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9 years ago
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So
I'm trying to make a fursona for my fiance, and I've relatively got the design down pat, but I'm struggling to decide what colour his hair should be. I have a few different colours to choose from, and ultimately the decision will be up to what he likes/thinks of them, but I dunno when I'll be able to talk to him next, SO i wanna ask you guys!
here's a few different options: http://orig00.deviantart.net/e0de/f.....ws-davkwud.jpg
but then someone on TR suggested I try my hand at a sort of raven-like iridescence, and: http://img06.deviantart.net/1164/i/.....-davkwz2.png?1
now i SUPER can't decide ;A;
He's gonna be a melanistic snow mew :3 (i was gonna call him a "snow" panther but lol idk)
ALSO, this next question is a bit more on the personal side.
I don't know how to tell my parents'family that I plan on marrying this guy pretty soon? Like, how do I break the news to them? I worry they'll super judge me because I never mentioned much of him to them, nor have they ever met him. My aunt sorta knows things because we talked quite a bit at our family reunion, but like....I seriously don't know how to break it to people. I was thinking of sending out a mass email to my family to let them know that hey, this dude is pretty wicked and i'm gonna spend the rest of my life with him....but is that like..too asshole-ish of me to do...? How do I even tell them I plan on moving to canada in the next few years??? and that i'm marrying him in canada???
;A;
i dunno what do
So
I'm trying to make a fursona for my fiance, and I've relatively got the design down pat, but I'm struggling to decide what colour his hair should be. I have a few different colours to choose from, and ultimately the decision will be up to what he likes/thinks of them, but I dunno when I'll be able to talk to him next, SO i wanna ask you guys!
here's a few different options: http://orig00.deviantart.net/e0de/f.....ws-davkwud.jpg
but then someone on TR suggested I try my hand at a sort of raven-like iridescence, and: http://img06.deviantart.net/1164/i/.....-davkwz2.png?1
now i SUPER can't decide ;A;
He's gonna be a melanistic snow mew :3 (i was gonna call him a "snow" panther but lol idk)
ALSO, this next question is a bit more on the personal side.
I don't know how to tell my parents'family that I plan on marrying this guy pretty soon? Like, how do I break the news to them? I worry they'll super judge me because I never mentioned much of him to them, nor have they ever met him. My aunt sorta knows things because we talked quite a bit at our family reunion, but like....I seriously don't know how to break it to people. I was thinking of sending out a mass email to my family to let them know that hey, this dude is pretty wicked and i'm gonna spend the rest of my life with him....but is that like..too asshole-ish of me to do...? How do I even tell them I plan on moving to canada in the next few years??? and that i'm marrying him in canada???
;A;
i dunno what do
My mothers response was happy as could be.. my father just stood there for a moment like he was digesting the news..then asked who was the top. Not sure why it mattered but I told him myself..and he just nodded, went ' Good.. I'll help you with moving money.'
Was the weirdest response ever..but he's..ah, not big on same sex relationships either way XD
But i would just say be blunt, but polite about it.
but on the other hand, me and him could always just get married and have family receptions with our respective families separately throughout the year? I dont know ;A;
But I think doing what makes you happy is whats important in life.
I actually think that last idea is a really good one. That way it would allow you two to have a simple marriage at the courthouse, but still allow you two to involve family over the year with your new lives as being together. ^^
But i dunno, my aunt seemed super supportive of me, given the convo that we had, so I can only hope that the rest of my family is the same. I know my grandparents have passports and are retired and already travel the world, so I reckon they'd be all for coming up for the ceremony lol.
His mom and grandpa are already pretty aware of our intentions, as we hang around with each other a lot, and me and him wear rings, and they are super supportive of it too.
Just coming from a 30-year old who's learned some things the hard way. ^^;
About the character, I really like the white, red-and-black and the purple, If he's melanistic, though, the white no longer works. XD