When you can't trust your own parents...
9 years ago
Oh, i already see the question coming. No, it's not my case, thankfully. But it's the case of someone i used to know.
Here is the true story of two beings loving each other... who have been separated by a lie. May this story teach some of you a lesson, because in my case, it did, and not only me but one of my friends too, as he has been helping me solving the case.
I started dating a dragoness i had as friend since several months, our relationship seemed to go very well, of course it was not perfect but it was possible to get past the internet step, we would have at least seen each other for real as i could drive to that person.
However, the parents of that dragoness knew about our relationship, and this is when a series of bad events happened. Our love was still strong despite her internet has been shut down by her parents until she would "behave". Apparently, they had something against it, and a life choice the dragoness did, which is too personal to talk about.
One day, about a few hours after receiving sweet messages from her while i was at work, i went back home and realised she was not anyone in any of my friends list, or she was still, but i was blocked. Checking her profile made me quickly see that sentence which was written on top of it, suggesting i shouldn't come back, as if i did something terrible. I was totally lost and tried to look for anything wrong i did to justify such action. Found nothing.
Eventually i got to know why i have been dumped : her parents did some background searching around my name, and found a criminal record. They told their daughter, which quickly lead to the end of our relationship while i was not online and couldn't defend myself against such terrible accusation. They could have found the first criminal having the same name i have, and say that this guy is me, without being sure of it. The fact is, everyone have been convinced i am, despite no one could show any proofs. She told a couple friends about it, which lead to one friend loss and another one who i thought was fully trusting me started having doubts and trusting issues towards me.
Yes, the situation was worse than it appeared. Lost my mate, lost a friend, and i felt like i was losing the other one. No one seemed to really trust me. But eh, i can really be tenacious sometimes, and that's what happened. I had to spend some money to get the official paper showing my records, because i wanted to be sure and show a solid proof to the friend i was starting to lose. When i got to see that paper, everything was clear : the dragoness has been told a lie by her parents, i have no records. My friend saw said paper, and immediately stopped being doubtful towards me. He tried talking to the dragoness about it, but she didn't believe him at all. That's where everything ended.
I think i said enough. I won't give any names, even in private, so i would appreciate if no one asks for that.
It's such a pity when you can't trust your own parents... i can't help but feel sorry for that person when i think about it.
Don't worry i'm doing good, a strong mind and a lot of self control help a lot when facing that kind of situation.
Here is the true story of two beings loving each other... who have been separated by a lie. May this story teach some of you a lesson, because in my case, it did, and not only me but one of my friends too, as he has been helping me solving the case.
I started dating a dragoness i had as friend since several months, our relationship seemed to go very well, of course it was not perfect but it was possible to get past the internet step, we would have at least seen each other for real as i could drive to that person.
However, the parents of that dragoness knew about our relationship, and this is when a series of bad events happened. Our love was still strong despite her internet has been shut down by her parents until she would "behave". Apparently, they had something against it, and a life choice the dragoness did, which is too personal to talk about.
One day, about a few hours after receiving sweet messages from her while i was at work, i went back home and realised she was not anyone in any of my friends list, or she was still, but i was blocked. Checking her profile made me quickly see that sentence which was written on top of it, suggesting i shouldn't come back, as if i did something terrible. I was totally lost and tried to look for anything wrong i did to justify such action. Found nothing.
Eventually i got to know why i have been dumped : her parents did some background searching around my name, and found a criminal record. They told their daughter, which quickly lead to the end of our relationship while i was not online and couldn't defend myself against such terrible accusation. They could have found the first criminal having the same name i have, and say that this guy is me, without being sure of it. The fact is, everyone have been convinced i am, despite no one could show any proofs. She told a couple friends about it, which lead to one friend loss and another one who i thought was fully trusting me started having doubts and trusting issues towards me.
Yes, the situation was worse than it appeared. Lost my mate, lost a friend, and i felt like i was losing the other one. No one seemed to really trust me. But eh, i can really be tenacious sometimes, and that's what happened. I had to spend some money to get the official paper showing my records, because i wanted to be sure and show a solid proof to the friend i was starting to lose. When i got to see that paper, everything was clear : the dragoness has been told a lie by her parents, i have no records. My friend saw said paper, and immediately stopped being doubtful towards me. He tried talking to the dragoness about it, but she didn't believe him at all. That's where everything ended.
I think i said enough. I won't give any names, even in private, so i would appreciate if no one asks for that.
It's such a pity when you can't trust your own parents... i can't help but feel sorry for that person when i think about it.
Don't worry i'm doing good, a strong mind and a lot of self control help a lot when facing that kind of situation.
It is very disheartening that you had to go through this, but it is good that you are pushing forward.
Thanks for the comment, fellow dragon.