Ooh, ouch. Yeah, I been there.

you're NOT the bad guy sweetie. Please, don't beat yourself up. I know what this is about, and i know how to help. But you has to want it too. ::huggles:: please don't do this to yourself.

Hey hun I doubt you're the bad guy in this scenario. I don't know what it is, but if you need to vent you have my number and my IM screennames. *hugs tight*

*huggles* You are always my fav coon-butt ^..^

Hey man, you really shouldn't blame yourself. It is is rarely one person's fault entirely. And even then, there is always a good explanation and a way to see it in a positive light, even if that just means wisdom gained so it won't happen again.

But you are not the bad guy. The bad guy is the one who is sitting somewhere gleefully unaware or apathetic that you are sitting here hurting. You are man enough to at least admit a mistake and hopefully try to improve from it so it doesn't happen again. That deserves more respect than you are giving yourself.

Nobody's perfect. But man's biggest mistake is not that he makes mistakes, it's if he doesn't learn from them. And if a man never makes a mistake, he's not a real man. (more like a robot, hehe).

Listen, if you need to talk to me about ANY of this, please don't hesitate. I will talk to you in a message, or I will talk to you in person when I see you this weekend. I have a pretty good take on this, I'd like to think, and I really want to see you work this out. And I believe you will, you just need to stop blaming yourself, because that doesn't allow forward movement. Allow yourself to grow from this, allow the other person to grow from this. Maybe you will both grow together. But you will be stronger for it, this I promise.

*hugs tight* You know how to reach me if you need to.

What all these lovely people say. They're right.

You can always call me, too. :) Even if I don't know all the details (yet).
*hugs*