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Apparent Warning about me. Please read.
8 years ago
As it turns out there is a warning out there about me. I need people to understand.
I can not find the original messages nor journal mentioned, so I have no proof anymore, but this is all i can do.
It is true, most of it. However there are some things that need to be understood about the situation.
1) The person who "worked in the same facility as (me)", became obsessed with me and i blocked them when i found out they believed i wanted to date them when i was already hapilly engaged to someone else. I ended up leaving that job partially because of said person. They, to this day, are the only person I've ever blocked here.
2) I did read the messages, but because of my limited and often non-existant internet access, i wasn't able to respond.
3) I remember saying that they didn't need to pay me in full in advance. I know circumstances change and so more often than not, i don't ask for money ahead of time.
4) I don't always get things done quickly, especially anything of what i consider 'real quality'. Shamus can testify that even though it took me a year to get the memorial piece they paid me for done, it is still one of the best pieces I've done yet, and had to be significantly scaled down to even post. I sent the original to them in an email so they could have the full version. It isn't that i had no intention of finishing the piece, i just did not have the means.
5) The piece in question required the use of a working oven, which i did not have, and currently do not have as i am living, with my fiance, in a borrowed rv outside of his grandmother's house, which is infested with cockroaches and mice/rats so i don't want to even be in the house myself, let alone subject a paying customer/commissioner to any of it.
6) I haven't been able to pay for anything "extra" as my account has been literally in the negative by at least $200 USD every week, just trying to pay for a lemon car that i got due to a car accident that i was not at fault for, medical expenses which have also not been paid for by the car insurance company (pain and suffering), paying rent, and for trying to pay a lawfirm to get mine and my fiance's credit fixed so we can get a place.
7) I knew that PayPal would pay them back, knowing that i couldn't. I know this isn't really the right way to go about things but i don't/didn't really have a choice. Especially since the first thing my fiance and i will be doing once we're married is to file bankruptcy. We. Have. No. Other. Options. I make next to nothing doing my art as (even BEFORE the warning) nobody wants to pay me for my art.
8) I was working 2 and 3 jobs to try to make ends meet (in addition to my fiance working his ass off) and so had had next to no time to get anything else done. Then i lost two Of those Jobs and had to try to find new ones. Even doing this, we've still been in the negative.
9) Before living in this rv, we were living with a crazy bitch who not only contributed to the stress that ultimately was a part of why our cat (Binxy) died, but when she heard me mentioning it, threatened to shoot me. Later that same day, i overheard her talking about shooting and KILLING not only me, but my fiance (who only tried to diffuse the addition between us) as well.
10) All in the same week, i was threatened with death, my fiance was threatened with death, our cat died, i lost my job, and we became homeless.
I understand where they were coming from, but they (and you) need to understand my side as well.
Thank you.
Edit: The last message they have up there that i sent them, they did give me their email, however i didn't have internet (relyably) again until after the settlement wad completed anyway.
I can not find the original messages nor journal mentioned, so I have no proof anymore, but this is all i can do.
It is true, most of it. However there are some things that need to be understood about the situation.
1) The person who "worked in the same facility as (me)", became obsessed with me and i blocked them when i found out they believed i wanted to date them when i was already hapilly engaged to someone else. I ended up leaving that job partially because of said person. They, to this day, are the only person I've ever blocked here.
2) I did read the messages, but because of my limited and often non-existant internet access, i wasn't able to respond.
3) I remember saying that they didn't need to pay me in full in advance. I know circumstances change and so more often than not, i don't ask for money ahead of time.
4) I don't always get things done quickly, especially anything of what i consider 'real quality'. Shamus can testify that even though it took me a year to get the memorial piece they paid me for done, it is still one of the best pieces I've done yet, and had to be significantly scaled down to even post. I sent the original to them in an email so they could have the full version. It isn't that i had no intention of finishing the piece, i just did not have the means.
5) The piece in question required the use of a working oven, which i did not have, and currently do not have as i am living, with my fiance, in a borrowed rv outside of his grandmother's house, which is infested with cockroaches and mice/rats so i don't want to even be in the house myself, let alone subject a paying customer/commissioner to any of it.
6) I haven't been able to pay for anything "extra" as my account has been literally in the negative by at least $200 USD every week, just trying to pay for a lemon car that i got due to a car accident that i was not at fault for, medical expenses which have also not been paid for by the car insurance company (pain and suffering), paying rent, and for trying to pay a lawfirm to get mine and my fiance's credit fixed so we can get a place.
7) I knew that PayPal would pay them back, knowing that i couldn't. I know this isn't really the right way to go about things but i don't/didn't really have a choice. Especially since the first thing my fiance and i will be doing once we're married is to file bankruptcy. We. Have. No. Other. Options. I make next to nothing doing my art as (even BEFORE the warning) nobody wants to pay me for my art.
8) I was working 2 and 3 jobs to try to make ends meet (in addition to my fiance working his ass off) and so had had next to no time to get anything else done. Then i lost two Of those Jobs and had to try to find new ones. Even doing this, we've still been in the negative.
9) Before living in this rv, we were living with a crazy bitch who not only contributed to the stress that ultimately was a part of why our cat (Binxy) died, but when she heard me mentioning it, threatened to shoot me. Later that same day, i overheard her talking about shooting and KILLING not only me, but my fiance (who only tried to diffuse the addition between us) as well.
10) All in the same week, i was threatened with death, my fiance was threatened with death, our cat died, i lost my job, and we became homeless.
I understand where they were coming from, but they (and you) need to understand my side as well.
Thank you.
Edit: The last message they have up there that i sent them, they did give me their email, however i didn't have internet (relyably) again until after the settlement wad completed anyway.
i am really sad to know how things have been going for you and your fiance, specially with that...woman, i wish you the best
If you want, I'm doing all of my traditional art as PWYW or free for paying referral. Basically if you refer someone who pays for something (anything, regardless of what they pay), you get the same type of piece for free. Otherwise i might be doing a "you might get picked randomly from this" list for freebies later on.
meanwhile, i will cheering you up (and your fiance) and trying to help you...any way i can
also...if anytime you come to mexico, tell me, i could be your guide ^^ (inside mexico city XD )
You can tell them I don't just do furry things. I do portraits, tattoo designs, interior designs, landscaping designs, greeting cards, logos, business cards, adoptables (including but not limited to pixel sprites), and more. They just need to ask. I'm on FB if it would be better for them to get a hold of me there, or via my new business phone number (which has been added to my profile). And I love a good challenge.
The person who issued the warning has gotten in contact with me and is willing to recind it if I produce the promised pendant!
Currently I'm waiting to find out about a living space, so once I have one and a working oven, then I can work at actually completing it.
sending you the best vibes and thoughts to you, wishing the bad moments go away