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Terrible with having friends...
9 years ago
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WARNING: (The Slicke-man's not too happy and might've said something he'll regret later on.)
So yeah, I'm pretty terrible with friends.
Not just making friends; finding them, talking to them, and giving them stuff.
I'm severely strict to whom I consider a friend. I don't know about anyone else, but I do a thing where if I add you to a Steam friend list, then bam; I consider you a friend. But recently, I've come to reconsider most of whom I considered friends. I've had one guy who I would talk to all the time; almost everyday. But now, after months past, we barely talk as much as we use to. Hell, we haven't talked in months. He was always the one contacting me first, and I was always happy to talk. But when I ever contact him first, he always seemed uninterested, not in the mood to talk, or coincidentally, just about to head to bed.
Because of this trend, I've come to think, how exactly did we resonate with each other? We didn't have much in common, he never wanted to do anything fun with me, and we barely have many subjects to talk about. I could barely come up with any reason to talk with him. All this time I though he was friend just because we talked alot and that's it. And this didn't happen with just him, it happened with others as well.
I also can't even give gifts to them that they would give a shit about. I made one picture for a guy and all he did was complain about it until a called him out on it and I bought a game for someone else that they didn't even try out until it was free on Steam. So yeah, waste of money and time.
There are a lot of you that I would very much like be close friends with. But I just don't want the same thing to happen where we talk for a while, I come to realize that we possibly have nothing in common, and I just wish we never talked at all. It's gotten to a point where I just stopped trying to reach out to other and be social. I can't even be close friends with an artist for fuck sake; which is extremely depressing for me!
So right now, I'm going to clean out my friends list on Skype and Steam (not everyone). If we haven't talked in a while, or I don't feel like we resonate as friends, I'm cutting contacts with you. I'm sick and fucking tired of seeing your name pop up on the feed, only to wish that you would talk or want to do something; because Lord knows I can't contact people at a good time.
So yeah, I'm pretty terrible with friends.
Not just making friends; finding them, talking to them, and giving them stuff.
I'm severely strict to whom I consider a friend. I don't know about anyone else, but I do a thing where if I add you to a Steam friend list, then bam; I consider you a friend. But recently, I've come to reconsider most of whom I considered friends. I've had one guy who I would talk to all the time; almost everyday. But now, after months past, we barely talk as much as we use to. Hell, we haven't talked in months. He was always the one contacting me first, and I was always happy to talk. But when I ever contact him first, he always seemed uninterested, not in the mood to talk, or coincidentally, just about to head to bed.
Because of this trend, I've come to think, how exactly did we resonate with each other? We didn't have much in common, he never wanted to do anything fun with me, and we barely have many subjects to talk about. I could barely come up with any reason to talk with him. All this time I though he was friend just because we talked alot and that's it. And this didn't happen with just him, it happened with others as well.
I also can't even give gifts to them that they would give a shit about. I made one picture for a guy and all he did was complain about it until a called him out on it and I bought a game for someone else that they didn't even try out until it was free on Steam. So yeah, waste of money and time.
There are a lot of you that I would very much like be close friends with. But I just don't want the same thing to happen where we talk for a while, I come to realize that we possibly have nothing in common, and I just wish we never talked at all. It's gotten to a point where I just stopped trying to reach out to other and be social. I can't even be close friends with an artist for fuck sake; which is extremely depressing for me!
So right now, I'm going to clean out my friends list on Skype and Steam (not everyone). If we haven't talked in a while, or I don't feel like we resonate as friends, I'm cutting contacts with you. I'm sick and fucking tired of seeing your name pop up on the feed, only to wish that you would talk or want to do something; because Lord knows I can't contact people at a good time.
awwwwww i wish i could hug
i wanna be friends, you seem like awesome person
so many hugs
Hope what the future holds in friends is actually good for you.
A. remove me themselves for whatever reason they might have.
B. I move on and go to a new messenger only adding those I still talk too and/or consider close friends if they have the program as well.
Recently I got discord however the reason is cuz my closest childhood friend I've known practically my whole life moved over to it tired of of issues he was having with skype. I myself still stay on skype cuz there is still a lot of people
who are only on there who are also important to me and probably won't leave it until all of the important ones to me go over as well.
When i noted you stuff i legitimately wanted to chat with you. You seemed to share similar interests, loved ur style (And i guess u liked some of mine? lol) and i feel like we could hit it off pretty easy. Which is why i asked for IM detail. And its like, if ur not comfortable thats A OK as i see here you got some stuff to sort out. But i guess i feel like i wasnt given a chance to really just casually talk.
Like when i tried joining the stream...well you can see i have social anxiety sometimes XD Ur not alone in those feelings. Just I hope when you're ready you can give me a chance. Just to chit chat. Doesn't have to be anything big. And i am always willing to talk. I can just be a little receeded sometimes (i get really caught up in gaming or drawing/model building) but thats me getting distracted as fuck, not trying to ignore you.
Hope you feel better soon dude. Please think about what I just text wall'd :U
This site is where I first started uploading my colorings.
Eventually this person that I colored one of their pics we started doing trades, then later on became good friends.
I've made several others, but also made some I wanted to forget as well.
People that seemed like they were friends turned out they were using me for my work.
It takes some time, but you can find good people on this site.
Just be sure to keep your guard up and it doesn't hurt to be skeptical about people.
Being open, yet cautious, is a good mentality when talking to new people.