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Hmm. Controversial.
9 years ago
I am not fond of ageplay/diaperplay/abdl/etc.
I have seen too many people that fetishize the innocence and youth of children- too many people that think children are sexual, that their purity and youth is something they can consume and play with. I know too many people who have been hurt by pedophiles and people over 21 that sexualize underage- not "below the age of consent" underage, I mean "under 18" underage- people. I'm one of them.
But making as innocuous a statement as "ageplay/diaperplay/abdl/etc make me uncomfortable and reek of pedophilia to me" can, and will, get one attacked (or at least chided) for their opinion.
I do not trust people that sexualize underage people. I do not trust people that fetishize being a child or the paraphernalia children play with or use, such as children's toys, or diapers. I have seen too many people do so for sexual reasons. I have been hurt and abused by too many people thinking my youth and innocence were literally sexy. It all counts as pedophilia to me.
So, I suppose, it's controversial to exist as a survivor of Child Sexual Assault and seeing the flags and evidence of it.
I have seen too many people that fetishize the innocence and youth of children- too many people that think children are sexual, that their purity and youth is something they can consume and play with. I know too many people who have been hurt by pedophiles and people over 21 that sexualize underage- not "below the age of consent" underage, I mean "under 18" underage- people. I'm one of them.
But making as innocuous a statement as "ageplay/diaperplay/abdl/etc make me uncomfortable and reek of pedophilia to me" can, and will, get one attacked (or at least chided) for their opinion.
I do not trust people that sexualize underage people. I do not trust people that fetishize being a child or the paraphernalia children play with or use, such as children's toys, or diapers. I have seen too many people do so for sexual reasons. I have been hurt and abused by too many people thinking my youth and innocence were literally sexy. It all counts as pedophilia to me.
So, I suppose, it's controversial to exist as a survivor of Child Sexual Assault and seeing the flags and evidence of it.
What I mean to say is, feel free to express your opinion and let anyone who wants to attack you be damned. Just try to keep an open mind though. While I am a diaper lover and have no interest with anything related to ageplay (other than a diaper), I do know quite a few people who are into ageplay and as far as I know nothing sexual happens while they are in little mode. Hell, some are even asexual because of past events.
Anyway, a journal isn't the place to go into detail so if you'd like to talk just note me and I'd be happy to explain my views in detail. No chiding, no judgement and no attacks. I won't be able to speak to everyone but I can at least give you my spin on it... It's kinda like being furry because you'll get about as many varied responses as people you ask.
Hope you have a good week!