idk if people watch me without looking at my profile
9 years ago
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but i check every single watcher and lately ive had to block a bunch of gross people who somehow thought i would want them watching me? (this is generally people who has info in their profiles that i straight up say on mine isnt welcome here)
FA+

that said i still do get more nice people than bad ones!! i just had a lot of the other all of a sudden this month!
i wish i had the time to do that lol
i started doing it to find more artists to watch at first actually! now its a bit of both haha
It's your little corner here, as we all have our own, and we are visitors. It's like coming inside someone's home. You don't just kick off your shoes and rummage through their fridge. It's a different thing entirely if permission is given.
I do hope I didn't upset you with my own gallery when you checked. I've a range of art, the most recent pics are commissions, as in I draw for someone else. The middle of my gallery, the older art with the different signature, is from when I did general pic sand pin ups to sell as prints and sold the originals at cons and Furbid long ago in the 90's. The very first pics are when I came back to drawing again after years of not, learning my way around FA and the edges.
If I did upset you, my apologies. If you'd rather that I not follow you, please let me know and I will. I won't be offended, it is your site after all.
-- Lia
-- Lia
What I really dislike is when I put a pic up and the comments are rather lewd. I've seen this on other galleries as well. Can't they just say they like it and how? Must it be a comment of how the follower would like to do what is in the pic to the character themselves? Or when the pic is a general audience, as in simply a pose, why must the follower make comments speculating how the character would be in bed and what they'd like to do to them? Bleh.
Anyhow, may this work out well for you!
-- Lia
and I'm not any of the things you don't like
and I think it makes sense that you don't want thoe
kinds of ppl watching you X 3
if i wasnt so lazy i would look through my watchers xD;
dont have mobile /phones
etc
I'm the kind to say "Oh hey a new watcher, yay!" and take that as a small ego boost for a second.
The only times I choose to look through new watcher galleries if I've not uploaded anything in awhile and wonder, "Who are you and how did you get here?" because I don't tag adequately OR if somebody's sona in their icon is something I'm a fan of like Pokemon to see if I wanna watch back.
Totally understand your way of thinking though! It's different, and I like that.
You must have one hell of a safe search filter! :) I know even when mine's on, that's sometimes when sometimes the weirdest stuff gets through.
and some terms are definitely reclaimable for the people who have experienced the slurs used on/about them! i will not have an issue with that of course, i am just not comfortable with people who refer to others/others work with those slurs as well, since you cant reclaim one on behalf of others!
also yes i always have that safe for work filter going haha, and mostly just look at the art people i watch post since some things still do get through that filter on the front page!
but yeah this definitely wasnt directed at any one person in specific, mostly just me being confused about the sudden influx in people watching me that i have had to block right away this month!
To me, personally, I'd be much more ready to be offended if people were using the term 'trans' or 'transgender' for highly sexualized characters with unrealistic proportions, if you know what I mean? I'd rather see people have an alternate word to use for someone's idea of a character with a random collection of body parts for fetish purposes, y'know?
And yea, if someone's calling out other people with derogatory terms, absolutely I understand the offense 100%. I get pretty whacked out when people use derogatory derivations of 'transgender'.
It's a bad can of worms, I really should leave! XD
Cheers!
I've seen a lot of people using those slurs too, and up until a couple months ago, I didn't even know they were slurs. So many people used them I though it was the norm, until one of my trans friends was like "no potato, you are not wise in these things. Bad words!" and then explained it.
Sad to see so many people using them. :/
I hope you don't get too many more people like that following you. :(
and yeah it really is a shame its so normalized now that a lot of people dont even realize they are bad slurs, i am always up for explaining why however so i try to educate where i can! it can be rough to look up i imagine because a lot of people defend the use of the slurs xox
hopefully in the future theyll be used much much less than they are currently!
and thank you, i hope so too ;u;
(Maybe I should skim my watchlist more throughly after reading this...)
It's disgusting how much stuff is so normalized here like what the heck.