Survey - The results!
8 years ago
General
Alright, I have spent a few hours going through the results of the survey, and here's the generalized data that I have found. But first, I have a few things I need to preface with!
1) THIS IS NOT INDICATIVE OF RIGHT AND WRONG! - Whether you're in the minority, majority, etc, it doesn't matter if people like what you like or dislike what you like, this is not proof that you are correct or wrong in what you enjoy. Everybody has their own preferences, and even if yours are more popular or not, that is no reason to think you are better or worse than anybody else. Despite getting data, the main things I want people to know is to RESPECT each other and yourselves.
2) This data is HEAVILY BIASED and is NOT scientifically accurate AT ALL.
- The sample size is far too small to get any significant statistical correlations
- The sample group is restricted to those who saw the survey on this site within the past couple of days and actually WANTED to take the survey. In other words, it's likely people who shared the survey with others likely already have shared interests with those others, and thus bias the survey to that regard.
- The sample group is restricted to those who likely already watch me, which means they are into some of the things I put out. And the stuff I put out can be pretty weird, compared to others!
3) There's a lot of things that there just wasn't enough data for, so if I don't specify a trend, just assume that it was so evenly distributed that there was nothing to point out, or there was so little responses that it wasn't worth pointing out.
4) Thank you to everybody who participated! I know a lot of you shared some pretty personal stuff in this survey, which I am not sharing, but I appreciate the candidness and hope you all do well! :)
So, the results... First I'm going to start with the notes I took from eyeballing the data. These are things I noticed and thought were things people might like to know. When I say "females" and "males" here, it's kinda fuzzy, mostly it's birth gender, but can dip a little into identified gender, but there's not enough data to refine it further. These are also notes, with additional notes that I'm adding now).
Result Notes
males - similar percentage of "not birth gender" as females
females - put androdgynous more, no identifying as males
males - bit on the heavier side
females - weights average out
everybody - heights average out
everybody - more towards the "unfit" side (Understandable, considering this is a community that is largly on computers).
everybody - stick more to "own beliefs" than religions
everybody - first sexual experiences were largely "maybe"
males - more spontaneously aroused than females
everybody - seek out erotica about the same rate regardless of gender, when averaged comes to about once per week to once per day
everybody - erotic reading scored highly (Totally a bias of those that watch me, since my stuff involves reading usually XD)
males - more fictional single pictures for source of erotica
females - more animated videos for source of erotica
everybody - masturbates at about the same rates regardless of gender, especially in the 1-4 per week or once per day range
orgasm success rate - about the same percentages, but only females had 0% success rates. no correlation to breast size or penis size or clit size, or almost any body feature (weight, height, fitness, etc)
orgasm success rate - those whose clits did not leave their clitoral hood seem to have a lower success rate, though there's plenty that had a high success rate with it. (No causality here, just an observation.)
females and female-gendered males - enjoy their nipples more than male-gendered males
female lubrication - "drooling" is average
female pleasure - clitoral, then nipples, then g-spot
men - largely penile, anal was as common as most of the other options
prefered partners
females - generally prefer females or are bi, very few only-males (I imagine this is largely due to the sample bias)
males - largely female and some males
female - prefer more on the slim-average side of weight
males - prefer more averaging out of weight
females - prefer more on the stronger side than males
females - breast size preference averages out pretty evenly from small to large
males - breast size preference averages out a little on the larger side
females - around 6-8" penis size, some preference on larger, but also a few that prefer smaller
everybody - desire for 50-75% kinks in common
females - 25-50% kink difference max
males - 50% kink difference max
everybody - scat, guro, snuff, vomit was pretty largely the ones mentioned as strict no-nos, and even then only 50% specified strict no-nos
males - pregnancy was more common among those that marked a necessary kink (though still only just a few) (Definitely sample bias here, I imagine)
females - lactation was more common among those that marked a necessary kink (though still only just a few) (Definitely sample bias here, I imagine)
males - more commonly marked "open minded" as a necessary extra factor, whereas females did not regard this
Calculated Results
This section I actually wrote out a script to go through the data and calculate things for me. This is the actual output from the script. I specified females that identify as females, males that identify as males, and then "other" for all other cases. The "other" group is because of the low sample size for every possibility, but they all have the fact they did not mark their birth gender as their identified gender, or had "it's complicated", so there could be correlations observed there.
This data is also just strict numbers, no analysis. Again, if your kink scored high or low, don't worry, everybody has their own interests!
Female identifying as female - 14 total
General 'Real' average = 2.76
General 'Fictional' average = 3.06
Average number of 1s for 'Real' kinks = 13.64
Average number of 5s for 'Real' kinks = 7.07
Average number of 1s for 'Fictional' kinks = 11.29
Average number of 5s for 'Fictional' kinks = 12.5
Top 5 'Real' kinks
"Being submissive (taking orders being forced to do things) during sex?", 4.29
"Roleplaying during sex?", 4.14
"Sexual toys during sex/masturbation?", 3.86
"Oral sex from somebody else?", 3.71
"Lactation?", 3.71
Bottom 5 'Real' kinks
"Wearing diapers WITH peeing/pooping?", 1.0
"Pooping during sex/masturbation?", 1.0
"Wearing diapers WITHOUT peeing/pooping?", 1.14
"Adult Baby play?", 1.43
"Peeing during sex/masturbation?", 1.43
Top 5 'Fictional' kinks
"Loving sex", 4.21
"Size play (one much larger than the other)", 4.21
"Impregnation (but not necessarily the pregnancy)", 4.14
"Anthropomorphic animals (furries etc)", 4.07
"Original characters", 3.86
Bottom 5 'Fictional' kinks
"Scat", 1.0
"Snuff (death)", 1.21
"Guro (blood and gore)", 1.36
"Diapers", 1.43
"Cocknipples", 1.79
Male identifying as male - 32 total
General 'Real' average = 2.45
General 'Fictional' average = 2.9
Average number of 1s for 'Real' kinks = 15.34
Average number of 5s for 'Real' kinks = 5.84
Average number of 1s for 'Fictional' kinks = 13.59
Average number of 5s for 'Fictional' kinks = 11.5
Top 5 'Real' kinks
"Oral sex from somebody else?", 3.53
"Roleplaying during sex?", 3.53
"Being submissive (taking orders being forced to do things) during sex?", 3.53
"Sexual activity from partner while you're busy with a non-sexual task?", 3.44
"Oral sex for somebody else?", 3.44
Bottom 5 'Real' kinks
"Pooping during sex/masturbation?", 1.09
"Blood/cutting?", 1.19
"Wearing diapers WITH peeing/pooping?", 1.25
"Wearing diapers WITHOUT peeing/pooping?", 1.38
"Torture bondage?", 1.41
Top 5 'Fictional' kinks
"Loving sex", 4.53
"Breast growth/large breasts", 3.97
"Girl on Girl", 3.94
"Transformation to animal/animal features", 3.84
"Anthropomorphic animals (furries etc)", 3.84
Bottom 5 'Fictional' kinks
"Scat", 1.28
"Guro (blood and gore)", 1.5
"Diapers", 1.53
"Snuff (death)", 1.56
"Odorous", 1.78
Other - 19 total
General 'Real' average = 2.93
General 'Fictional' average = 3.1
Average number of 1s for 'Real' kinks = 10.16
Average number of 5s for 'Real' kinks = 7.74
Average number of 1s for 'Fictional' kinks = 10.79
Average number of 5s for 'Fictional' kinks = 12.74
Top 5 'Real' kinks
"Sexual toys during sex/masturbation?", 4.11
"Oral sex for somebody else?", 3.95
"Oral sex from somebody else?", 3.74
"Crossdressing in private?", 3.74
"Breast growth via inducing lactation from excess nipple stimulation?", 3.74
Bottom 5 'Real' kinks
"Wearing diapers WITH peeing/pooping?", 1.21
"Pooping during sex/masturbation?", 1.26
"Adult Baby play?", 1.32
"Wearing diapers WITHOUT peeing/pooping?", 1.37
"Smoking?", 1.58
Top 5 'Fictional' kinks
"Anthropomorphic animals (furries etc)", 4.53
"Male becoming female", 4.32
"Transformation to animal/animal features", 4.11
"Monsters", 4.05
"Girl on Girl", 4.05
Bottom 5 'Fictional' kinks
"Scat", 1.32
"Diapers", 1.37
"Snuff (death)", 1.63
"Guro (blood and gore)", 1.84
"Odorous", 1.89
Differences between male and female kink averages (Not including 'other')
Top 5 females scored higher than males, real
"Sensory deprivation?", 1.04
"Exhibitionism?", 1.03
"Hidden vibrator when in public?", 0.94
"Labia pumping?", 0.86
"Sexual activity hidden in public?", 0.86
Top 5 males scored higher than females, real
"Inflation via fluids?", 0.53
"Inflation via air?", 0.31
"Wearing diapers WITH peeing/pooping?", 0.25
"Wearing diapers WITHOUT peeing/pooping?", 0.24
"Breast implants?", 0.18
Top 5 females scored higher than males, fictional
"Forced compliance to sex (unwanted but agreed to)", 0.87
"Monstrous/Alien", 0.83
""Mean" sex (revenge jealousy etc)", 0.8
"Female becoming male", 0.72
"Cute/Kawaii", 0.6
Top 5 males scored higher than females, fictional
"Testicle growth/large testicles", 0.77
"Penis growth/large penis", 0.61
"Transformation to animal/animal features", 0.55
"Inflation", 0.48
"Hyper penis", 0.42
Final Observations
I was one to think that females would be more likely to avoid weirder kinks than most males. But, from the data above, it looks like females actually scored kinks higher overall tham males. And, logically, those that fall under the "other" category seem to be more accepting of kinks in general.
Although, most important to point out is... the difference is really really small. It's easily accounted for just from having a small sample size. But I think overall, there's not too much difference between people, when it comes to "weird kinks", which is nice. Just a difference in "which kinks" people prefer.
The main point I want people to come from this is: Everybody has weird stuff they're into, it's okay to be into weird stuff, even if it's weird amongst the weirdos.
I'll leave the survey open for a while longer. I've saved the scripts I used to get the numbers, so I can easily rerun them later; it'll just be the manual notes that I likely won't be able to do again.
Any thoughts on how I handled this? Was this information interesting to you? Might there be anything else you guys might want to know from this?
1) THIS IS NOT INDICATIVE OF RIGHT AND WRONG! - Whether you're in the minority, majority, etc, it doesn't matter if people like what you like or dislike what you like, this is not proof that you are correct or wrong in what you enjoy. Everybody has their own preferences, and even if yours are more popular or not, that is no reason to think you are better or worse than anybody else. Despite getting data, the main things I want people to know is to RESPECT each other and yourselves.
2) This data is HEAVILY BIASED and is NOT scientifically accurate AT ALL.
- The sample size is far too small to get any significant statistical correlations
- The sample group is restricted to those who saw the survey on this site within the past couple of days and actually WANTED to take the survey. In other words, it's likely people who shared the survey with others likely already have shared interests with those others, and thus bias the survey to that regard.
- The sample group is restricted to those who likely already watch me, which means they are into some of the things I put out. And the stuff I put out can be pretty weird, compared to others!
3) There's a lot of things that there just wasn't enough data for, so if I don't specify a trend, just assume that it was so evenly distributed that there was nothing to point out, or there was so little responses that it wasn't worth pointing out.
4) Thank you to everybody who participated! I know a lot of you shared some pretty personal stuff in this survey, which I am not sharing, but I appreciate the candidness and hope you all do well! :)
So, the results... First I'm going to start with the notes I took from eyeballing the data. These are things I noticed and thought were things people might like to know. When I say "females" and "males" here, it's kinda fuzzy, mostly it's birth gender, but can dip a little into identified gender, but there's not enough data to refine it further. These are also notes, with additional notes that I'm adding now).
Result Notes
males - similar percentage of "not birth gender" as females
females - put androdgynous more, no identifying as males
males - bit on the heavier side
females - weights average out
everybody - heights average out
everybody - more towards the "unfit" side (Understandable, considering this is a community that is largly on computers).
everybody - stick more to "own beliefs" than religions
everybody - first sexual experiences were largely "maybe"
males - more spontaneously aroused than females
everybody - seek out erotica about the same rate regardless of gender, when averaged comes to about once per week to once per day
everybody - erotic reading scored highly (Totally a bias of those that watch me, since my stuff involves reading usually XD)
males - more fictional single pictures for source of erotica
females - more animated videos for source of erotica
everybody - masturbates at about the same rates regardless of gender, especially in the 1-4 per week or once per day range
orgasm success rate - about the same percentages, but only females had 0% success rates. no correlation to breast size or penis size or clit size, or almost any body feature (weight, height, fitness, etc)
orgasm success rate - those whose clits did not leave their clitoral hood seem to have a lower success rate, though there's plenty that had a high success rate with it. (No causality here, just an observation.)
females and female-gendered males - enjoy their nipples more than male-gendered males
female lubrication - "drooling" is average
female pleasure - clitoral, then nipples, then g-spot
men - largely penile, anal was as common as most of the other options
prefered partners
females - generally prefer females or are bi, very few only-males (I imagine this is largely due to the sample bias)
males - largely female and some males
female - prefer more on the slim-average side of weight
males - prefer more averaging out of weight
females - prefer more on the stronger side than males
females - breast size preference averages out pretty evenly from small to large
males - breast size preference averages out a little on the larger side
females - around 6-8" penis size, some preference on larger, but also a few that prefer smaller
everybody - desire for 50-75% kinks in common
females - 25-50% kink difference max
males - 50% kink difference max
everybody - scat, guro, snuff, vomit was pretty largely the ones mentioned as strict no-nos, and even then only 50% specified strict no-nos
males - pregnancy was more common among those that marked a necessary kink (though still only just a few) (Definitely sample bias here, I imagine)
females - lactation was more common among those that marked a necessary kink (though still only just a few) (Definitely sample bias here, I imagine)
males - more commonly marked "open minded" as a necessary extra factor, whereas females did not regard this
Calculated Results
This section I actually wrote out a script to go through the data and calculate things for me. This is the actual output from the script. I specified females that identify as females, males that identify as males, and then "other" for all other cases. The "other" group is because of the low sample size for every possibility, but they all have the fact they did not mark their birth gender as their identified gender, or had "it's complicated", so there could be correlations observed there.
This data is also just strict numbers, no analysis. Again, if your kink scored high or low, don't worry, everybody has their own interests!
Female identifying as female - 14 total
General 'Real' average = 2.76
General 'Fictional' average = 3.06
Average number of 1s for 'Real' kinks = 13.64
Average number of 5s for 'Real' kinks = 7.07
Average number of 1s for 'Fictional' kinks = 11.29
Average number of 5s for 'Fictional' kinks = 12.5
Top 5 'Real' kinks
"Being submissive (taking orders being forced to do things) during sex?", 4.29
"Roleplaying during sex?", 4.14
"Sexual toys during sex/masturbation?", 3.86
"Oral sex from somebody else?", 3.71
"Lactation?", 3.71
Bottom 5 'Real' kinks
"Wearing diapers WITH peeing/pooping?", 1.0
"Pooping during sex/masturbation?", 1.0
"Wearing diapers WITHOUT peeing/pooping?", 1.14
"Adult Baby play?", 1.43
"Peeing during sex/masturbation?", 1.43
Top 5 'Fictional' kinks
"Loving sex", 4.21
"Size play (one much larger than the other)", 4.21
"Impregnation (but not necessarily the pregnancy)", 4.14
"Anthropomorphic animals (furries etc)", 4.07
"Original characters", 3.86
Bottom 5 'Fictional' kinks
"Scat", 1.0
"Snuff (death)", 1.21
"Guro (blood and gore)", 1.36
"Diapers", 1.43
"Cocknipples", 1.79
Male identifying as male - 32 total
General 'Real' average = 2.45
General 'Fictional' average = 2.9
Average number of 1s for 'Real' kinks = 15.34
Average number of 5s for 'Real' kinks = 5.84
Average number of 1s for 'Fictional' kinks = 13.59
Average number of 5s for 'Fictional' kinks = 11.5
Top 5 'Real' kinks
"Oral sex from somebody else?", 3.53
"Roleplaying during sex?", 3.53
"Being submissive (taking orders being forced to do things) during sex?", 3.53
"Sexual activity from partner while you're busy with a non-sexual task?", 3.44
"Oral sex for somebody else?", 3.44
Bottom 5 'Real' kinks
"Pooping during sex/masturbation?", 1.09
"Blood/cutting?", 1.19
"Wearing diapers WITH peeing/pooping?", 1.25
"Wearing diapers WITHOUT peeing/pooping?", 1.38
"Torture bondage?", 1.41
Top 5 'Fictional' kinks
"Loving sex", 4.53
"Breast growth/large breasts", 3.97
"Girl on Girl", 3.94
"Transformation to animal/animal features", 3.84
"Anthropomorphic animals (furries etc)", 3.84
Bottom 5 'Fictional' kinks
"Scat", 1.28
"Guro (blood and gore)", 1.5
"Diapers", 1.53
"Snuff (death)", 1.56
"Odorous", 1.78
Other - 19 total
General 'Real' average = 2.93
General 'Fictional' average = 3.1
Average number of 1s for 'Real' kinks = 10.16
Average number of 5s for 'Real' kinks = 7.74
Average number of 1s for 'Fictional' kinks = 10.79
Average number of 5s for 'Fictional' kinks = 12.74
Top 5 'Real' kinks
"Sexual toys during sex/masturbation?", 4.11
"Oral sex for somebody else?", 3.95
"Oral sex from somebody else?", 3.74
"Crossdressing in private?", 3.74
"Breast growth via inducing lactation from excess nipple stimulation?", 3.74
Bottom 5 'Real' kinks
"Wearing diapers WITH peeing/pooping?", 1.21
"Pooping during sex/masturbation?", 1.26
"Adult Baby play?", 1.32
"Wearing diapers WITHOUT peeing/pooping?", 1.37
"Smoking?", 1.58
Top 5 'Fictional' kinks
"Anthropomorphic animals (furries etc)", 4.53
"Male becoming female", 4.32
"Transformation to animal/animal features", 4.11
"Monsters", 4.05
"Girl on Girl", 4.05
Bottom 5 'Fictional' kinks
"Scat", 1.32
"Diapers", 1.37
"Snuff (death)", 1.63
"Guro (blood and gore)", 1.84
"Odorous", 1.89
Differences between male and female kink averages (Not including 'other')
Top 5 females scored higher than males, real
"Sensory deprivation?", 1.04
"Exhibitionism?", 1.03
"Hidden vibrator when in public?", 0.94
"Labia pumping?", 0.86
"Sexual activity hidden in public?", 0.86
Top 5 males scored higher than females, real
"Inflation via fluids?", 0.53
"Inflation via air?", 0.31
"Wearing diapers WITH peeing/pooping?", 0.25
"Wearing diapers WITHOUT peeing/pooping?", 0.24
"Breast implants?", 0.18
Top 5 females scored higher than males, fictional
"Forced compliance to sex (unwanted but agreed to)", 0.87
"Monstrous/Alien", 0.83
""Mean" sex (revenge jealousy etc)", 0.8
"Female becoming male", 0.72
"Cute/Kawaii", 0.6
Top 5 males scored higher than females, fictional
"Testicle growth/large testicles", 0.77
"Penis growth/large penis", 0.61
"Transformation to animal/animal features", 0.55
"Inflation", 0.48
"Hyper penis", 0.42
Final Observations
I was one to think that females would be more likely to avoid weirder kinks than most males. But, from the data above, it looks like females actually scored kinks higher overall tham males. And, logically, those that fall under the "other" category seem to be more accepting of kinks in general.
Although, most important to point out is... the difference is really really small. It's easily accounted for just from having a small sample size. But I think overall, there's not too much difference between people, when it comes to "weird kinks", which is nice. Just a difference in "which kinks" people prefer.
The main point I want people to come from this is: Everybody has weird stuff they're into, it's okay to be into weird stuff, even if it's weird amongst the weirdos.
I'll leave the survey open for a while longer. I've saved the scripts I used to get the numbers, so I can easily rerun them later; it'll just be the manual notes that I likely won't be able to do again.
Any thoughts on how I handled this? Was this information interesting to you? Might there be anything else you guys might want to know from this?
FA+

I agree, of course, that the small sample size makes drawing any "proof" from your survey difficult. But the results you have are VERY interesting. I was quite surprised at what you found, and I'll definitely take some of these thoughts with me as I write. I've said before that scientists are very cool people. Who else would say:
"These test results cast everything I thought I understood about this subject into question...that's AWESOME!"
I think you can definitely take away that people are more complicated than we tend to think, and that casually categorizing them is a dangerous, and disrespectful, business. People WILL surprise you. Assumptions are meant to be broken. And, maybe, it might be worth the effort to ask first, to be sure.
Thanks for going to all that work, and to those who took the time to share their stories with you. I hope we all learned something in the process.
Rochndil, who has great respect for beings who approach learning with an open mind, a sense of wonder, and a good record-keeping system...