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Coddling your Feelings.
9 years ago
Nothing is forever
There is a willingness in me that has a sympathetic and empathetic feeling but lately its been getting bashed out of me for people who cant even function without someone to tell them every hour that everything is alright.
And i find people take advantage of others especially the ones who have this nature in them to coddle their feelings.
If your someone who cant function without someone catering to your feelings then you SERIOUSLY need a check up... Friends can only do so much for you before they break and leave you in the dirt.
You are your own person and you have to stand on your own 2 feet. as well....take the advantage about therapists.... and helplines they are there for you.
Society isnt gonna cater to your feeling and some friends wont because they got thier own demons to worry about.
So why add yourself to thier issues? because your scared to visit therapists? If you tell me that your scared to visit one then im gonna be the one to tell you that you probably need to. The reason why i will say it is because i may not have the answer you seek. And usually when i say it shows i do care.
Friends dont have the answers to everything. And neither do I.
So no i will not coddle someone or thier feelings if they over use me to the point where i get fed up.
I will tell you something as best as i can but its your choice to take it or leave it.
Dont make excuses for yourself.... the only excuse should be is " I dont know where to go." That i will point you in the right direction or at least try to.
And i find people take advantage of others especially the ones who have this nature in them to coddle their feelings.
If your someone who cant function without someone catering to your feelings then you SERIOUSLY need a check up... Friends can only do so much for you before they break and leave you in the dirt.
You are your own person and you have to stand on your own 2 feet. as well....take the advantage about therapists.... and helplines they are there for you.
Society isnt gonna cater to your feeling and some friends wont because they got thier own demons to worry about.
So why add yourself to thier issues? because your scared to visit therapists? If you tell me that your scared to visit one then im gonna be the one to tell you that you probably need to. The reason why i will say it is because i may not have the answer you seek. And usually when i say it shows i do care.
Friends dont have the answers to everything. And neither do I.
So no i will not coddle someone or thier feelings if they over use me to the point where i get fed up.
I will tell you something as best as i can but its your choice to take it or leave it.
Dont make excuses for yourself.... the only excuse should be is " I dont know where to go." That i will point you in the right direction or at least try to.
