yea if found that at would probly also due to my wa of releasing stress in talking is to make jokes would probly reference the swallowing few times may have other implications or something XD

Mazz, I hope one day to get to know you better, if only to show that not all of us Y-chromosomes are abusive assholes. I can't quite tell if you're really gay or not, but either way is fine by me too.

(One of Tacet's and my closest friends is a little gay Canadian guy who's both a mensch and a genuine Renaissance Man. One of the greatest favors any person ever did me was disabuse me of all the right-wing tropes about gay/les/bi folks that I'd been raised with, back when I was in college. I wasn't the only one to repent my sins, either; my mother's now as staunchly liberal as I am. )

I'm Pansexual technically

It's all good. I give pansexual birdy hugs, at least.

It's still a form of gay

Maybe so but at least in this corner it truly is all good. I'm glad your family is coming around to acceptance, though.

Most of my family accept gays as a rule, but follow it up with "not in my backyard". A double standard saying "as long as it isn't my kids."

I almost wonder why I'm not a lesbian after the abuse I went through. Not just 2 previous mates that used their Y-chromosome as their G-d given right to beat me, abuse me, actually rape me... I had to be in a special ed summer camp with kids with more significant issues than I did because I would just be beaten up at regular camp with mainstream peers. The broken ankle incident just made the "kick me" sign in my back even MORE obvious.
I still don't know why one kid shoving me into the men's restroom and wouldn't let me free until I stabbed him with my all metal and very pointy math compass was ok in his head! To be honest he might have been stoned, he didn't seem to be aware. I didn't ask questions after I ran out if the men's room, or the hall monitor calling after me not to sprint down the hall.


It's the way we're wired, some of us like me aren't attracted to women despite a few bad eggs with men. ArchTeryx would tell you both me and my pet rabbit both had trust issues with men early on. I don't think abuse is the single deciding favor in sexuality.

I'd hope your family would be accepting of what your went through and who you like and accept that person that for once, asks you feel safe and loved and is a safe person to be with. Maybe even a devoted parent figure to Angel.
Some people only realize their sexuality after they get married, or knew it a long time ago but their religion and community dictated a certain accepted lifestyle. I know one furry whose trapped in the latter as a probably closeted gay but can't come out to his Quaker second family.
You know your furries friends here won't judge, we are a diverse group.

And yes, I adore the Canadian gay friend. He's awesome. He isn't gay for misogynistic reasons and is more than happy to give me cuddles. He just likes men dating wise.

that's amazing, i'm really happy for you ;w;

It's better than what I would have expected. IT came out of nowhere to which was hella weird.

weird but good ;w;

HOly shit thats awesome!