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8 years ago
rgreen13 has spawned in the room
rgreen13To everyone who was worried about me yesterday, I'm sorry... if you wanna know what happened:
I was in a Telegram group with a few friends and one of them PM'd me saying that I was clingy to another. I kinda agreed with them and started to feel bad because I realized that I am a clingy person. I'm always wanting attention from someone or a group of people but then when I get it...I turn shy. I feel like such an attention whore. Anyways, I sent the guy I was all over the logs of what happened and kinda...overreacted. I started being totally under myself and saying that I didn't deserve him. He then got mad at me because he tries so hard to keep me happy yet I came to him totally upset. He didn't want to talk to me then...but I feel like he never wants to talk to me again. He was like the Taro Yamada to my Ayano Aishi and now I'm just...heartbroken...
After he said that he didn't wanna talk I just felt...useless...I still feel kinda useless even though I kinda got over it last night...
I was in a Telegram group with a few friends and one of them PM'd me saying that I was clingy to another. I kinda agreed with them and started to feel bad because I realized that I am a clingy person. I'm always wanting attention from someone or a group of people but then when I get it...I turn shy. I feel like such an attention whore. Anyways, I sent the guy I was all over the logs of what happened and kinda...overreacted. I started being totally under myself and saying that I didn't deserve him. He then got mad at me because he tries so hard to keep me happy yet I came to him totally upset. He didn't want to talk to me then...but I feel like he never wants to talk to me again. He was like the Taro Yamada to my Ayano Aishi and now I'm just...heartbroken...
After he said that he didn't wanna talk I just felt...useless...I still feel kinda useless even though I kinda got over it last night...
rgreen13 has left the room 
If people have an issue they will tell you and you can deal with it with them. Don't listen to other people
I'm really sorry that all happened tho I've went through a similar thing with a guy who ended up being really abusive v: (not saying its the same thing, just something similar)
As a couple others have mentioned, there's no problem with being clingy. So long as it's not, like, possessive, yknow? ..If that made sense..
People will either like it or not. If they do, that's good. If not, they'll either talk to you about it or fuck off. Which is also good.
Tbh, it's kind of a dick move for the guy to get pissed at you and that's hes "trying to keep you happy". If he was really trying to, he would have talked it out with you, not get pissed.
Then again, I dont know him personally so I cant really say much on that matter.
Either way, it'll be okay, friendo.