That guy is desperate...and never wants to move on in his life. Shame on him.

such stress...

good lord that sucks that your ex is being so dramatic. i know when me and me ex split up i was upset yes, but never did i think about doing anything like that. well i hope your ex leaves you alone and gets some help they really seem to need some. all i can say is don't let your self feel responsible because it's not on you with whatever your unstable ex does.

wtf

Sorry to hear that happened :/

i have spent a few moments pondering how to address you and also how to arrainge what i know to be true in things like this. so with zero intent i am just going to type as if you were one of long term close freinds . this is said without knowledge of details and is framed to try to address most posabilities.


hun, this is literally a game to both try to get you to do what he wants (insert whatever it may be and a way to vent what he feels as pain, unless he is utterly callous then he is just plain fucking with you)
as it stands no matter what you feel your responsibility as a human may be . he is not your responsibility and its not your fault for his actions good or bad.your best bet is to get a bunch of distance between you and him for a while. that is an immature action on his part. and overall each of us human beings deserve far better.
and with that, sorry that has happened hope it resolves very soon.

thank you. he likes to use pity to keep me talking but this is just too far. im not forgiving him for this torment, and i know there is NO reason for me to take the blame for this. i helped him as much as i could. I have not cheated or anything i just left him.

thank you for your support

well one of the things that comes with being feline and a strong observer of people is that tendancy to be willing to call behaviour for what it trully is .

you cannot continue to be held responsable for things any others do including him - be that his day to day actions nor actions he does in responce tp your saying enough is enough and choosing to step away... as humans we owe eachother a certain basic level of (for lack of better words being adult) and that has not been met by his actions .
peace be with you fellow cat :)

Sorry to hear it , i had some really bad experience myself with creazy boyfriend...

im sorry to hear I hope youre okay

depends , its still not something you can forget , was quite not nice but its easier after so many years , but thanks too

thank everyone for your support