hugs* i know how that goes and feels >.< so sorry to hear that

TBH I have less a problem with your fetish (I know other diaper furs that are actually good people), but your politics definitely favors those that would hurt me and mine. It also happens to be rubbing shoulders with people who would never understand your being a fur, much less a diaper fur, but I'll leave you to learn such hard lessons yourself.

By the by, I get hard feelings over an ex, but at some point you gotta get over it and not go on about it. You might just get seen as a stalker.