so I have a predicament... -- Zyaixor's Journal -- Fur Affinity [dot] net

so I have a predicament...

9 years ago General

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This side Means im annoyed or something || In the middle means im fine, my usual self || Right side means im Upset/Depressed/Sad.ect

I have a friend who Has money problems at,m, but hes saying he doesnt want help

because the 2 things (im not saying what atm) he is tryning to get money for

He doesnt want peoples pity for it...

I dont think it would be pity...

plus I dont want him doing it all on his own...

so I dont know what to do..



*edit*

He says its a Personal Problem, which I understand

but still, I dont want him to go through it alone..

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29 Comments

LovelessAngel8 ~lovelessangel8

Writer

9 years ago

Well, I'll be praying for him. I'm not exactly what you should do. I'm sorry.

Zyaixor ~zyaixor

A Dragon Posting art!

9 years ago

*Hugs*

LovelessAngel8 ~lovelessangel8

Writer

9 years ago

*hugs back tightly but gently*

Zyaixor ~zyaixor

A Dragon Posting art!

9 years ago

LovelessAngel8 ~lovelessangel8

Writer

9 years ago

c: I'm always here if you need to talk. Just note me.

Zyaixor ~zyaixor

A Dragon Posting art!

9 years ago

Thanks :)

LovelessAngel8 ~lovelessangel8

Writer

9 years ago

Anytime, my friend. :)

Adleisio ~adleisio

Traditional Artist

9 years ago

Respect your friend, doing anything else might cause too many waves, only when he asks for help, can you give it. Just let him know you are there if he needs help, or simply talk to him about it, tell him how you see it.

Zyaixor ~zyaixor

A Dragon Posting art!

9 years ago

I have been...
I just really want to help him so he can get the money quicker..

Adleisio ~adleisio

Traditional Artist

9 years ago

Sometimes the best thing you can do, is do nothing, it is not your place to worry if he does not want help, if his goal is to do it on his own, then it is task alone, do not interfere, do not worry [maybe only a little], and show support, there is not much more to be done other than being patient, we have become obsessed with doing things fast and quick, but sometimes slow and steady is better.

Take a deep breath and just be patient.

Zyaixor ~zyaixor

A Dragon Posting art!

9 years ago

but...
i just...

Adleisio ~adleisio

Traditional Artist

9 years ago

Do nothing. It is that simple. Sometimes you just have to let go of all our pride and desires. It is not your life, you care, so this is normal, but you know as they say "You loved them so you let them go."

Zyaixor ~zyaixor

A Dragon Posting art!

9 years ago

;w;

Adleisio ~adleisio

Traditional Artist

9 years ago

I know how it can be, just breathe and zone out for a bit eh?

Zyaixor ~zyaixor

A Dragon Posting art!

9 years ago

okay..

well honestly, this friend of myne i a guy I like..
and he doesnt want to date yet and wants to meet in person b4 making decision..
and like, its gunna take 5-10 years to get the money he needs... maby more...
and I dont exactly want to wait that long...

Adleisio ~adleisio

Traditional Artist

9 years ago

*shrugs* I understand how you feel, but that is his decision unless you can meet out there.

Again, that is your own selfishness wanting to speed things along, let it go, there is nothing more you can do.

Zyaixor ~zyaixor

A Dragon Posting art!

9 years ago

its not just me..
i do care about him, and he does kindda wanna get the money he needs asap

Adleisio ~adleisio

Traditional Artist

9 years ago

But if he doesn't want help, your hands are tied.

Zyaixor ~zyaixor

A Dragon Posting art!

9 years ago

ok..

Adleisio ~adleisio

Traditional Artist

9 years ago

*hugs*

Zyaixor ~zyaixor

A Dragon Posting art!

9 years ago

*hugs*

ShinyTotodude ~shinytotodude

Big Jaw Pokémon | Water-Type 💧

9 years ago

What about if you tell him you'd lend him the money then? I mean, if he has taken care of his personal problems then he at least doesn't have to worry about that then. It's a different thing if he only feels like owing you.

Zyaixor ~zyaixor

A Dragon Posting art!

9 years ago

nah couldnt do that to him.

ShinyTotodude ~shinytotodude

Big Jaw Pokémon | Water-Type 💧

9 years ago

You don't have to take the money back, really. I men only it would give him the feel like you'd pity him as you were saying. You'd help him out while he keeps his pride and stuff. <X3

Zyaixor ~zyaixor

A Dragon Posting art!

9 years ago

thing is, he dont want the pitty

ShinyTotodude ~shinytotodude

Big Jaw Pokémon | Water-Type 💧

9 years ago

That's exactly why I told you telling him that you just lend him the money. That way he doesn't get the idea of you pittying him there.

Zyaixor ~zyaixor

A Dragon Posting art!

9 years ago

I was going to, I asked for his paypal and he said why and was like "cause im wanting to do something"
and he proceeded to in a way of saying no.

ShinyTotodude ~shinytotodude

Big Jaw Pokémon | Water-Type 💧

9 years ago

Well, you could try to negotiate him into that it would give him more time and all since you'd not mind waiting for him to pay you back.

Zyaixor ~zyaixor

A Dragon Posting art!

9 years ago

uno..

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