So I joined ferzu...
9 years ago
General
Sometimes, someone just has to say it
At first I thought "oh cool, a social media site like facebook for furries. The thought never crossed my mind that the furry stereotype, of fuck lets face it, THE FURRY NORM would rear it's head.
I joined, got a few "welcomes" and made my profile, Right from the get go, it was asking me specs on my body type, and sexual interests. OH boy!
From there I started reading the status updates.... oh, there is a lot of talk about sex... *scroll* lots of talk about sex... *scrolls more* oh, look a call for attention post. *scrolls* more sex talk.
Yup, that is literally it. The norm, shining in all its glory. Everyone is focused on talking sex, showing off, or calling for attention with how depressed or sad they are.
I Have had 3 people message me, COOL oh wait, the typical "hi how are you" I decided to humor myself, and reply to them, only to get back "I am doing well" After I write out a bit of a conversation starter about what is going on in my life, like my eagerness to work on my truck.
Nothing makes me not want to talk to someone more, than vague, no energy messages.
Anyway, Ferzu is kind of worse than FA or F-list. At least I do find people who aren't just a sexual deviant/perv. There, it seems like the only active users are the perverts. *sigh* No wonder I am distanced from the fandom so much. I don't like talking sex stuff all the time, but it seems so many in the fandom do.
Any documenteries, any videos trying to justify furries as these innocent individuals... I am sorry but it is a lost battle, furries are un redeemable to me, and will continue to past the image of sex hungry individuals. This is why.
I joined, got a few "welcomes" and made my profile, Right from the get go, it was asking me specs on my body type, and sexual interests. OH boy!
From there I started reading the status updates.... oh, there is a lot of talk about sex... *scroll* lots of talk about sex... *scrolls more* oh, look a call for attention post. *scrolls* more sex talk.
Yup, that is literally it. The norm, shining in all its glory. Everyone is focused on talking sex, showing off, or calling for attention with how depressed or sad they are.
I Have had 3 people message me, COOL oh wait, the typical "hi how are you" I decided to humor myself, and reply to them, only to get back "I am doing well" After I write out a bit of a conversation starter about what is going on in my life, like my eagerness to work on my truck.
Nothing makes me not want to talk to someone more, than vague, no energy messages.
Anyway, Ferzu is kind of worse than FA or F-list. At least I do find people who aren't just a sexual deviant/perv. There, it seems like the only active users are the perverts. *sigh* No wonder I am distanced from the fandom so much. I don't like talking sex stuff all the time, but it seems so many in the fandom do.
Any documenteries, any videos trying to justify furries as these innocent individuals... I am sorry but it is a lost battle, furries are un redeemable to me, and will continue to past the image of sex hungry individuals. This is why.
FA+

Honestly. It's on the same level as if you walked into a brothel and was surprised to find no nuns. If you're looking for actually valuable people, you won't find them this way.
You'll bump into them eventually. But give it time. "To get to valuable people you have to wade through all the dicks first"
Once again same analogy. Surprised that everybody are having sex in a brothel