Serious talk
9 years ago
Hey guy's I just want to preface this by saying I've been having a really bad go at life recently so that's probably colouring my opinions.
when I first started drawing porn things improved a lot for me, the furry community was a positive place where I could grow as an artist and as a person. I still had to struggle a lot to make friends and I still have problems but I was glad to do it cause this felt like a nice place I could be safe from hate and hurt.
recently though I've been hearing a lot of furries throwing hate at other furries particularly artists over stupid shit like artstyle and anatomy choice usually behind there backs, but sometimes it even happens to me and it really gets to me. I by my own admission overreact when this happens because I feel like there bringing hate into the one place that I feel safe and at peace. I know it might sound stupid cause all I do is draw dicks but I really don't have much else and it means a lot to me.
idk maybe I'm just being around the wrong furs lately but it's really getting bad, cause like every time I try to draw I just remember that and get bummed out and have to stop. I decided to just let this account rot but know I realize I can't do that, without this I'm just waiting for the day to end more or less.
when I first started drawing porn things improved a lot for me, the furry community was a positive place where I could grow as an artist and as a person. I still had to struggle a lot to make friends and I still have problems but I was glad to do it cause this felt like a nice place I could be safe from hate and hurt.
recently though I've been hearing a lot of furries throwing hate at other furries particularly artists over stupid shit like artstyle and anatomy choice usually behind there backs, but sometimes it even happens to me and it really gets to me. I by my own admission overreact when this happens because I feel like there bringing hate into the one place that I feel safe and at peace. I know it might sound stupid cause all I do is draw dicks but I really don't have much else and it means a lot to me.
idk maybe I'm just being around the wrong furs lately but it's really getting bad, cause like every time I try to draw I just remember that and get bummed out and have to stop. I decided to just let this account rot but know I realize I can't do that, without this I'm just waiting for the day to end more or less.
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Actually in online communities in my country there is a even larger number of annoying and agressive people and you can always see conflicts between people and dirty words. Maybe I just get used of it and I think the furry communities are rather friendly communities compared with communities in my country.
Internet is a virtual place after all. You shouldn't pay much attention on the dark side to ruin your happiness. When I was first offensed by someone online I felt depressed and angry, but later I learned that I will just ignore it. If he is really willing to hear my words and just want to point out there's really something wrong with me he will persuade me with reasonable words but not just trying to shame me by throwing hate and dirty words. You will never win if you want to convince someone without logic. Your time is precious and don't waste it on such things.
Unnecessrary conflicts is not needed at all because some people don't even have a tenable reason to prove that you are wrong. "You say I'm wrong? So you'd better prove that you're right." Don't mind others' moody judgement, it's just what he think and can't represent anything except he's a stupid.
In a word I hope you're well and don't push yourself to do something you're unwilling to do. You are great and wish you have a happy life. Personaly, I hope you don't let it rot, too. But it's your own decision.
If someone is judging you by your drawings, this is clearly a sign that you shouldn't get along with these kind of furries.
We are not competing, it's simply our hobby.