Sometimes I wonder...
9 years ago
General
And now a word from The-B-Meister.....
Do people take me seriously?
Like say for instance someone says they love my work....yet I never get any comment/favs. Or if I watch a particular person or comment on their profile....id get no thanks at all but they'd go ahead and thank the next person who watches/comments because their art is better than mine or they have loads-o-watchers....
I just get this vibe from certain people....ya know? Then it just causes you to doubt yourself.
I not only speak for myself but for a few friends who undergo the same treatment.
I just don't get people sometimes....
Just thought I'd share what's on my mind. O3O
Thanks for understanding for anywho who bothered reading.
"B"
Like say for instance someone says they love my work....yet I never get any comment/favs. Or if I watch a particular person or comment on their profile....id get no thanks at all but they'd go ahead and thank the next person who watches/comments because their art is better than mine or they have loads-o-watchers....
I just get this vibe from certain people....ya know? Then it just causes you to doubt yourself.
I not only speak for myself but for a few friends who undergo the same treatment.
I just don't get people sometimes....
Just thought I'd share what's on my mind. O3O
Thanks for understanding for anywho who bothered reading.
"B"
FA+

but i know this all too well too ><
Thanks for understanding
What areas are your main interests exactly? Just to get an idea
Thanks
From non lewd, mechanical and metal characters. Maybe not artificial limbs, but full on machines.
I should really make an f-list, that's not even everything .v.
I appreciate the support nevertheless :)
Faving is more of the.. interest of things I like >//>
Tho I take you serious, and I know what you mean with it, people dont comment because of testowe's explanation and because they seem to be lazy at liking/faving the art.
And for the watching thingy or comment.. famous ones always get more attention, it can be they envy them and they want to be in good terms with them(aka butt buddying)
I know you are kind, tho dont think you arent taken serious, of course if you are a famous furr you will have instant messages and replies while the rest just are mere numbers
It's just the rest of the watchers whom watch me but dont really say anything. It's like....why bother watching me in the first place?
That's the thing that bugs me with watchers sometimes. They always try to be stuck up underneath the popular artist but when it comes to someone like myself....I get neglected. What gives?
I just feel like im under appreciated at times. Like say I drew something for a particular popular artist as a gift. I get no, comment or favs. Then another popular artist comes along does a gift....and then they get all the praise in the world. So just because he has alot more watchers makes him more worth commenting/faving compared to mine? Kindve a low-blow if you ask me.
But anywho i digress...
Thank you for your words Code *hugs* It's much appreciated that you still support me <3
Why comment or fav someone who isnt as popular?
I understand your frustrations, aswell as how you feel, but it will not change them, they will just remove your journal of complaint because its just one step to get their cocks lubed out off while the more detailed artists, or even just popular artwhores, get more showable and detailed art.
You make sfw, you are not worth in their eyes, even some snfw they dont like it as their taste is dispicable.
You earn more then this
Can't change em' thats for sure :/ Though I just dont get it...I think everyone should be treated equally regardless of being pro or amateur at drawing.
I tend to stick with more SFW and the lighter side of NSFW content.....sometimes Ill venture into the very naughty side as well but that's not all for me. Unfortunately we live in a world where "Sex sells" but Im not gonna post porn to get popular.....that's pretty much a cheap shot.
Tho who would want to hang out with famous artist when you can have more fun with the watchers.
On the point tho, you are in my eyes friendly and kind for gifting your art to some artist, those who are cool and nice, some even just a bit doubting to open up. You are cool for making this place nice with your comments and words ^^
That's why getting real friends you can trust is important, they're the ones who care and support you.
I may only be one person but to me, you're one of the most important artists on this site and in this fandom.
As for comments, I never really know what to say. If I do comment it's often just me saying it's great, which a few other people have usually said already. Maybe I should make a point to comment more anyway. I have a hard enough time thinking up non-generic responses to any comments I get on my own stuff XD
Happens to me a lot too... But I just shrug it off as being a case of "well they can do whatever they like"
Well I do take you seriously though.
I'm gonna tell you a little tale. The tale... OF THE ARTISTS WHO NEVER LEAVE ME COMMENTS (while leaving comments on other people's pages) UNTIL THEY DO LEAVE ME COMMENTS AND IT'S A HUGE FUCKING LET DOWN SO FUCK THEM... ahem... *pulls out book*
So basically, I can't tell you how many artists I commented on and never got a reply from. I always figured that maybe it was cause my comments were generic and they didn't have much to say/thought my account was a robot, forgot cause they get thousands of comments a day on their page, etc etc. REGARDLESS... I would never get comments, but I'd check other people's profiles and they'd be commenting on other folks' at times. Well... finally, I started getting some comments back, and I was like "OMG AM I BECOMING AN POPLER *insert sickly squee noise here*" until I realized... the artists all just kinda copy pasted the same generic thank yous and comments to ALL THE PROFILES! Whether it was me... or someone much more successful than me, or that random person who just posts memes to their DA page with a slight bit of copy paste action to make it fit to a fandom! So... in the end... I realized that I still pretty much wasn't getting comments and actually attention from a person... but you know what? The person was just an acquaintance and/or attention whore... so it didn't matter and didn't actually affect me... so I just went and ran into my fraaaaaaaaands who showered me with shitty (in the good way) jokes and dank memes and TREATED ME LIKE THE TRU ART PRINCESS I AM. Theeeeeeeeeeeee eeeeeeeeeeend! *throws book into fire*
But yeah, point being, a lot of the time, it's not worth it. They're generic people, they're looking for a certain type of artist *cough* like a virally popular one *uncough* or they just don't have time for other folks (hence copy pasting the exact.same.fucking.comment to everyone's page... whether it's someone they just met or a dear friend they've had for 15 years, it's still the generic "omg thanks so much for the fav nice gallery omg this means the world to me!" )
As for the lack of comments and favs on your art and that being a reflection of people taking you serioulsy, ooooooooooof there's just so many reasons it could be, too many reasons, it's not always for the worst either, and no it's not a reflection on how seriously people take you. Like have you seen the comments in Dav's stuff. Have you SEEN... the stupid 1 word comments... where someone is just like "cool" or "neat" or "sexy".... honestly I'm happier getting no comments and faves than I am seeing fav spammers and people who just leave single words xD I don't think a lack of comments means people don't take me serious, I usually view it more aaaaaaaas people didn't see me, people don't care about the content of the particular drawing, or there just isn't anything to talk about in the drawing. And those are just a few reasons people may not comment/fav. Thing is, with you and me, we kind of have this problem where we don't actually make our pieces something people can pull good fulfilling comments out of. It's not that your art is bad, it's not the my art is bad, it's not that the artwork isn't serious, but when you look at the latest drawings in our galleries... it's just characters in poses, and sometimes characters dressed as other characters in poses. There isn't really anything telling a story, there isn't really something there to provoke thoughtful comments. I know for me, when I can't muster more than a "oh that looks good!" out of myself, I just completely forego commenting, cause it's totally hollow and it's ANNOYING to run into NOTHING but comments like that, like seriously. I can also say, from my own personal perspective and tastes, I don't like pictures of characters from my childhood/family friendly shows/super motherly characters (makes me think of my parents basically) in erotic art/pinup art/fetishised/sexualized in general. It's just a taste thing. And when the content isn't in my taste, I don't really look at it, and thus don't comment or fav. The art can be amazing, and I can take the artist totally seriously, but it just makes me feel extremely uncomfortable, so I just avoid it. There's lots of people like that, not necessarily with you specifically, but just in general. People that feel like they just don't wanna click, and/or that it would be pointless to click on it just to leave hate... and that's honestly because they DO take you seriously and RESPECT you too!!!
Anyways... I think you see the points I'm making (and this isn't me judging you and stuff, I just usually respond to thoughts by offering examples and what not) and I think this trainwreck of a comment has gone on long enough xD Thank you for your thoughts, it was as interesting thing to ponder and think about that I don't think is simply as easy as elitists vs. non elitists and stuff.
To all the folks struggling with this, I hope you can make peace with it, and when it comes to the acquaintances that don't respond back to you... SCREW THEM! PARTY WITH ME INSTEAD! I HAVE CAKE! MUHAHAHAHA! But no, seriously, brush them off, it's not important, what happens when they DO respond to you? It's like... welcome to a friendship that will be cold and one sided for most of the time... probably anyway... (not to be an asshole, I just know how that can go). Go poke your friendos instead!
Also I'm 100% sober, I'm just sleep deprived ;v; I know the comment is a little wacky and over the top at times, so felt I need to clarify xD
Perhaps you are correct there. Certain people feel their comments are just too generic to even consider posting, which I can understand. Honestly, most days people leave the most simplest comments...."Looks great!" "Cool" "Not bad". I mean can ya elaborate more than that at least? XD
I try my best to be more constructive with comments. Dont worry Ive definitely taken note of all the times youve commented/critiqued. Props for those sexy comments uvu/
In your case, I dont mind if you comment or not. Youre cool....no....youre ASSOME <3 *hugs* So im not centering you out in this journal....sorry if it gave that impression ^^; This applies to all whom are close friends with me as well....which are the ones whom usually comment anyway XD.
Ya think people solely comment on popular artist just to "brown-nose" them? I mean....now that you mention it....it sure seems people are like that.
Actually yea, Ive noticed it on Dave's pics as well with the whole one-word comments. Ugh ^^; I dont blame you for saying you'd rather do without.
Perhaps youre right with regard to the content I post or particular drawings. I can understand if it's not your taste at all (sorry for making so many big boobs on your fav characters ;v; XDDD). Maybe Im just overthinking.....LIKE I USUALLY DO >___<; I really need to get out that mentality ^^;
I guess it's just time to think outside the box perhaps and pursue newer/ more original content.
But hey it was quite an informative read indeed :) I appreciate that you took the time to write this <3
Now translate all of this into French now uvu loool
Thanks hun <3 *hugs tight* *eats cake that youve offered*
We need to do another skype call soooooon btw!!
We all overthink things, it's all good xD. You've already gotten better as far as I can tell about overreaction to overthinking and stuff, and I thoroughly hope you feel it too! We'll always be around to support yah and help yah with it too :D
Like I said, it's just my tastes, you have nothing to apologize for :3. You're not the only one who draws that kind of subject matter with those characters anyway xD. But yeah! We will keep reaching to make our art interesting and fabulous! But no shame in doing eye candy and what not too x3. We just don't wanna stagnate~
Moar skype, yaaaaaaaaaaas (or Discord or whatever)
1. Draw good with elite style as awesome you can that can make people surprised with their eyes to see your submissions
2. Take free commissions...
3. (Easy way) draw yiff (sex) or sexy things....
And yes, I know that feeling too well. But you shouldn't care about it that much. You shouldn't think too much about what others think or say. I mean, your art is great and that's the only thing which matters.
And people who only talk to the people with a certain amount of views? Sounds like the good old law of show business Only talking to the top.
No, seriously^^ In fact they are simply people from the internet, You could never tell what they actually think at all. I would never expect something in return and I wouldn't be disappointed if someone doesn't write back because I don't know if they are actually busy, don feel so good or having a bad time... or... are indeed d*** You really can't tell.
That some of them you like don't answer is really a pity. But as long as you keep your head up with confidence people will come, they will listen and care about what you say, for sure And those are the one you have to treasure
A big hug for you B
Indeed very true. It's hard to know what they are thinking....just creates fear of the unknown....which then leads to doubts. One big chain reaction @_@ But i think some people could be more considerate of others ..ya know? But that's probably too much to ask for.
Thank you for you input Rumold ^^
Hugs for you too <3
Keep up the arts B!
:D
(Sorry my answer isn't very long and full of answers to the question "Why I like your art". But I just do :D )
And no worries man! ^^
For me, i always comment on your stuff whenever i have something useful to say. Instead of putting a 1 word phrase to waste space. xD
You can count on me, man. don't worry.