo accounts.

i understand that but ive been brought up to keep everything to myself its hard cause i feel like ive done something wrong or bad by doing so and by ruining a good mood is something i cant stand when people deserve to be happy how can i go and ruin or even destroy that with my problems

ah, alright, so you're worried about telling others about YOUR problems. hmm, its all dependent upon who you are telling the info to. i mean, with me, i could have a terrible day, but as long as i can help another fur or at least tell them what i think...then i feel better about both things. It doesnt terribly bug me that so many like to come to me to unload, i just dont like it when thats all im there for. ya know? but yeah, its all on WHO you choose.

ya i guess but i dont know i just feel like if i relay on you guys to much soon i wont have any of you and thats another reason i feel like i cant say much or anything at that cause in all honesty i treat friends like family

i do too, i treat my friends like family, the really close family that i never had. ^_^ its really no problem to vent to your friends, as long as they are the right friends, ones you know will stay.

say anything you want to me, ive tooken alot a horrible things. im used to it :P

but still its not a excuse for me to make it worse for you =(

dont worry, i once was called... uh, cant say it here, but by my own mother!!! it didnt hurt me that bad. it was like being poked with a stick

=( thats not good ive been call to my face by my father his greatest dissappointment after he beat me then he locked me in a closet ._.* then he wonders why i hate him

well hang in there dude... oops. i mean just try to get past it and everything will get better. wats the point of dwelling on the past? ive DONE much worser things

well im getting passed it my mom divorced him so im liveing with her

wow thats sweet. id never do anything to hurt my children and wife. if i had any 0-0

i know right this was something to learn off of

it'll be alright