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[HISTORICAL] Liars and Blackmail (My Ts&Cs)
8 years ago
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EDITED AS OF 25/04/2017 TO INCLUDE THIS HEADER. THE REST OF THE DOCUMENT UNDER THE BELLOW PARAGRAPH HAS BEEN KEPT IN ITS ORIGINAL STATE FOR HISTORICAL REASONS.
It has not been a good start to 2017. A year I had hoped would be full of joy and optimism. But at least now one of ths biggest issues have now been layed to rest.
Myself and Foxhound1710 met a couple of years ago and were inseparable. We were great friends and more as shown by our galleries but slowly lost interest in each other over time.
Last month he had claimed that he had been blackmailed by an ex of mine. I assumed after a while that he was lying to me and assumed hostility posting the journal bellow. But now I am neutral in the matter and do not know anything about the blackmail incident or who caused it other then my knowledge of asking people if they had anything to do with it hoping someone would come clean.
Me and Foxhound1710 have now left on neutral ground agreeing that he and the artists can keep this picture uploaded to their galleries which for Foxhound1710 symbolises his grievance and end to our friendship. For me the image symbolises unrestand a need for change. I have issues and faults which other people do not like whether they make me aware of it or not. And because of this 2017 will not be a year full of joy and optimism, instead it is a year of change for the better. The year I stop being a 19 year old teenager and the year I become a 20 year old adult.
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Some of you might be aware that I was investigating a claim that one of my friends had been blackmailed by another friend, threatening to post inappropriate images of them or their fursona in public circles to those who should not see them if they did not leave me as a friend.
Since then they have finally told me who this person was that they claimed blackmailed them which did not turn out to be a friend but instead an ex-boyfriend.
Now although we left each other on the wrong foot and because of previous events I understood why my ex-might of been trying to do this but it did not make sense in the grand scheme of things as they are perfectly publicly happy with another (which they were before and after they were with me but but not to this extent) so my ex would not be trying to 'get with me' again and most certainly would not be trying to 'attack me' in revenge by removing a friend of mine. I even contacted them asking if they did speak to the person being blackmailed and was only met with a block; of which if they did mean to get with me again then they would of said and actually acted upon that question.
So all in all I've come to the conclusion that this 'friend' of mine was lying all a long. Either for attention or in spite.
Even during the process of my investigation they were very accustomed to me saying "if I suspect any of my friends I also suspect you for lying" and was suggesting they should leave after all seemingly for me to pity them to come back.
However they have now removed themselves as a friend on my Steam account making me believe that they indeed were lying all along.
In conclusion to this I would like to state a few things about any form of relationship to me whether it be only an acquaintance to me, a friend or a potential lover:
- DO NOT lie to me about serious or criminal actions such as blackmail.
- DO NOT use rude or insensitive language in conversations or names such as "Sir London Roadkill" (referring to the late terrorist attack on the Houses of Parliament in London) (There is a time for jokes and conversations but sometimes it it completely inappropriate)
- I know I am not a perfect human being and can take criticism but DO NOT use it to attack me or use it as a basis to attack my Nationally or other relations.
- DO NOT use the language barrier or your own poor English understanding to justify attacking me vocally or using rude language.
- DO NOT expect me to be interested in topics you bring to the table and expect a full blown conversation 24hrs 7days a week because I may not wish to talk about them or do not know enough about the subject to voice an opinion.
- DO NOT force me or pester me to do thing that I do not want to do such as play games or get involved in certain activities I am not interested partaking in.
- I AM NOT interested in any online or long-distance romantic relationships.
- As of this point I AM NOT interested in any adult or sexual themes with anyone.
- DO NOT request any financial aid or gifts from me as I have given a lot away to 'friends' in the past and have not received a single penny, a thank you or anything back from almost all of them.
It has not been a good start to 2017. A year I had hoped would be full of joy and optimism. But at least now one of ths biggest issues have now been layed to rest.
Myself and Foxhound1710 met a couple of years ago and were inseparable. We were great friends and more as shown by our galleries but slowly lost interest in each other over time.
Last month he had claimed that he had been blackmailed by an ex of mine. I assumed after a while that he was lying to me and assumed hostility posting the journal bellow. But now I am neutral in the matter and do not know anything about the blackmail incident or who caused it other then my knowledge of asking people if they had anything to do with it hoping someone would come clean.
Me and Foxhound1710 have now left on neutral ground agreeing that he and the artists can keep this picture uploaded to their galleries which for Foxhound1710 symbolises his grievance and end to our friendship. For me the image symbolises unrestand a need for change. I have issues and faults which other people do not like whether they make me aware of it or not. And because of this 2017 will not be a year full of joy and optimism, instead it is a year of change for the better. The year I stop being a 19 year old teenager and the year I become a 20 year old adult.
_______________________________________________________________________________________________________
Some of you might be aware that I was investigating a claim that one of my friends had been blackmailed by another friend, threatening to post inappropriate images of them or their fursona in public circles to those who should not see them if they did not leave me as a friend.
Since then they have finally told me who this person was that they claimed blackmailed them which did not turn out to be a friend but instead an ex-boyfriend.
Now although we left each other on the wrong foot and because of previous events I understood why my ex-might of been trying to do this but it did not make sense in the grand scheme of things as they are perfectly publicly happy with another (which they were before and after they were with me but but not to this extent) so my ex would not be trying to 'get with me' again and most certainly would not be trying to 'attack me' in revenge by removing a friend of mine. I even contacted them asking if they did speak to the person being blackmailed and was only met with a block; of which if they did mean to get with me again then they would of said and actually acted upon that question.
So all in all I've come to the conclusion that this 'friend' of mine was lying all a long. Either for attention or in spite.
Even during the process of my investigation they were very accustomed to me saying "if I suspect any of my friends I also suspect you for lying" and was suggesting they should leave after all seemingly for me to pity them to come back.
However they have now removed themselves as a friend on my Steam account making me believe that they indeed were lying all along.
In conclusion to this I would like to state a few things about any form of relationship to me whether it be only an acquaintance to me, a friend or a potential lover:
- DO NOT lie to me about serious or criminal actions such as blackmail.
- DO NOT use rude or insensitive language in conversations or names such as "Sir London Roadkill" (referring to the late terrorist attack on the Houses of Parliament in London) (There is a time for jokes and conversations but sometimes it it completely inappropriate)
- I know I am not a perfect human being and can take criticism but DO NOT use it to attack me or use it as a basis to attack my Nationally or other relations.
- DO NOT use the language barrier or your own poor English understanding to justify attacking me vocally or using rude language.
- DO NOT expect me to be interested in topics you bring to the table and expect a full blown conversation 24hrs 7days a week because I may not wish to talk about them or do not know enough about the subject to voice an opinion.
- DO NOT force me or pester me to do thing that I do not want to do such as play games or get involved in certain activities I am not interested partaking in.
- I AM NOT interested in any online or long-distance romantic relationships.
- As of this point I AM NOT interested in any adult or sexual themes with anyone.
- DO NOT request any financial aid or gifts from me as I have given a lot away to 'friends' in the past and have not received a single penny, a thank you or anything back from almost all of them.
Glad you sorted it out. Hope you get good things in the future, mate.