Relationship Meme because :D
8 years ago
General
IT'S
ROBERTVARULFUR'S BIRTHDAY TODAY!!! And everyone loves cutesy sappy crap, right? Otherwise you probably wouldn't follow my art haha.
Stolen from
imogeneyre -- if you don't follow her already, you should :)
1. Who eats more?
Probably me. Robert lives off of baked potatoes and is a stick.
2. Who said “I love you” first?
Technically me, but it was an auto-correct/sleep deprived typo (meant to type "I love taking to you") while we were texting at 2 AM while we were dating long-distance (after only a few weeks) and I didn't mean it HAHA. He responded back that he was taken off-guard but he loved me too :D So... both?
3. Who is the morning person?
Neither. We kind of rotate. He woke up really early for work for a while but I generally fully wake up faster than he does/I'm not as grouchy.
4. Who sings better?
We both are terrible. He says he likes my singing though.
5. Who’s older?
Him! By just a couple months, but he was a grade ahead of me in school. My birthday is in November.
6. Who’s smarter?
We are equal, but he's more into debate and studying truly random things just for the sake of knowledge. He is more "practically" smart. I got slightly better grades/scores in school and college though.
7. Whose temper is worse?
I get grumpy at technology being annoying and yell at my computer a lot but it is just cathartic/I'm not really "angry" more than annoyed. He gets hangry if he doesn't have his baked potato on time more frequently xD
8. Who does the laundry?
We do our own. He has fewer clothes than I do, so he does his more frequently. I would never trust him with anything delicate haha.
9. Who does the dishes?
Usually him. I hate dirty dishes.
10. Who sleeps on what side of the bed?
I'm on the right, he's on the left. He is VERY attached to his spot on the bed and gets very offended if someone is in it (me or the animals)
11. Whose feet are bigger?
His, but he has managed to fit them in my sandals before in a pinch haha
12. Whose hair is longer?
Mine is halfway to my butt, he could only dream of his being that long xD
13. Who’s better with the computer?
Probably me? I worked as a Microsoft expert for a few years and now I write computer manuals for a living. He isn't "technologically illiterate" though.
14. Do you have pets?
Yep - 3 rats, 4 axolotls, 2 dogs, 2 cats, 4 goldfish, 9 guppies, 2 domestic pigeons, and 2 ball pythons! We're big on rescue and I love aquascaping big aquariums.
15. Who pays the bills?
Joint accounts. I pay most of the utilities since I signed up for them, but they are under both our names and he pays his student loans.
16. Who cooks dinner?
I usually do, but we do Blue Apron together when we can afford it.
17. Who drives when you are together?
Robert haha. I hate driving and he's scared of my driving. I drive perfectly well and do to work twice a week, but he thinks I'm overly cautious.
18. Who pays when you go out to dinner?
Joint accouuunnntsssss but I let him swipe the card because in our southernish town, the servers/front desk folks obviously look down on him and judge if it looks like I'm paying HA
19. Who’s the most stubborn?
Probably him.
20. Who is the first one to admit when they’re wrong?
We aren't wrong very often. It's usually just a misunderstanding because we couldn't think of the right word, so further explanation means neither of us were really wrong.
21. Whose family do you see more?
His because they are only 1.5 hours away while mine are 3 hours away. Lately we've seen a lot of my family, though, because of the pregnancy/funeral.
22. Who named your pet?
Both of us, but I usually get naming dibs on critters I take care of. Robert only named one of the cats.
23. Who kissed who first?
He took me off guard and kissed me before we were dating, back when we were just best friends visiting! I was apparently a brick wall because I was so surprised haha
24. Who asked who out?
He kissed me. Then I kissed him back and we were pretty much dating xD I don't think he actually asked me out.
25. What did you do on your first date?
First date once we lived in the same city was to the local park, which has a huge cave. There was an endangered bat migration going on and we were watching it (like everyone else, it wasn't against the rules or anything and they had park rangers around), but one flew into my arm and I had to go get rabies shots xDxD Hence Silvie's werebat origins.
26. Who’s more sensitive?
Probably me.
27. Who’s taller?
Him
28. Who has more friends?
Him -- everyone at my work is pretty much at least 10 years older than me and has kids. My old friends from high school are in different cities doing different things. So.... not much socializing for me haha. I have my animals instead and spend all my time taking care of them!
29. Who has more siblings?
We both have one sibling. He has a sister, I have a brother. Same ages!
30. Who wears the pants in the relationship?
Neither. He is more strict with money and saying no to new foster animals (usually), but I am more practical when it comes to paying bills on time and moving forward in life -- i.e. after we had waffled and hinted to each-other about them for some time, I directly brought up getting engaged, picking a wedding date, buying a house, having kids, etc. and we went from there.
Now go spam his page with birthday messages xD
This year I got him the collector's edition Spice and Wolf collection. It's super pretty. And he has one more gift he hasn't opened/that hasn't arrived yet, stupid Amazon.
ROBERTVARULFUR'S BIRTHDAY TODAY!!! And everyone loves cutesy sappy crap, right? Otherwise you probably wouldn't follow my art haha.Stolen from
imogeneyre -- if you don't follow her already, you should :)1. Who eats more?
Probably me. Robert lives off of baked potatoes and is a stick.
2. Who said “I love you” first?
Technically me, but it was an auto-correct/sleep deprived typo (meant to type "I love taking to you") while we were texting at 2 AM while we were dating long-distance (after only a few weeks) and I didn't mean it HAHA. He responded back that he was taken off-guard but he loved me too :D So... both?
3. Who is the morning person?
Neither. We kind of rotate. He woke up really early for work for a while but I generally fully wake up faster than he does/I'm not as grouchy.
4. Who sings better?
We both are terrible. He says he likes my singing though.
5. Who’s older?
Him! By just a couple months, but he was a grade ahead of me in school. My birthday is in November.
6. Who’s smarter?
We are equal, but he's more into debate and studying truly random things just for the sake of knowledge. He is more "practically" smart. I got slightly better grades/scores in school and college though.
7. Whose temper is worse?
I get grumpy at technology being annoying and yell at my computer a lot but it is just cathartic/I'm not really "angry" more than annoyed. He gets hangry if he doesn't have his baked potato on time more frequently xD
8. Who does the laundry?
We do our own. He has fewer clothes than I do, so he does his more frequently. I would never trust him with anything delicate haha.
9. Who does the dishes?
Usually him. I hate dirty dishes.
10. Who sleeps on what side of the bed?
I'm on the right, he's on the left. He is VERY attached to his spot on the bed and gets very offended if someone is in it (me or the animals)
11. Whose feet are bigger?
His, but he has managed to fit them in my sandals before in a pinch haha
12. Whose hair is longer?
Mine is halfway to my butt, he could only dream of his being that long xD
13. Who’s better with the computer?
Probably me? I worked as a Microsoft expert for a few years and now I write computer manuals for a living. He isn't "technologically illiterate" though.
14. Do you have pets?
Yep - 3 rats, 4 axolotls, 2 dogs, 2 cats, 4 goldfish, 9 guppies, 2 domestic pigeons, and 2 ball pythons! We're big on rescue and I love aquascaping big aquariums.
15. Who pays the bills?
Joint accounts. I pay most of the utilities since I signed up for them, but they are under both our names and he pays his student loans.
16. Who cooks dinner?
I usually do, but we do Blue Apron together when we can afford it.
17. Who drives when you are together?
Robert haha. I hate driving and he's scared of my driving. I drive perfectly well and do to work twice a week, but he thinks I'm overly cautious.
18. Who pays when you go out to dinner?
Joint accouuunnntsssss but I let him swipe the card because in our southernish town, the servers/front desk folks obviously look down on him and judge if it looks like I'm paying HA
19. Who’s the most stubborn?
Probably him.
20. Who is the first one to admit when they’re wrong?
We aren't wrong very often. It's usually just a misunderstanding because we couldn't think of the right word, so further explanation means neither of us were really wrong.
21. Whose family do you see more?
His because they are only 1.5 hours away while mine are 3 hours away. Lately we've seen a lot of my family, though, because of the pregnancy/funeral.
22. Who named your pet?
Both of us, but I usually get naming dibs on critters I take care of. Robert only named one of the cats.
23. Who kissed who first?
He took me off guard and kissed me before we were dating, back when we were just best friends visiting! I was apparently a brick wall because I was so surprised haha
24. Who asked who out?
He kissed me. Then I kissed him back and we were pretty much dating xD I don't think he actually asked me out.
25. What did you do on your first date?
First date once we lived in the same city was to the local park, which has a huge cave. There was an endangered bat migration going on and we were watching it (like everyone else, it wasn't against the rules or anything and they had park rangers around), but one flew into my arm and I had to go get rabies shots xDxD Hence Silvie's werebat origins.
26. Who’s more sensitive?
Probably me.
27. Who’s taller?
Him
28. Who has more friends?
Him -- everyone at my work is pretty much at least 10 years older than me and has kids. My old friends from high school are in different cities doing different things. So.... not much socializing for me haha. I have my animals instead and spend all my time taking care of them!
29. Who has more siblings?
We both have one sibling. He has a sister, I have a brother. Same ages!
30. Who wears the pants in the relationship?
Neither. He is more strict with money and saying no to new foster animals (usually), but I am more practical when it comes to paying bills on time and moving forward in life -- i.e. after we had waffled and hinted to each-other about them for some time, I directly brought up getting engaged, picking a wedding date, buying a house, having kids, etc. and we went from there.
Now go spam his page with birthday messages xD
This year I got him the collector's edition Spice and Wolf collection. It's super pretty. And he has one more gift he hasn't opened/that hasn't arrived yet, stupid Amazon.
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