Wish I could help you there, but I haven't figured it out myself. Good luck though.

Thanks Kurri, I wish you luck as well.

You and I are on the same boat, except for me, it involves women. But yeah, I know how you feel.

The first thing that you must do is come to terms with rejection. This will be the hardest part of this entire process. You have to understand that rejection is part of the game. That is simply how relationships work. Not asking because you are afraid of rejection is basically rejection by proxy. It is also a form of self-fulfilling prophecy. The best way that I have found to come to terms with rejection is to put it into perspective. If you get rejected, put it out of your mind and Move On.

Doing this will help you with the next step, which is building confidence. The best way to do this is to simply know what you want and ask for it. Not being afraid of rejection will go a long way toward building confidence. As cliché as it sounds, you know what you want, so go and ask for it. Be prepared for rejection know what she want, all the same.

What used to help me was being observational. "Hi, this is a bit awkward for me, but I had a question for you." Sometimes, being genuine and honest will go a long way.

I think you still have me on Skype. Hit me up if I can be of any more assistance

I am not too sure how i ended up in mine it just kinda happened XD i wish you the best Sylox im around if you ever wanna talk bro!

Thanks for the kind words, Kenta.

I completely know exactly where you're coming from there. For me it's harder because I have aspergers and high anxiety. I too would like to meet someone and have a life for myself but too fear rejection. I've been rejected in everything from socializing to even employment. I wish there was some help out there but sadly there isn't.

I guess just approach them! The worst thing is they say no, and then you can continue on. There may be something better ahead later on~

I've been rejected a few times. My current bf and I got together gradually, we spent more time together and the moment felt right. But one thing that I did when I was younger (25 1/2 so we're probably quite close in age) was get too eager and excited about the labels. I wanted an instant boyfriend. When I was a teenager I even once went on a date with a guy and it was just a date...but I read it wrong and started telling everyone I had a boyfriend when all we had done was gone on one date.

Dating is brutal, but in the end it is rewarding when you find that right someone. Don't rush it but don't be afraid either. And never drop the L-bomb unless you're really committed, I scared some people off with throwing that around when I shouldn't have. I've been with my bf almost a year now and with my situation that's a long time. The point isn't that I want to brag. The point is that things do indeed come with time and if you want to find someone, take the initiative to make the first steps. Like dominoes, things will eventually fall into place.

Note that all this is my opinion from my own personal experiences. Take it with a grain of salt. I think it was clear enough above but just in case- I am a homosexual man (in theory a guy can ask a girl out and assume she's straight...gay men have to have a bit more intuition and something to go on first, eh? Makes it harder unfortunately).

If for any reason you read this and want to talk to me, PM anytime. Also, I REPEAT- this is OPINION. I don't want people to start shouting at me for being wrong or not having facts straight.

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