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Insperational Journal - Love and Anger
9 years ago
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Hey guys, zengumi the candyman here, i just thought i'd go ahead and make a journal to just go on and talk about some certain stuff ^^
So, recently i saw a review from nostalgia critic
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QzY3tn6KJcA&t=1107s
A review that upon the ending just, ended up giving me some rather nicely put together words. the words that are one of the most interesting of advice to get, those words are.
"It is so easy to be angery and spiteful, but to be nice and kind to others is the hardest thing we can do"
Cause it is true.
Let me go on ahead and be real for a moment on this, alot of people especially my friends see and think me as one of the nicest people they ever met, despite knowing what usually happens behind the scenes of my actual life. Cause let me tell ya, i do deal in a bunch of stress on a daily basis, weather it be from my father, my family, even sometimes from even friends too.
There has been alot thats happened, where people get mad, others get overly pushy and demanding, some even feel inclined to always think that what they do doesn't have consequence and assumes that they will always be right no matter what. and even some moments where another persons jealousy can effect on how another should speak to someone else, And i know im not the only one that can feel like this. There is bound to be other people that feel exactly like this.
Now don't go lying to me saying that among a persons life it can be absolutely perfect, even i can admit its not always appearing that way. Even though i do struggle to make the most of it in being as loving and as happy as i can try to be.
Cause let me tell ya'll something it could be so, SO easy to explode at others, to say that i "I Hate You" to say "Fuck you" and mean it every litteral sense, cause not only is that easy to do to be angry at a person for things that they've done it is also the laziest thing that a person can do. Because as nostialgia critic would say When you get angry people don't think straight and its true, people CAN take advantage of that, heck some people i know irl that i know as the worst of people could take advantage of that so much so that if i were lose my temper i know it'd not end up well.
And ya know what? maybe people can disagree with what i have to say in thinking that being nice isn't the correct route that just in doing so is something that people can also take advantage of, and maybe thats why some people don't do so alot of the time. Some explode, some think that because of one thing wrong that someone does it pevees them so much to think that it'll end up making them so angry to just blow up and leave without another word.
And its not like i wouldn't feel inclined to wanting to do the same, theres alot of things that could put me off, that could make me just explode and so easily want to do something that i know i'll regret to do. But you know what? i would just figure to put aside all of that, all of the things that would get me angry, all of the little things that would get under my skin and all of the things that would irritate me so much i would sometimes even be brought to tears.
Because in all honesty, what would being angry really solve? Would it really make a person change to just finally blow up at them and speak your mind to hope to gosh that they just learn? that by the next morning they take your words and wake up and say "I finally understand now" that by the Millionth time that one time you finally get it in there skulls and they just decide to change to what you really want them to be as? Well.. no. It never works like that.
And don't get me wrong there are times where we need to be angry and aggressive and such and even times where we do have to fight and show others how we truely feel on certain subjects or how to handle things and even how to handle certain people, cause if we didn't then we really would be goosestepping our way to work. But that should only be the LAST option that a person should take, NOT always the first, because it is true when people get angry sometime we can't think straight and people take advantage of that as well your body for making an excuse for wanting to blow up a the person in the first place.
And as i said before, people can disagree with me and such, but im always willing to listen to what others have to say to me, even the people that most of the time i can't even stand. But i do that because even though that sometimes some of the things that others say might be wrong and unjustified to say to me even after all ive seen them do that doesn't seem correct in my eyes, i'll still keep in mind that somehow someway that it could possibly be right, but why you ask?
Cause if im not willing to change for the people that get under my skin my life, then how am i supposed to expect them to change for me? I want to be patient enough to see more how people can be similar rather then how people can how we can be different to each other. And i know that it'll be hard to do that it is hard to do that with certain people, and i HAVE failed alot in trying to do sometimes and i know others have had that problem too, where in trying to be nice isn't as easy as just becoming mad and such. But this, this is the one thing that i know of that if i keep on doing as i keep on doing i will be better at it. That I will become better at being even more nice then i have to be, that i can be able to keep and offer chance after chance dispite how people can think that i'd be stupid to do so and just give up entirely. And i know even other people could have a similar deal in that in thinking it'd be so easy to try to do that, to be mad and give up...
But.. that would be pretty lazy to do though, it would to be honest >~<;
Its true i do screw up alot, im not perfect, but my gosh am i tired of being lazy to just become angry rather then to just become nicer as a person.
And this journal isn't pointed at anyone i want for others to understand that. I just wrote this out cause the video kinda inspired me to do so <X3c But i just thought that it'd be best to share this just to see if others actually do feel the same way i can feel. =0 That somehow someway there are people we want to get mad at and tell them off but we don't cause we want to be a nicer person, we want to be kinder, we want to put the effort in showing love rather then anger, to show compassion rather then hostility. ^-^
Anyone that wants to is free to share they're thoughts, and share how they feel about this, upon me saying this though.
*hugs anyone that reads this* I am very glad to have friends, and you all know whom you are as my good close friends Q///Q
Ahem, anywho, go on ahead ^.^/
So, recently i saw a review from nostalgia critic
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QzY3tn6KJcA&t=1107s
A review that upon the ending just, ended up giving me some rather nicely put together words. the words that are one of the most interesting of advice to get, those words are.
"It is so easy to be angery and spiteful, but to be nice and kind to others is the hardest thing we can do"
Cause it is true.
Let me go on ahead and be real for a moment on this, alot of people especially my friends see and think me as one of the nicest people they ever met, despite knowing what usually happens behind the scenes of my actual life. Cause let me tell ya, i do deal in a bunch of stress on a daily basis, weather it be from my father, my family, even sometimes from even friends too.
There has been alot thats happened, where people get mad, others get overly pushy and demanding, some even feel inclined to always think that what they do doesn't have consequence and assumes that they will always be right no matter what. and even some moments where another persons jealousy can effect on how another should speak to someone else, And i know im not the only one that can feel like this. There is bound to be other people that feel exactly like this.
Now don't go lying to me saying that among a persons life it can be absolutely perfect, even i can admit its not always appearing that way. Even though i do struggle to make the most of it in being as loving and as happy as i can try to be.
Cause let me tell ya'll something it could be so, SO easy to explode at others, to say that i "I Hate You" to say "Fuck you" and mean it every litteral sense, cause not only is that easy to do to be angry at a person for things that they've done it is also the laziest thing that a person can do. Because as nostialgia critic would say When you get angry people don't think straight and its true, people CAN take advantage of that, heck some people i know irl that i know as the worst of people could take advantage of that so much so that if i were lose my temper i know it'd not end up well.
And ya know what? maybe people can disagree with what i have to say in thinking that being nice isn't the correct route that just in doing so is something that people can also take advantage of, and maybe thats why some people don't do so alot of the time. Some explode, some think that because of one thing wrong that someone does it pevees them so much to think that it'll end up making them so angry to just blow up and leave without another word.
And its not like i wouldn't feel inclined to wanting to do the same, theres alot of things that could put me off, that could make me just explode and so easily want to do something that i know i'll regret to do. But you know what? i would just figure to put aside all of that, all of the things that would get me angry, all of the little things that would get under my skin and all of the things that would irritate me so much i would sometimes even be brought to tears.
Because in all honesty, what would being angry really solve? Would it really make a person change to just finally blow up at them and speak your mind to hope to gosh that they just learn? that by the next morning they take your words and wake up and say "I finally understand now" that by the Millionth time that one time you finally get it in there skulls and they just decide to change to what you really want them to be as? Well.. no. It never works like that.
And don't get me wrong there are times where we need to be angry and aggressive and such and even times where we do have to fight and show others how we truely feel on certain subjects or how to handle things and even how to handle certain people, cause if we didn't then we really would be goosestepping our way to work. But that should only be the LAST option that a person should take, NOT always the first, because it is true when people get angry sometime we can't think straight and people take advantage of that as well your body for making an excuse for wanting to blow up a the person in the first place.
And as i said before, people can disagree with me and such, but im always willing to listen to what others have to say to me, even the people that most of the time i can't even stand. But i do that because even though that sometimes some of the things that others say might be wrong and unjustified to say to me even after all ive seen them do that doesn't seem correct in my eyes, i'll still keep in mind that somehow someway that it could possibly be right, but why you ask?
Cause if im not willing to change for the people that get under my skin my life, then how am i supposed to expect them to change for me? I want to be patient enough to see more how people can be similar rather then how people can how we can be different to each other. And i know that it'll be hard to do that it is hard to do that with certain people, and i HAVE failed alot in trying to do sometimes and i know others have had that problem too, where in trying to be nice isn't as easy as just becoming mad and such. But this, this is the one thing that i know of that if i keep on doing as i keep on doing i will be better at it. That I will become better at being even more nice then i have to be, that i can be able to keep and offer chance after chance dispite how people can think that i'd be stupid to do so and just give up entirely. And i know even other people could have a similar deal in that in thinking it'd be so easy to try to do that, to be mad and give up...
But.. that would be pretty lazy to do though, it would to be honest >~<;
Its true i do screw up alot, im not perfect, but my gosh am i tired of being lazy to just become angry rather then to just become nicer as a person.
And this journal isn't pointed at anyone i want for others to understand that. I just wrote this out cause the video kinda inspired me to do so <X3c But i just thought that it'd be best to share this just to see if others actually do feel the same way i can feel. =0 That somehow someway there are people we want to get mad at and tell them off but we don't cause we want to be a nicer person, we want to be kinder, we want to put the effort in showing love rather then anger, to show compassion rather then hostility. ^-^
Anyone that wants to is free to share they're thoughts, and share how they feel about this, upon me saying this though.
*hugs anyone that reads this* I am very glad to have friends, and you all know whom you are as my good close friends Q///Q
Ahem, anywho, go on ahead ^.^/
