I seriously need to start stepping on others instead of being mister nice guy all the time

Everyday its looking more and more like im getting fucked over ... AGAIN
first it was ebay just a simple computer game bought paid for and wait ... wait ... wait nothing but life moves on

Then i commishioned a tail to work with my head paid for and wait ... wait ... wait, poked once at 5 months intime for FC where i needed it wait ...wait.... wait poked again at 10 months but now there is no responce ... i know ive been very patient and now im down right angery its been 13 months now  Gilligan

Now i saw one of these need help things on fa and i figured what the hell ill buy a old print of theres and i can give for a present to a freind and wait and wait .... wait [see a pattern] despite only light pokes its been 3 months to send somthing in the mail ......  ookami-girl but im hopfull here i can poke and still wait

Ad now yet again ebay is going to let me down ... bought a clothing item that is abit too personal to walk into a local store and buy new but i was happy i found it, had shipping info and waited ... oops was wrongly sent to another city/state/country but it was supposed to be looked after but i still wait for its arrival

GAWD DAMMIT I HATE BEING THE NICE GUY

how manny others find themselves in such situations?