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tops, bottoms... truth, and bullshit!
8 years ago
some say I am crazy, and I'd say that they're at least half right.
truth, a person can be a physical top, and still bottom from time to time or for some people, and still be a top.
truth, a person can be a physical bottom, and still top from time to time or for some people, and still be a bottom.
truth, a person can be a switch and top or bottom or even not top nor bottom, be that orally or anally, and still be a switch!
Truth, it isn't the act of topping or bottoming that makes one either any one of these three! it is what they'd rather do more of, that is what makes them a physical; top, switch, or bottom!
truth, someone can also be a dominant or alpha that likes to bottom, i.e. be a physical bottom and still be a dominant or an alpha, the fact that they like to bottom, doesn't change the fact that they are a dominant or an alpha!
truth, someone can also be a mental submissive that likes to top, i.e. be a physical top and still be a submissive, the fact that they like to top, doesn't change the fact that they are submissive mentally!
truth, a switch can be either a dominant, a submissive, or not really either one, it's only the fact that they either like to or don't like to top and/or bottom equally that makes them a switch.
Truth, the dominance or submissiveness of the mind doesn't have to match the want to top or bottom physically!
I get so sick of seeing and/or hearing that just because someone bottomed once that they're a bottom! as that is The Bull Shit of bottom shaming, and top fearing that is a poison forced onto healthy fluid sexual people by an image-crazy commercialized porn industry!
truth, a person can be a physical bottom, and still top from time to time or for some people, and still be a bottom.
truth, a person can be a switch and top or bottom or even not top nor bottom, be that orally or anally, and still be a switch!
Truth, it isn't the act of topping or bottoming that makes one either any one of these three! it is what they'd rather do more of, that is what makes them a physical; top, switch, or bottom!
truth, someone can also be a dominant or alpha that likes to bottom, i.e. be a physical bottom and still be a dominant or an alpha, the fact that they like to bottom, doesn't change the fact that they are a dominant or an alpha!
truth, someone can also be a mental submissive that likes to top, i.e. be a physical top and still be a submissive, the fact that they like to top, doesn't change the fact that they are submissive mentally!
truth, a switch can be either a dominant, a submissive, or not really either one, it's only the fact that they either like to or don't like to top and/or bottom equally that makes them a switch.
Truth, the dominance or submissiveness of the mind doesn't have to match the want to top or bottom physically!
I get so sick of seeing and/or hearing that just because someone bottomed once that they're a bottom! as that is The Bull Shit of bottom shaming, and top fearing that is a poison forced onto healthy fluid sexual people by an image-crazy commercialized porn industry!
There is no One True Way, in sexual activity or any other field of human interaction - other than "Don't Be An Asshole".