i keep getting myself worked up because people (namely furries) on my fb keep making these really inconsiderate posts that just reek of a lack of empathy. it may be difficult, but a sign of emotional maturity is thinking about a situation from both your own and the offending party's/victim's perspective

like damn everyone does things for a reason, and if people are telling you something over and over again, maybe a better option that just being angry about it is to pause and think why so many people might be saying it/ getting angry about it

i'm just upset and hate myself and comment on people's statuses and am promptly ignored