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9 years ago
Okay folks. Just a little heads up. No one said you have to like me. Or be my friend. It's a shame I say this to grown folks but apparently I do. If you don't like me, okay. You don't have to pretend to to spare my feelings. If you don't want to be my friend, okay. You don't have to act like you want to be around me or act like you want me around you.
I realize I'm a lot to handle. I'm loud, and often annoying. I speak my mind and often it's not what others want to hear. I have an opinion different from many. I am kind of pushy (I honestly don't mean to be) and am hurt easily by simple actions of those pretending to like me or be my friend only to show how they really feel when me being me aggitated them to their breaking point.
I know I'm not perfect. But I'm also not a liar and will not lead someone on to believing I like them or want to be their friend when i don't. All I ask is for the same resect. Please don't try and make me believe we are friends or that you care about me. It hurts more to find out what you really think after I think I matter to you than knowing I never did at all.
Thanks so much.
I realize I'm a lot to handle. I'm loud, and often annoying. I speak my mind and often it's not what others want to hear. I have an opinion different from many. I am kind of pushy (I honestly don't mean to be) and am hurt easily by simple actions of those pretending to like me or be my friend only to show how they really feel when me being me aggitated them to their breaking point.
I know I'm not perfect. But I'm also not a liar and will not lead someone on to believing I like them or want to be their friend when i don't. All I ask is for the same resect. Please don't try and make me believe we are friends or that you care about me. It hurts more to find out what you really think after I think I matter to you than knowing I never did at all.
Thanks so much.
With Love Always,
Calliope
Calliope
i too understand i cannot expect everyone to like the stuff i make, let alone me.
no intention to push anyone away, as long as i don't have to live around or within earshot of loud and aggressive.
i won't try to pretend i care especially about one particular person i will probably never meet other then on line
(but i do care about not adding to their stress or unhappiness)
what i do care about is the kind of world, each along with myself, have to experience living in.
and i also don't hesitate to tell people what i believe screws that world up and keeps it that way.
these i can summarize as four things; hatred of logic, equating freedom with thoughtlessness,
the belief that aggressiveness does the world any favors, and trying to make everything have to be about money.
and i know how easily we could live in a world without them, and not by having to share one belief or perspective.
In all honesty I don't have time for those kinds of games either...
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So I thought I'd put it out there that it's okay not to like me. And that pretending to was a shitty thing to do. *hugs*
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ahhhh... besides you Bo of course...
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