Buhr has been really down again lately. Down enough that I was getting paranoid. I needed to figure out if anything I'm doing was part of the problem. Well, yay, it's not. But it led to us re-discussing being poly. I asked him what was stuff that made him uncomfortable, what were things that he was okay with, what was in the grey area? ...Because he feels like I've given him the eternal hall pass (bahahaha) he says I can pretty much do whatever I want, as long as I tell him, & the max amount of relationships with penises he wants me in is 5 (oh my gosh this precious baby, what would I do without him). He couldn't figure out why I couldn't stop laughing, so I finally had to admit that 5 was probably more than I could handle. Love this guy.