What is it about dating I don't get???
9 years ago
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Why is it that everyone else can seem to date in the fandom, but I can't? I feel that I'll never date, at this rate. It seems like I'm just not good enough for anyone. Granted im not that affectionate and I'm pretty boring so it's to be expected I'm alone, but still everyone has someone and all I have is myself.
I feel like giving up TBH, it's just so hard. Some say I should date friends but I'm against that, seeing as I view my friends as like family and you should neve date your family. Perhaps I'm wrong? I just tired of waiting for love to come to me; I tried that forceful approach and now the waiting game and none seem to work.
What is it that I'm doing wrong?
I feel like giving up TBH, it's just so hard. Some say I should date friends but I'm against that, seeing as I view my friends as like family and you should neve date your family. Perhaps I'm wrong? I just tired of waiting for love to come to me; I tried that forceful approach and now the waiting game and none seem to work.
What is it that I'm doing wrong?
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I wish you luck on finding yourself a date man
But you don't have to blame yourself for that. It's a matter of meeting someone you find interesting and exchange together with the hope that you share a lot of the same interests together. Then eventually, you might start caring a lot for that person and the other will also care a lot for you. But all of this takes time and some luck.
Don't get discouraged. Sometimes, it takes a while. Keep searching and you'll eventually find.
Say, you seem to enjoy macro and paws. I'm sure we could start befriending each other. I like to comfort others in need like you.
It does take a lot of patience, and can be very frustrating. I spent five years without anyone and got into the mindset that I would be alone for most of my life. It happens when you least expect it, usually. I do wish you luck with it, dude. You definitely deserve someone special.
But why do you think everyone else has someone already? I'm pretty sure there's many more singles than taken, so you should be able to find someone. But that takes some effort and you can't expect love to come. ^^; It's not like in the movies, love at first sight. I think in real life it never ever works like this. It needs a lot of effort from both sides and quite some time to develop.