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I make this journal in order to keep you informed.
Today, VenLightChaser and I have been agressed by our father. He hurted us more or less : Ven got strangled by the neck and bitted, and I (lucky) got nails in the arm.
He also broke my car front glass, tried to broke my keys by sending them on the highway and tried to get ride of my back door when I finally resulted to run away.
We are actually safe. Our pets are too. We are in a BIG shock ; I cry every ten minutes, my nails are destroyed, there is blood on my car. Ven got mark on the neck and on the arm, we have to go to the hospital to make a check up (since my head turn, I wait to be in a better state cause it would be dangerous as I can fell at any moment)
Our firend are here and are 2mn away if anything happen during thenight. The Police is prevented but did NOTHING on the moment. (So the Father ran away when he saw them. Coward. )
He treathened us because we said " no " to take a picture. A FUCKING PICTURE. As I stated I wanted " no picture today " and he tried to take me behind my back.
He then processed to hit us while screaming "If you are really the man you PRETEND to be, then come to fight" ; he blocked us the way, lucky enough some tourist protected us in their home while we called the police.
I was supposed to work today, I'll try it. But I'm in a big shock time, I just need to disappear, to cry my ass off, to see my mom who isn't home until the 25th...
I'm sorry to be that mess you have to deal with.
Psilone
I make this journal in order to keep you informed.
Today, VenLightChaser and I have been agressed by our father. He hurted us more or less : Ven got strangled by the neck and bitted, and I (lucky) got nails in the arm.
He also broke my car front glass, tried to broke my keys by sending them on the highway and tried to get ride of my back door when I finally resulted to run away.
We are actually safe. Our pets are too. We are in a BIG shock ; I cry every ten minutes, my nails are destroyed, there is blood on my car. Ven got mark on the neck and on the arm, we have to go to the hospital to make a check up (since my head turn, I wait to be in a better state cause it would be dangerous as I can fell at any moment)
Our firend are here and are 2mn away if anything happen during thenight. The Police is prevented but did NOTHING on the moment. (So the Father ran away when he saw them. Coward. )
He treathened us because we said " no " to take a picture. A FUCKING PICTURE. As I stated I wanted " no picture today " and he tried to take me behind my back.
He then processed to hit us while screaming "If you are really the man you PRETEND to be, then come to fight" ; he blocked us the way, lucky enough some tourist protected us in their home while we called the police.
I was supposed to work today, I'll try it. But I'm in a big shock time, I just need to disappear, to cry my ass off, to see my mom who isn't home until the 25th...
I'm sorry to be that mess you have to deal with.
Psilone
Dans tous les cas, je vous souhaite bien du courage à tous les deux, et un bon rétablissement. mais surtout, prenez le plus rapidement possible des dispositions contre lui, car vu ce que tu décris, il m'a l'air de partir au quart de tour et est donc totalement imprévisible.
La police nous a dit (sur les lieux!) "il est tranquillement chez lui, on ne va pas aller l'arrĂȘter pour si peu" ; Ils l'ont laissĂ© se casser en le regardant les mains dans les poches.
Je comprends mieux pourquoi les femmes battues n'osent pas porter plainte pour ĂȘtre honnĂȘte :/ ...
En attendant oui, les urgences nous font parvenir le certificat demain matin, et on va Ă la police avec un des tĂ©moins pour porter encore une plainte car il a tout de mĂȘme dĂ©truit mon pare brise Ă coup de poing... Et que sans plainte l'assurance fera rien.
Mais lĂ il a vu la police, ça lui fait tellement peur qu'il ne m'a mĂȘme pas contacter par sms ; mais bon on se demande qui est """"l'homme''''' du coup :')
(Ăa va mieux lĂ , au delĂ du choc c'est surtout qu'on le trouve pathĂ©tique maintenant.)
EN attendant, le plus important c'est que vous vous Ă©loignez de lui, et que vous vous remettiez du choc. Courage, et bonne chance Ă vous deux.
(i'm not patronizing but Psi and Ven are not girls- they're trans men.)
He won't approach us now that he saw we called the police once, we got protection in case of problems ( our house owner were there even before the police to help us with the car and they live 1 min from here, all we have to do is to call them and they come at our home :) )
Get in touch with your mum and tell her what's happened. Maybe she can talk some sense into the twat >.>
Also talk about this with your bro and any close friends. Getting it off of your chest will help you process it :)
Mom is informed and she reassured us, we called the police so he will be so afraid that he won't show himself. Who's the '''man''' as he asked, I wonder....
we're better now, thanks <3
Thank you for your words!
Unbelievable.
But it'll be good, don't worry, and thank you <3
You don't deserve that treatment nor does your brother.
If the normality of work helps calm you and restructure yourself that is good- don't force yourself though if you need to just be with your brother and collect yourselves. Find a adult in your family you can talk to about the matter and get the heck out of your fathers range of access ASAP!!!
*hugs* Being shocked is acceptable- and I also understand if you get too overwhelmed to respond or be active here for a bit. Thank you for letting us all know and take care of yourselves!!
Don't worry about family ties, it's the last person I would care about tbh... I'm just chocked by the fact he still act as the victim right now... Damn, what a child... >:[
Art helps me with stress too but the adminduties defiantly are hard for me when I'm "low spoons".
LMK if you need help or anything- I can't be a perma mod but I'm more than happy to step into streams or w/e to help ease the burden while y'all sort things out! :)
We will recover, we always do! Thank you for your concern //hug//
It will be good, weshould found a normal schedule in approx two days I hope!
Assaulting People for no or Nonsense reasons is not a Good Thing.
Also i would throw him in the Courts the Pay you and Ven Money for what he Did.
If i had seen it he would had get Peppersprayed until he Crys like a little Baby.
But I will fight to get my car repaired at least (the front glass is half broken, it's dangerous to drive like that now... ) and trust me, he tried to hit Ven (and kinda resulted) but he ended up with several defense injuries... I wonder how he will explain that to his friends... Hopefully he broke his hand while breaking my front glasse (damn, these thing can stay still in a car accident O_O....)
but i alread forgot in which part of France you where. ^^
also if i can get the funds for a Week in France includimh travel costs.
On savait qu'un jour ça exploserait, mais on s'attendait pas à ce genre de chose. Il a déjà 4 plaintes pour coups et violences sur le dos, ça fera jamais que la 5Úme sans que justice soit faite... :/
Nah, seriously, thank you <3
Just say the word and il bring my voodoo kit when i come over ;...;
It'll be ok, he shouldn't bother us when you'll be there, he would be highly surprised. Mom isn't in France atm, but she's a maman lion... You don't touch her children gdi!
<3 I can't wait your holiday time btw!!!